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FIRED...for being "flat"???
I just got fired today for "being flat chested" and "hideous"
I do not even know what to think, say, or do right now. I feel so confused. The owner that said this to me was EXTREMELY rude, insulting and YES, used these exact words.
I don't know how to feel.
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Re: FIRED...for being "flat"???
Fuck that shit! You don't need to work in an abusive environment like that.
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What an ass...obviously you arent hideous or you wouldn't have gotten hired in the first place! Owners can just be pricks sometimes...don't take it to heart.
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Oh honey, I am so sorry. I ve been called ugly too....and I'm not. It's just something they say to fuk with you. Here is proof :
http://img143.imageshack.us/img143/7...73b7kc3.th.jpg
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What an a-hole. He's probably one of those drunk or drugged up managers. He's the one who is fucked up, not you. Don't take it to heart.
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What a cunt! Fuck him! You're obviously a beautiful woman and not too damn flat to get hired AND make money. What a jerk off. Fuck him with a herpes dick. (pardon my potty mouth)
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FUCK THAT >:( Whatever, just take your hustling ass somewhere else! (and be sure to take as many ppl with you when you leave- regs, other dancers, etc)
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Originally Posted by
CallMeSky
What an ass...obviously you arent hideous or you wouldn't have gotten hired in the first place!
I've worked for them for almost a year! Well apparently now he claims that if it was up to him, I would have never been hired in the first place, and the only reason I was there was because I had every manager pulling for me to keep me there. I have never caused any drama, behaved myself and made decent money. The reason this all came about is because of a bullshit situation that I had nothing to do with and got in trouble for. SO they sent me to our sister club, supposedly "for a month" My month was up this week, and so when the conversation happened today about me coming back to the other club, he decided to say, "Ya know what....I don't really want you coming back at all"...and proceeded with the insults about my flat chest and general hideousness. Oh yeah and I forgot he also said my tattoos were "disgusting" I have some nice ink. If he wants to see disgusting tattoos he should hang out more at the clubs he owns and see alot of his employees. There are some girls there with tattoos that look like they got them in jail!! Some baaaaaad ink.
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Originally Posted by
VegasPrincess
I wish so much I could post my pic on here, but I am afraid to. If word ever got back to these guys that I have even posted what I have on here, I don't know...I'm scared. They practically OWN this town. So I have to remain anonymous.
But, at the same time, I want so badly for all of you here on SW to see what kind of girl this man claims is "hideous"
If anyone wants to PM me, please do. I could use the support.
And as far as my "flat" chest....I'm a 34 B!!!!!!!! Since when was that considered flat??!
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What a tool. Was the drama with another chick? I bet she's 'in' with him and turned it all on you. You are so NOT hideous. Managers suck. I had one have me pulled off the stage and fired for being fat or some such crap. With few exceptions, guy's don't become sc managers because they're good businessmen or good people at all.
Take your "hideousness" elsewhere and make them sorry you left. ;D
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Honey don't even let the dust settle on your nipples. Take your ass to another club and get your hustle on. Best revenge is success ;)
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Yes, definitely!!!! ^^^^
I posted a long time ago all butt-hurt and heartbroken cause this 4 ft tall little angry manager told me I was too fat and was only allowed to work 2 nights a week. When at the time I was 5'6, 130 lbs. - - - not a stick by any means but I gots boobies! I looked fine. I felt like a troll though - then realized that was making me no money!
Revenge by success is the very, very best kind. :)
Don't worry, gorgeous. Pick yourself back up and get into the game somewhere where t hey don't have dick managers. Well - thats hard to find. LESS dick, anyway.
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This is all great advice, but I just can't stop crying. I know I will be o.k. in a few days and realize all of you are right.
The new club hunt starts tomorrow...wish me luck. In this town, i'll need it.
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CherryBomb954
And as far as my "flat" chest....I'm a 34 B!!!!!!!! Since when was that considered flat??!
I'd be extatic if my boobs were 34B
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Originally Posted by
Bridgette
Honey don't even let the dust settle on your nipples.
That is an awesome quote.
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CherryBomb954
This is all great advice, but I just can't stop crying. I know I will be o.k. in a few days and realize all of you are right.
The new club hunt starts tomorrow...wish me luck. In this town, i'll need it.
Good Luck!!!! You can do it! *hugz*
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my gf just got fired for the same reason because her ass was too big.
Her face was hands down the best looking in that club but the manager couldn't see past it.
I just dont get it. She was banking too.
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Remember my manager mantra girls: 99.99% of them are just spineless fucking pussies who have to pick on girls to try and feed their widdle egos.
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Bridgette
Remember my manager mantra girls: 99.99% of them are just spineless fucking pussies who have to pick on girls to try and feed their widdle egos.
I guess I'm lucky that my guy fits into that .01 percentile;D
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What an ass. I'm sure he's unattractive, its always the ugliest guys who like to prey on pretty hot girls
Oh yeah Roseleigh I can't believe someone called YOU fat. What the hell is wrong with people.
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Is it required that all owners are dick heads?? The owner of one of the clubs I work at came in one night when I was giving a guy a private dance. He then preceded to tell the DJ very loudly (loud enough that my customer could hear) he couldn't understand why any guys would give me money since he considered me ugly because I wasn't skinny and I have tattoos.
I was SO pissed, mainly because my customer could hear him insulting me, but I managed to blow it off by remembering that I make bank at his club while he loses money through his choice of poor management.
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Plenty of small-chested women make good money, and they'd never have hired you if you really were hideous. This guy obviously gets off on making women feel like shit.
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flickad
Plenty of small-chested women make good money, and they'd never have hired you if you really were hideous. This guy obviously gets off on making women feel like shit.
Yes, alot of small chested women make good money. As well as skinny chicks, thick chicks and chicks with tattoos. I would say every type is capable. I was one of them. Like I said before I wasn't a "top earner" but fuck I made a damn good living and made them money too.
After rationalizing today I really am starting to think my breast size and tattoos don't have anything to do with it. How can it when there are several girls there with full sleeves (for those of you who don't know what "sleeves" are, it's when your arms don't show any skin cause they are solid tattoos) and also girls there who are way smaller than me in the breast department. If he wanted to fire everyone there who had small boobs, well he'd be firing 50% of the staff!!! I know there is a completely different reason for me being fired. I'm done trying to figure it out. I'm ready to move the hell on with my life. And yes, I do think this guy just saw an opportunity to degrade and make me feel like shit, as alot of managers and owners at my club enjoy doing. The fucked up part of it is, what he said to me is nowhere near as messed up as some of the things I have heard them say about other girls. I just used to put my blinders on, ya know "see no evil, hear no evil" cause I was making such good money. Everyone always used to talk about it being the kind of club where you suck and fuck your way to the top, and I didn't want to believe it. There has been so many girls fired then re-hired a few days later....hmmm...fishy. Now that I am starting to think about it, it kinda makes sense. I guess if employees banging managers and owners could happen in the restaurant biz, it surely can happen in this biz.
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CherryBomb954
And yes, I do think this guy just saw an opportunity to degrade and make me feel like shit, as alot of managers and owners at my club enjoy doing. The fucked up part of it is, what he said to me is nowhere near as messed up as some of the things I have heard them say about other girls.
There you go...you know it yourself. The guy's just a loser who preys on women to feel better about himself.
Consider it a mixed blessing, you don't want to work in a toxic environment like that anyway. Find a club where they will appreciate you for the beautiful asset that you are.
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Good luck on finding a new club beautiful!
and remember, managers are almost all assholes so just go with it and find an asshole who you can deal with.
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Thanks for all the resposes. I am leaving in about an hour to club hunt. Hopefully I'll have some positive things to say next week.
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This is a fickle business. Every club is not a good fit for us. Don't take it personally, just find a club that is a better fit for you.
Good luck.