guys love it big...as long as its not all over the place and flabby...just nice and clean. id keep it fat AND make grands!!
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guys love it big...as long as its not all over the place and flabby...just nice and clean. id keep it fat AND make grands!!
If your pussy lips are as described, it will not hinder your money. My clit hood is long and my inner labia hang out, but it has never been a problem when working nude. Sure, some guys do prefer the tucked in and tiny look, but just as many like to see more. In the end, the shape of your pussy is of way less importance than your confidence and sales skills.
Oh yea, if guys ever say anything about your "size" through your booty shorts.... Just giggle, tell them you're swollen because you're so turned on and sell them a dance or 10 : )
Guys can be such ASSES!!!!!! I have a very tiny innie , nothing is out unless im turned on, I guess similar to porn stars and PLayboy. But I have always secretly wanted a more "womanly" vag. Men tell me I have a baby pus! Who know what they prefer. Just be happy to be a woman. Love your pussies! I finally love mine!
That is just sad. My best girlfriend is very very thin with a huge outie, so it looks even bigger than it is. I've heard her endure so many comments like the above--mostly from other girls. I wanted to beat some ass for her. You almost can't pick something more personal to insult a person over.
IMO: If you aren't licking it, fucking it, or worshiping it, then keep your comments to yourself!
Making light of the situation and the vagina hatred out there in the world.
Hehehe... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VR4O68kUj5c
I've worked in nude clubs for a total of several years. I hardly notice anymore if they took their bottom off or not, but once in a while if you glance at the stage and they are spreading their legs aggressively right when and where you are looking, you see it all. So I've seen all kinds of dancers kitties, trust me. The innies make no more than the outies, no doubt about it.
The after pic is fine, if you look anything like it, you should relax and be proud of that flower.
Aww... sorry to hear that Lysondra. I always imagined Australia to be a magical, backwards upside-down world. Where big pussies are loved and admired and the streets are paved with gold.... by kangaroos.
i just had my labia reduced--mainly for comfort reasons, although i am a dancer. i'm not finished healing, and already it's so much better.
i've always worked at nude clubs, and having larger lips was never a problem. in fact, i was one of the top earners at my club. (i've been off to have a baby) sure, you get the occasional moron asking about your 'roast beef.' which, honestly, in 4 years of dancing was only once or twice.
i think it's funny too, how some guys think the bigger the lips--the looser the va-jj. the two sizes are completely independent of one another. i have a rather small/tight interior (so my hubby tells me), with a rather voluptuous exterior.
so, if you're contemplating the surgery (yes, some surgeons will reduce the majora)--do it for yourself and how you feel about it. don't just do it for the men or anyone for that matter! there's such a huge array of hoo-hoos in the world. and to be specific to the original post--that after photo is, imo, nearly perfect and in the middle of sizes. actually, it's very close to what i look like now. i'm not tiny now, just much more proportioned, and i fit perfectly in my undies, lol!
also, sweetpetite, dancing and doing well at it is more about your confidence and work ethic than just looks. you'll probably find that nude dancing will seem like second nature once you do it for a while. there isn't much difference, imo, than topless. if you are really self-conscious even after the 'newness' wears off, you're probably not going to be happy in this line of work. (not sure how long/if you've been dancing)
I think as long as you have a pussy and not a cock the guys will like it! And really, the "after" pic isn't that big anyway.
your before pussy sounds just like what i have right now. i really damn tight inside, I've been told many times but the outside is nice and fat lol and appears that i would be looser inside.
did you just have the labia majora reduction or minora? Is there noticeable scarring?
i think i may visit a all nude club before trying to work at one first, just to see what the other girls bits look like...
i had my minora reduced. there is a scar, but it's been a little over two weeks now, and i can hardly tell. when i'm finished healing, i'm sure it'll be practically impossible to tell anything was done. my ob/gyn did the procedure. he's experienced in vaginal surgery (mainly for cancer survivors), and used the so-called 'trim' method, which is basically just snipping off the excess skin. he did a great job of taking my lips down to about half their previous length. my majora are plentiful as well, which is the doc's actual word--plentiful, lol. so, it would be ridiculous for me to even think i'd ever be as tiny as some girls are. i've seen such a huge variance in the lips of my co-workers that have come and gone. it really was never an issue for me at all--seriously--working in nude clubs. i was happy with how i looked before--it was just too big and uncomfortable. i keep wondering now why it never bothered me, because most of the girls i worked with when i started were all tiny and tucked in....???? i only worked at a topless club after working nude. but, yes, visit a nude club to scope it out--probably a good idea when deciding where to work anyway. i wish i had more options where i live (not exactly metropolitan).
Hmmm I always thought the term "big pussy" referred to the width of the vagina, and not the length or size of the labia. I'm glad this thread cleared that up.
And I think all vaginas have their own unique beauty. Kinda like snowflakes. I think outies are hot.
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Im going to just bite my tongue on that one.
There's a couple girls with one similar to the after pic, and even a girl with this weird little hanging bit, and they all bank. It doesn't matter.
Me, you can't really even see the minora even with my legs spread and I don't actually like it that way. Maybe it's my imagination but I seem to attract some pervs... "your pussy looks like a 15 year old's" <<yep real comment.
And keep nasty comments about either to yourself, you don't know who's reading this.
Mine is tiny, and I am happy with it like that. I have danced with other girls who were more like the after photo, and they were happy with that.
I don't really think it matters to be honest.
Don't mind him. Only an insecure jackass would feel the need to point out that any vagina he can't get is an ugly vagina.
Vaginas are beautiful in every natural shape and size.