Question: How do you define contact levels?
Can somebody please explain contact levels to me? I'm trying to look into some other cities/clubs and am a bit frightened by some of the reviews stating "high mileage", but then I wondered how much worse it can get.
In my club, custies are not supposed to touch the tits or kitty or the browneye, but they can touch everywhere else (not legally, but...). Heavy grinding is expected, tits in the face, etc. That's the stuff that EVERY girl allows. Some girls will go so far as to allow the guy to suck or touch her breasts or "pet" her kitty (although if you get caught doing that, you're fired).
Is that "high mileage"? Or medium mileage?
Can someone explain to me how you define mileage levels?
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^^ what you described sounds like extremely high mileage to me. Dallas is always described as "high mileage" although I would consider it medium. What goes on on our main floor is one way contact, boobs in the face sometimes, no grinding, no staying on the lap for more than a few seconds. Now in the vip, who knows? I stick to a little more than the milege on the floor, but everyone is different and no one is really policing you except for the vip hostesses who just walks around occasionaly, so im not going to be naive about what may be going on.
Oklahoma is LOW mileage, no touching whatsoever (at the club i worked at), need to be a certain amount of space away from the custy and no sitting on his lap or using him for balance during dances. Completely zero contact and air dances. You have to explain that ALOT b/c you get quite a bit of travelling customer who are used to more contact.
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^^^Thank you! I was wondering about that. This is the first place/region I've ever worked in. Now on the floor, you can sit in a lap as long as you're not straddling the customer, and it's one-way contact, no crotch in the face, but breasts in the face are OK. In VIP, it's as I described above.
I was just wondering about that... Dallas is described as "high mileage", but is it more or less mileage than what I'm already used to here in Amarillo? I guess Amarillo is pretty high mileage, too.
Thank you!
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I always wonder about this. I think I might have a skewed perception of contact levels because at the first club I danced at, the lap dances were basically just grind grind grind and as time went on the bouncers stopped enforcing the no touching of a dancer by a customer thing (I had to be the one to tell them to keep their hands to themselves, which is more difficult when girls aroound you are not doing the same). I thought that was pretty average contact but after working at a few other clubs and reading around on stripperweb it seems like most people define moderate contact much differently.
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That sounds like high mileage.
here in Fl,heavy grinding and 2 way contact is the norm. Boob touching,ass touching..pretty much everything excpet actually between your legs...which happens on a fairly reg basis aloing with HJ BJ and FS...but it isnt TECHNICALLY allowed. Just tolerated.
But I grind fairly heavily and allow them to touch everything except between my legs unless they are licking or being to rough. Its the minimum I can usually do here and still leave with some money.
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I, too, would like to get a clearer idea of what all these terms mean -- coming from a different direction; I've only danced in Portland and it sounds like if I went into certain cities, I'd be pretty unhappy.
I guess it's not as easy as making a graph, because there are so many different kinds of contact and so many different ways of allowing something but not another thing. Nonetheless, I'd really like to organize a list of city areas and states by average contact level, at some point.
Maybe a wiki would do the trick...
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Yeah I never thought of my club as a high mileage club; it's certainly not more than I'm comfortable with. I like grinding, personally. Boob-to-face, not technically allowed but done openly on the floor and stage. No customer touching except on sides of body, legs, etc--again, SOMETIMES bootygrabbing is overlooked but there's no nipple/kitty play. Straddling happens but is theoretically supposed to be minimal. Apparently there are extras but I never see them and I still get money so it doesn't faze me.
But I guess TX is TX.
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IMO, that sounds high-mileage. If a girl isn't allowing the illegal-but-accepted touching, she's probably not going to make as much money as the girls who go for full on contact. Which makes it difficult, the legal standards should always be held, no matter how strict. That maintains the class of all the people involved.
If you have girls allowing their breasts to be touched and it's illegal in City A, but in City B it's okay, said girls are the 'dirty dancers' in City A, which could lead to legal problems for the club, etc. But in City B, the girls who allow the breast touching are simply going about their business without possibly disrupting anyone else's. You should always follow the law.
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Some girls will go so far as to allow the guy to suck or touch her breasts or "pet" her kitty (although if you get caught doing that, you're fired).
That's high mileage but it also sounds like a club where you have a lot of "bottom feeders" lurking around.
Normally clubs that are "high mileage" allow all of the above contact. Usually you are allowed to touch everywhere except a dancers pussy. Sometimes that is even allowed or at least tolerated in VIP rooms.
If this is a club you are looking into I would keep searching. It will be hard to make money when guys can just go to the dancer who will let them do anything. Most guy's out there want the most "bang for their buck!" Personally I only feel comfortable working at a club where I am in agreement with their contact rules. Just my opinion though!
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That's high mileage but it also sounds like a club where you have a lot of "bottom feeders" lurking around.
Normally clubs that are "high mileage" allow all of the above contact. Usually you are allowed to touch everywhere except a dancers pussy. Sometimes that is even allowed or at least tolerated in VIP rooms.
If this is a club you are looking into I would keep searching. It will be hard to make money when guys can just go to the dancer who will let them do anything. Most guy's out there want the most "bang for their buck!" Personally I only feel comfortable working at a club where I am in agreement with their contact rules. Just my opinion though!
Eh, I've worked at three different clubs in this city, and they all SAY that's prohibited, but I've seen it on numerous occassions. The other clubs in town don't even try to pretend that it's not allowed. They're not "clubs" at all but brothels masquerading as clubs. In a couple of the clubs, the managers have even taken to pimping out the dancers.
I guess that I'm so used to this level of contact that it never occurred to me that it was "high-mileage".
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Sounds like Austin! Eh, I guess we are high mileage :/
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In Jane, MO, I guess it's "high mileage", though I never considered it as such. We were allowed to grind our crotches in custies' faces from stage (there was a bar around the stage which helped this). Boobs in the face was pretty much standard. Grinding on the custies from stage was standard too. We pretty much got away with murder there.
Now I'm dancing in OKC and I'm learning my club is "full bottoms" (What? No T Backs? WtF?), the girls don't sell drinks (um...ok), and we owe the manager ands dj $10 each and get to keep absolutely everything else (WOOOOO! - in Jane we owed a percentage of everything we sold, on TOP of paying the dj etc).
But also, less mileage makes me happier. We have a 3 second grind rule, which I can deal with. I'm already dating a couple of guys, I don't need any more hands feeling me up or down lol. :)