Shit on a bagel!!! How do they get so sneaky?!?!
So I was checking/browsing/stalking some of the clubs I've worked, or been meaning to, and sure enough I find some ass-hat whose only goal in life would be to die face up in a gutter and he's got "spy pics" of dancers from a club I've made an appearance at. Thank pure dumb luck I wasn't in one of them, but it still got me pig-biting mad!!! I called the club and tried to explain it to the manager, but he was even stupider than the dude that happily broke several laws, and then broadcasted that fact to the interweb. What the hell am I supposed to do? This isn't my home club, I don't know these chicks very well, and while I applaud their equal-opportunity hiring choices of employees and managers, I don't think they're going to make the best call on handling the situation. I'm not sure what to do, but as a it-could-have-maybe-should-have-been me girl, I want this plecostomus to pay for any suffering he's caused, or could have. If I'd been in a shot and my home club manager took a gander, I'd find myself at that club permanantly. Any tips?
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I get so paranoid about this kind of stuff too, and it makes me really angry. I found a freaking video on youtube of my club and girls on stage. It really made me mad. Thankfully, I haven't found any pics or vids of myself but I'm still paranoid. People are going to take cell phone pics and videos no matter what, I think. But if I see them doing it to me, I'm breaking their phone.
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If someone whips out their phone during a stage set I always tell them to put it away and resort to more drastic measures if they won't do it. There's NO excuse to have it out (hello, someone's performing for you, kinda rude???) and chances are they are taking pics. I thought I was able to tell by looking in the mirror to see what they were doing on their phone but then someone I thought was "ok" got kicked out for taking pics. So, no more nicey.
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Where's Cally she's broken a few phones before ;)
As for the girls in the pics there's nothing you can do now but to protect yourself from that happening to you. If you see him in the club again alert the bouncers so they can keep an eye out for his assharterus behavior.
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I've taken phones away before. I dont break them myself, but I hand them to a bouncer who goes through the pics. If there are pics in the club...he deletes them and kicks the guy out. If the guy argues...he doesnt get his phone back. Theres a big sign when you walk in that says we will confiscate your phone if you take pics.
I worked in one club where a guy blatently took out a huge camera and started taking pics.When the boucers took it away and forcebly removed him he started screaming "it's ok...I'm A Dr." WTF???
I'd post shit on stripclublist,here...whever girls at that clubmight see it warning them that there are pics/videos taken in that club along with any info on the guy I could come up with.
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I kicked a phone out of someone's hand once. A rare moment of anger, but that shit DOES NOT FLY. I don't know what you should do. I take it you don't know any of the girls in the pictures, or you would say something to them yourself. Er...call back at a different day/time and try to talk to a different manager? Some are distinctly more with it than others. All this club's managers can't be idiots...can they?:-\
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Shit like this gets me FUMING!! What a blatant disrespect for other's privacy. At my club, cell phones aren't even allowed to be opened ANYWHERE, except for in the front lobby. (where they just pay admission)
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I remember one club I worked at, a guy had his fucking CAMERA out and was taking pictures of the girl onstage. The manager came up behind him and nearly ripped his arm off; he had the camera around his wrist. Camera got confiscated and dude was kicked out.
If I see someone with their cell phone out I will say something to the bouncers. And if I ever see someone taking a picture of me, well, they better watch their face cause my shoes are at kicking level.
And Perry, I fucking love your siggy. LMAO.
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The worst part is I've seen stupid girls LET guys take pictures of them on their cell phones. Why, why, why?
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VegasPrincess
The worst part is I've seen stupid girls LET guys take pictures of them on their cell phones. Why, why, why?
Well, if you KNOW it may get on the net and are ok with it...at least theres consent there. I've had a cpl guys ask if they could take my pic. Though I dont do it unless I'm getting paid,I get the ok from a manager AND it's ONLY me and not on the floor where other girls and custies could be in it. But I'm all over the net and all anyway.Of course if all those criteria arent met, or a guy takes a pic of me withOUT asking and getting my consent...he's a dead man walking.