Re: getting your hustle back
Try, Try Try! the men in the club all want the same thing, You! thats the mentality you have to have. here are a few tips ive learned through expierence, and ive learned on here SW.
- talk to everyone! dont let people see you sitting alone, beacuse it looks like no one wants you, your not desireable. but never sit with a guy for more than 2 songs. introduce yourself, and ask for the dance, if he says no, or not now, Tell him you'll be back to dance for him and go back!
-even if a guy doesnt want a dance at the moment, say something cute, like, "would you like to make a donation to my booby bank" while smooshing your tits together.
-while on stage act like your having sex (just with a little more cloths on) be sensual, and look for that guy thats looking at you with lust in his eyes and go right up to him. and when a guy tips you on stage, say thank you and tell him you'll be around to dance for him when you get down.
-and my #1 rule, when you look good, you feel good. put extra time into your outfit, your make-up, your hair, and make yourself feel pretty and sexy. people will notice.
Ive been through what your feeling very often, and sometimes its easier said than done, but never give up, and always stay confident, fun, and the money will come. read up on the tips and advice on here, ive learned a lot on this site.
Good Luck!
Re: getting your hustle back
I know this is short but just GO and the more days you get back under your belt the easier it will be. Maybe promise yourself a little reward like if I work 5 days this week I will buy myself that special treat I have been lusting after...
Re: getting your hustle back
Wow I feel this one! I have been off for a few weeks and am tryin to get back in the "mode." It's weird because after being outta the dark for so long its almost like I detox from the environment and come back to the "real" world. I guess I've been out in the sun for too long! lol
But ya Lemme know if ya know what I mean!
Re: getting your hustle back
Yeah, seriously, just go. Just jump right back in! The more you think about it and dread going into the club, the worse it gets. It's definitely daunting at times when your not motivated and not sure you'll make money-but just go to work anyway & try to smile through it. Before you know it, you'll be back to struttin' your stuff, making $$, & acting like you own the place. Easier said then done, I know, but think of it this way- If you go to work 3 more times this week, guarantee you'll make at least a little $ and get your groove back!!! Really, it will get better.
This is what I'm telling myself as I'm getting ready for work right now!!
Re: getting your hustle back