Dating: how far is too far ?
I'm thinking about getting into a relationship with a guy that lives about an hour and half~ away from me. I own a car, but he doesn't...so I don't know if its worth it. Right now I'm pretty optimistic, we can still see each other often enough because we have similar schedules, but I don't know if it would become a problem long-term. Is it worth pursuing ?
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If you're having these kinds of doubts about it and aren't really into him (and it seems you're not super-enthused by what you've posted) it might not be worth it. At least in terms of all the time and energy to see him often. If you still like him, might be less of a strain to keep things casual for now.
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Just an hour and a half? How much do you like him? If you really dig this guy I don't see how a little hour and a half drive once or twice a week is that big of deal. My guy is 3 hours away, he's very much worth the drive. I'm even moving to his town when my lease is up.
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I don't know him all that well yet, but he's the type I would usually go for. I guess I just want to protect myself from future problems.
P.S: I live in a hole lol
P.P.S: He's cute, popular, has money, and he looks really into me. But he doesn't own a car (or even have a license) and I'd have to give him lifts so that could get tiresome...I don't know. Haven't fucked him yet either.
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I agree with ND, sounds like you aren't that into him at this point. I bet after a few dates the answer will be clear to you.
If he has money, why does he not have a car?
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He keeps failing his driving exams::)
Yeah I guess I'll see how it goes and not get attached until I get a better idea of what I'm getting in.
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Yes, do it.
I'm in a smiliar situation and loving it, so I'm biased :D
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scarlett_vancouver
Yes, do it.
I'm in a smiliar situation and loving it, so I'm biased :D
How did you make that decision in the early stages ?
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I was horny, and he's into the same weird shit I am. I almost decided not to pursue it, in part because of the distance thing- it took me a good 3 months and maybe 4-5 visits before I was like "ok, yes, I for sure want this, lots", and now we manage pretty much weekly visits.