What the hell is wrong with some dancers?
I am the type of dancer who has customers who gives my money and also gives me money to spend on other dancers. i have never been the type to hoard the wealth. If i have a giving client, then the ladies that i work with will benefit too, especially if its a crappy night. Last night my regular comes in whom, Im also friends with. When he comes in, i always have a good time....free drinks, good conversation and good money. So, im sitting with him and his friends having a good time. Another dance comes in who he knows and without even being offered a drink just takes the shots from the tray. I look at her bewildered but he proceeds to say "oh i know her". Then she comes and takes two more shots and takes them over to her ugly and no money in a strip club friends. Without even saying thank you to my regular. So, Im on stage doing one of my sets and my regular gives me a $10 bill....she proceeds to come off the stage, looks at what exactly he gave me and then tells him dont give any more dancers anything over $1. Who the hell does she think he is....and I think the only reason why he gave her money is because he was too drunk and too happy last night. Because as a customer I wouldnt have give her a damn thing. She was nasty and unthankful....I know we are in a non-thanking industry but the least she could have done was been nice.
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That's totally trashy. I'l spread the wealth, but when bitches are rude to my customers (thus compromising my money), they are cut off.
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First of all, she sounds like an ungreatful person for just stopping by your regular's table and taking the shots without thanking him and then walking away.
Second of all, I don't like that she was at the stage watching as you came off your set to see how much he tipped you.
Lastly, I think she is taking stupid pills for telling the dude that he should not tip more than $10 at a time...BITCH! If he knows her, he prob tips her too...so she is basically telling him to tip less. Dumb girl that needs a swift kick in her ovaries.
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Sometimes its easier to not try to understand. It will never add up and youll just be left wondering...
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Exactly.....she is defintiely cut off after I talked to my customer about her behavior. He was defintitely inebriated last night and couldnt fully see what was going on last night. She didnt even smile or converse with him unless it involved money....he said he had no idea why she was acting that way.
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Some people are just naturally hatefull.
In this situation you have to be the bigger individual. Kill her with kindness, of course apoligise to your reg for her rude behavior and leave it at that. You will earn his respect by acting this way instead of stooping to her desperate level.
She will eventually avoid you or keep doing what she is doing. Your reg has to be the one to say something to your coworker. He will when he gets enough of it. Anything else will just make you look bad.
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MsLayne just out of curiosity where do you work. Just wondering b/c I auditioned at a club in Philly and the girls were kinda rude.
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LOL....i work in crappy NJ.
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Oh-well why not go to Philly? I was actually thinking about auditioning in jersey b/c that's where i'm from but I don't kno of any places here. Anyway-i guess there are girls like that everywhere! Just keep doing what you do best and do not stoop to her level. She is not acting very lady like and I'm sure the custies aren't impressed! That is why they go there in the first place-to see sexy ladies not gold-diggin hoes like that! Good luck!
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Where in Philly can I just come in on weekends....cause I would definitely be there. PM me...so i can annoy you with questions.
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Crow2
Some people are just naturally hatefull.
In this situation you have to be the bigger individual. Kill her with kindness, of course apoligise to your reg for her rude behavior and leave it at that. You will earn his respect by acting this way instead of stooping to her desperate level.
She will eventually avoid you or keep doing what she is doing. Your reg has to be the one to say something to your coworker. He will when he gets enough of it. Anything else will just make you look bad.
Exactly. No matter the situation, customers really do not usually want to deal with dancers shit-talking one another. If they wanted drama...they'd have stayed at home. He's witnessing her behavior first hand, so really there is no need for you to talk to him about it. You will gain more respect this way, and definitely more $$$. Which is really what it's all about, right? :D
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Yeah but I actually know him outside the club so when we went to lunch, I was talking to him about the night before. No bad mouthing was involved what so ever. I just asked him, why was the other dancer, who was also his friend acting like that. It was his decision to cut her off, it had nothing to do with what I said.
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This girl can be described in one word: yuck.