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Simply unspeakably wrong comment
So, here's a little story. I'm bopping along. All is good in the world. I had a kickass night last night. Made some serious bank and I'm talking to my SO about spending some time together.
Like, I can if I do okay at work because I made eight bills the night before.
I expected his repluy to be.... WOW that's awesome babe you just rock. Instead I got..... who was the lucky guy.
Okay. So I'm stupid and don't get it at first and my little blond brain goes huh?
Then it hits me like a ton of bricks. He actually thought that I had fucked some guy for eight hundred dollars.
Well! How nice. Granted I have worked in a brothel and even done some Indy work but to screw some random jackass from a strip club for eight bills? No.
Please explain to me how this can even compute in the male brain as I can't even wrap my head around it.
Geeeeeze!
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Crow2
So, here's a little story. I'm bopping along. All is good in the world. I had a kickass night last night. Made some serious bank and I'm talking to my SO about spending some time together.
Like, I can if I do okay at work because I made eight bills the night before.
I expected his repluy to be.... WOW that's awesome babe you just rock. Instead I got..... who was the lucky guy.
Okay. So I'm stupid and don't get it at first and my little blond brain goes huh?
Then it hits me like a ton of bricks. He actually thought that I had fucked some guy for eight hundred dollars.
Well! How nice. Granted I have worked in a brothel and even done some Indy work but to screw some random jackass from a strip club for eight bills? No.
Please explain to me how this can even compute in the male brain as I can't even wrap my head around it.
Geeeeeze!
He was kidding right? Like, he said it while laughing? Or expected you to laugh?
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I'm sorry that sucks. Doesn't compute in this male brain. Are you sure it wasn't some really unintentionally retarded joke?
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Haha Tempest and I grabbed onto the same ray of hope.
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OdysseusNJ
Haha Tempest and I grabbed onto the same ray of hope.
I'm still convinced not all men are hopeless idiots who think strippers are hookers. Especially if they're DATING one, like the OP's situation!
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Crow2
Then it hits me like a ton of bricks. He actually thought that I had fucked some guy for
When you regained your composure, did he actually say that's what his comment meant?
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Nope. Totally serious. His reasoning was that I haven't made that sort of cash in a while and that I was treating him like he was stupid because he KNOWS how things work and what they cost.
Ummm.. Okay?
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Crow2
Nope. Totally serious. His reasoning was that I haven't made that sort of cash in a while and that I was treating him like he was stupid because he KNOWS how things work and what they cost.
Ummm.. Okay?
Um... he thought you turned tricks and then came home and told you how much money you made? That makes no sense.
So you haven't made that kind of cash in a while so you can't?
And he knows how what works? Stripping? And he figures you'd only sell yourself for 800 bucks?
Leave him. (OK, maybe you can work past this, but I'm pretty pissed at him for you right now!)
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How long have you been dating?
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oh shit, well, I was pulling for him.
Sorry.
he should try saying things 4 times in his head b4 speaking.
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Oh I knew exactly what he meant and I was pissed off to say the least. First off I don't shit where I eat and secondly prostitution and stripping DON'T go together.
Any idiot knows once you fuck a sc patron that money is gone.
For him to even make that sort of assumption is worse than wrong. Obviously I can not explain this to him, so I want other qualified. Experienced dancing girls to explain it for me.
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JustJayda
he should try saying things 4 times in his head b4 speaking.
I dunno, anyway you accuse your SO of not only cheating but committing an illegal act (prostitution) to do it is going to sound bad no matter how you say it.
I would wonder why he thought that was so plausible. Does he think you'll cheat/need the money/would risk getting caught?
I try not to think of prostitution as "ohmig-d horrible" but I would not be happy to be accused of doing it. Especially not for 800!
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Crow2
Oh I knew exactly what he meant and I was pissed off to say the least. First off I don't shit where I eat and secondly prostitution and stripping DON'T go together.
Any idiot knows once you fuck a sc patron that money is gone.
For him to even make that sort of assumption is worse than wrong. Obviously I can not explain this to him, so I want other qualified. Experienced dancing girls to explain it for me.
He accused you of prostituting yourself. I don't think there's much to explain as to why he's an asshole.
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Adding insult to injury it got all twisted around to where I felt like utter dog shit and still do because I had started it, Man oh man.
Talk about manipulation.
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At first my response was going to be, "Take it easy on him, it's easy to be jealous of us... We work a few days a week and make more than (most of) our SO's". The I thought about it for a bit and... if he was SERIOUS, you need to stick your heel in his ass and push him out the door. If he doesn't trust you THAT much, you are completely wasting your time.
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:hug: Don't you dare feel bad because he was being insensitive and said something incredibly stupid!!! You are not in the wrong. He shouldn't have said that, \\ a
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JustJayda
he should try saying things 4 times in his head b4 speaking.
word.
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I can't believe he said this, its so out of order, I would be really pissed off if I was you. What were his motives for saying it? Did he actually believe that you did that or do you think he was trying to piss you off/pick a fight. Sometimes guys are like kids and they will say stuff deliberately to push your buttons.
If my bf said something like this to me I'd be upset because it would make me see that he really didn't know me or understand me at all.
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Bella21
At first my response was going to be, "Take it easy on him, it's easy to be jealous of us... We work a few days a week and make more than (most of) our SO's". The I thought about it for a bit and... if he was SERIOUS, you need to stick your heel in his ass and push him out the door. If he doesn't trust you THAT much, you are completely wasting your time.
That's what I thought at first, before I saw that he was serious. The "who's the lucky guy?" bit is something my SO would say; jokingly, however. As a joke I'd think it was funny, but for him to be serious is very insensitive!
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***11:54 pm post relocated from OP's marooned triplicate thread***
Wow...:confused:
Your SO seems insecure, insensitive, irresponsible, intolerable, etc...:biting:
IMO, the boy may need a come-to-Jesus discussion about:
a) his perception of you
b) what's really important to you
At first, I was like: "Whoa, 3 identical threads?" Now, I understand. You deserve 33 threads, Crow2!
Well, I'm off to the local SC. I'm going to hug my favorite dancers and I'll give them an extra squeeze for you...:hug:
^^ P.S. Mission accomplished! ;)
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Also, its not about prostitution - but at this point that really dosent matter, as I've been a prostitute and frankly to me that's just as much a job as anything else. He's also been with me, when I was.
What hurt me the worst is that he thought that I would actually be that disrepectful and LIE about it.
Plus like Tempest mentioned, what... I can't make that kind of money without selling ass?
THAT'S what hurt me and the dumbass did not even get it.
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Oh yeah, I bloobered. My phones web browser got a little over enthusaistic. Apoligies.
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Of course it hurt you! Please don't put up with that crap! His apology better include flowers and some real tears on his part. >:( The past is not what we're talking about. You don't just accuse your gf of being a prostitute out of the blue. Sit him down and have a serious talk... then let us know how it went.
PS: He still sounds jealous and insecure.
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I dont think u need to explain anything to him. I would give him some serious silent treatment after that.
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Is this the same guy as before? Cranky, doesn't call back, implied that you were lying about you regular guy? >:( That's really bitchy of him to say. I think he's jealous of your money and needs a beating.