Re: super friendly versus "bad girl"
I think you have to be on your toes and really prepared to go with whatever the customer wants. I ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a new customer with a naughty smile and then stick out my hand for a shake -- a sexy squeeze, not a business-type shake. You get so much information from those first few seconds: the tone of voice in which he greets you, how he adjusts his body language to you, the pressure of the handshake. You continue getting information the whole time you're with him, which means new ways to make yourself more appealing...you really can't go on autopilot and expect to make a ton of money from a guy.
That said, I think the general attitude that works for me is happy, fun-loving, good-girl-gone bad. Like she sell sanctuary says, I want to be a good girl, but rubbing up against strangers all night long just feels soooo goooood. This works pretty well. Depending on the vibe I get, I might throttle it back and act a little shyer for guys who want to be in control and/or have that protective thing going on. I am more or less brainy, depending on the intelligence of the guy I'm with. I am always just about smart enough to understand his jokes, and not one brain-cell smarter. ;)
Re: super friendly versus "bad girl"
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Bridgette
What did change is that now guys perceive me more often than not as the sexy secretary, librarian, teacher. I can wear a PVC corset with matching PVC shorts, PVC-topped fishnet thigh highs and a bitch ponytail, and the dudes will still say I look like a secretary/librarian/teacher. I usually say something smartass like "I dunno what library you go to, but that place must be damn crowded!"
BAHAHAH, so true! I wear my glasses at work, too, and I've all but given up playing anything but the sweet nerdy-now/naughty-later chick, because that's all they see from my glasses anyway.
I hear about girls who do better when they're bitchy, and I've tried it, but nobody even seems to believe it from me, much less buy it.
Re: super friendly versus "bad girl"
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Bridgette
I never could act dumb, was always the smart stripper type. If anything the glasses allow me to be more myself because they draw the guys who like smart chics.
What did change is that now guys perceive me more often than not as the sexy secretary, librarian, teacher. I can wear a PVC corset with matching PVC shorts, PVC-topped fishnet thigh highs and a bitch ponytail, and the dudes will still say I look like a secretary/librarian/teacher. I usually say something smartass like "I dunno what library you go to, but that place must be damn crowded!"
BWAhaha. I am much the same way. Maybe I am not a very good actress but I can't play dumb to save my life. It seems way to fake if I try to do it. I just try to tap into the sex goddess side of my brain and everything seems to work from there. I'll consider wearing my glasses though... never thought of that.