i love stripperweb,, my best friend loves me. she's a stripper, but refuses to give sw a chance. I don't understand. why wouldn't anyone want to join a supportive community for that which they do? any reasons? any similiar stripper girlfriends?
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i love stripperweb,, my best friend loves me. she's a stripper, but refuses to give sw a chance. I don't understand. why wouldn't anyone want to join a supportive community for that which they do? any reasons? any similiar stripper girlfriends?
Maybe she just doesn't want to?
Ehhhh... it's not for everybody. I can't do Friendster.... I just don't understand. :shrug:
don't have internet
don't have time
don't have interest in forums
don't care
I tried to get Chrissy to join for awhile and she just didn't want to. I think it was the idea of coming here meant defining herself as a career stripper.
Plus some people are really paranoid of information they put on the internet if they are living a secret life.
lots of people would rather hang out irl then on line.
DUde, if i calculated how much time i actually spend/have spent on this site, I think it'd make me want to un-join. Good for her- it's seriously addicting! (it's also really fun and rewarding and amusing... but to each their own.) ;D
Maybe it's better that way...someday you may need to vent about her or your coworkers or something and you can't do that if they are members!
Maybe she's just not interested. Not everyone gets internet socializing.
I love internet socializing. I don't need to put on makeup or heels. Personally, I dont tell too many people about SW because I am selfish and you guys are all mine !!!!!!!!!!!!}:D
Does she do other message boards or chat style stuff? If not, she probably just has no interest in it in general so there is no real appeal for her to be a SW member.
IRL? What's that? I like to do all of my socializing on the internetz. That way, no one can tell that I'm a 43 year old male sysadmin who's never been on a date.
I tried to get one girl to join and she said "I'm done with work when I go home, I don't wanna go online and think about work. I really don't want to have anything to do with stripping outside this bar."
Almost nobody I mention the site to comes here. My good dancer friend signed up here and has about 200 posts, but she thinks we're boring so doesn't come here anymore, lol.
Hell, ts her loss, at least you tried. Woe is her for missing out.
hahaha...I'm in the boat, too! My hubby asks me all of the time what it is about this site that has me on it for hours!
On the other hand, it took me forever before I actually got a Myspace page and when I did it was only to keep up with people I already know/track down those I've lost contact with over the years. At first, I didn't even bother setting up my profile, I just had the generic default one. After about a year, I finally got into it. Maybe your friend's like I was and just doesn't "get" the whole thing?
In any case, to each his own, right? :)
I've told my best friend about SW and I think she joined. I don't know her screen name and I doubt she ever posts. It's okay, though, because I talk to her every day. I have you guys to myself and her to myself!!
Ah, who cares? She's just not that into us!
So true. I joined to appease her in 03, but I didn't spend much time on here at all. In fact, my first few posts were so ignorant and I just didn't "get" the community we have here. But I came back in 04, and realized how much I liked it. I read more than I posted, though, and got more and more post-happy, aka comfortable enough to share, throughout 2005-2006, and well, here I am years later.
Some people just don't get it. And really, it's better this way. If you want her to join that badly, maybe show her some good threads here, or maybe start by introducing her to HH. That's what hooked me!
Yeah I have showed SW to probably several hundred dancers, or told them about it and carefully written down the site name. Very, very few have joined--though several did tell me they checked it out.
Personally, I can't imagine my life without stripperweb. I may not post a lot, but it's pretty much the first thing I check when I wake up and the best way to wind down after work. But I never got into myspace or facebook or other sites that friends have tried to get me on. So to each their own I guess.