Doing Private Parties...?
I am going to do my first private show.Should I buy a theme costume & which one do guys prefer the most?Also I'm doing this all on my own so how much should I pay my "security" guy?Is there any risk or bad experiences with the men getting out of control?What's the limit on what I should do (obviously no sex).Sorry I have alot of questions but thanks.I have Yahoo if that mkes it easier (dixiestripperchic).Thanks
Re: Doing Private Parties...?
A themed costume will add something to the presentation of yourself initially. As for which one? Whichever you think you look best within and can portray the personality. How much to pay your security: depends on how long the show is going to go in the end... pay a standard rate per hour and give him a percentage of your tips this way it is in HIS interest to help you generate tips.
I have not had any negative/bad experiences as I generally can see/read the signs before anything happens.. I thank the God/dess for being blessed like that.. you just have to read/see the signs that is all. This is where knowing how to handle intoxicated people (people skills) come in real handy.
As for the limit on what you should do? That's up to you and up to how much they are paying... if you are having a set hourly fee.. then do a full nude show... if they tip $x up-front.. you will do a masturbation show (no toys, just insertion of fingers).. if they tip $x up-front or throughout the hour then you will use toys/vibes/dildos.
As for anal, that is purely a personal choice.. not every girl is comfortable with doing anal shows and I can understand why..
in the end, do a search of this section of SW.. as there is plenty of information.. some of it is in older threads that you can find in a search (but aren't visible to view atm).
Re: Doing Private Parties...?
Ok we have already agreed on the price per hour for a full nude show including lapdances.I told them I was'nt sure about using any toys (this is going to be my first private party).I am still considering it as a possibilty but I have no idea what is an "avererage" rate to ask for if I include it &...I doubt I could but IF anal was involved do I also charge more or just tell them I would as long as they are tipping?As for touching during lapdances is it considered illegal to touch the boobs?Thanks for anybody's advice :-*
Re: Doing Private Parties...?
As I do act as "security" on occasion, some thoughts:
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Shante'
How much should I pay my "security" guy?
I'd make sure your driver/security has the right attitude as well - if he's going to see you doing toy shows, you don't want him shouting off his mouth about it.
Also remember your security guy is a deterrent only. If real trouble starts it's 10 onto 1 - and that's a no contest.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Shante'
Is there any risk or bad experiences with the men getting out of control?
Complex question: biggest problem is a pissed up audience - booze makes us all braver. Also expect a few problems with wandering hands and crude comments.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Shante'
What's the limit on what I should do (obviously no sex).
What you get paid for up to your comfort limits. A lot of private parties do involve toy shows (although no fingers here in the UK).
Be prepared to be asked to do a full on lesbian spot if you work with another girl.
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Shante'
Sorry I have a lot of questions...
And one question you haven't asked: *safety*. Please be careful and only take bookings from agencies/individuals whom you consider safe.
Phil.
Re: Doing Private Parties...?
My security usually makes an average of 20% what I do. And if they upsell they get 20% of that. I actually do $10 an hour + $30 per show but it averages to 20% over the whole day... and I love when they upsell me. Mine's gotten me a few hundred extra at a time before. Awesome.
Re: Doing Private Parties...?
how would one advertise if one wanted to do parties w/o an agency? i guess put an add in local strip club/ hooker monthly paper?
Re: Doing Private Parties...?
I think your lapdances should be separate from your initial entrance fee. I just did my first party recently with 2 other girls and i charged the men 20 dollars per 3 minute dance after we were done our show.
Re: Doing Private Parties...?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Lysondra
My security usually makes an average of 20% what I do. And if they upsell they get 20% of that. I actually do $10 an hour + $30 per show but it averages to 20% over the whole day... and I love when they upsell me. Mine's gotten me a few hundred extra at a time before. Awesome.
yup same here i pay my security dude $10/hour when im doing topless/nude waitressing and $20 for 30min show and $30 for 45min show. only use someone u trust and will look after your best interests. your security dude should set up your stage while u r getting ready (put rug down, organise music) also get ur dude to explain the rules to your audience such as no touching unless u ask them to do so, no photos/videos (unless u r ok with that of course) and whatever else u expect of them. as for costumes yes use one!!! cop,school girl,and nurse always go over well. good luck :P
Re: Doing Private Parties...?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Shante'
Ok we have already agreed on the price per hour for a full nude show including lapdances.I told them I was'nt sure about using any toys (this is going to be my first private party).I am still considering it as a possibilty but I have no idea what is an "avererage" rate to ask for if I include it &...I doubt I could but IF anal was involved do I also charge more or just tell them I would as long as they are tipping?As for touching during lapdances is it considered illegal to touch the boobs?Thanks for anybody's advice :-*
how much did u agree on?? have a set price for wat u r willing to do e.g dont do anal or toys just for tips cos you will prob end up getting ripped off. also charge them extra for each lap dance u do dont include it in the price cos again u will prob get ripped off. :-*
Re: Doing Private Parties...?
Quote:
Originally Posted by
Jayde81
yup same here i pay my security dude $10/hour when im doing topless/nude waitressing and $20 for 30min show and $30 for 45min show. only use someone u trust and will look after your best interests. your security dude should set up your stage while u r getting ready (put rug down, organise music) also get ur dude to explain the rules to your audience such as no touching unless u ask them to do so, no photos/videos (unless u r ok with that of course) and whatever else u expect of them. as for costumes yes use one!!! cop,school girl,and nurse always go over well. good luck :P
Wow, you pay EXACTLY what I do. To the dollar. Hahah.