Sorry girls....apparently now I'm a pimp/madame so this thread is gone.
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Sorry girls....apparently now I'm a pimp/madame so this thread is gone.
So far, this is sounding so similar to what I did with my sugar daddy, but, i met him in a club. so, if i had met him online, i am betting this is what would have attracted him.
Keep going!
This thread will be interesting...
Lol, I'd write the rest but I am a little too high right now...and it needs to be reasonably clear and not ramble-y.
Yes, I will be checking on this thread later!
Oh and curious but where do you post these profiles, myspace or specific SD sites?
I knew of one SD site, but it was mostly guys trolling for ass.
Yeah, what kind of site are you talking about?
Tips on SC sugar daddies would be great. One girl apparently has one and holy crap... I'm jealous!
^^ but really, you NEVER can trust girls' words on what they do with their SDs. Many many many girls fuck their SDs. Many. Did I say many? I meant, many.
thousands a month? is there sex involved? I assume there must be for that much.
Unless you are extremly lucky and meet that one SD in 100million ,they will expect to be fucked at some point. All SD have an expiration date.
I had a sugar daddy for about a year and a half, rules made very clear up front about no sex or anything sexual. About a year into it he started hinting more and more, actually getting to outright asking when we were going to do it. Offering me massive amounts of cash to do it. I kept telling him he was breaking the rules. We had an agreement. Eventually, I had to break it off. No amount of cash in the world could make me fuck this 80 year old toothless man. And he took everything away from me that he bought ( and cleverly kept in hsi name) my house and car and income..all gone. I was young and naive.
Which brings me to my second point: Get everything in your name. And be secure enough in your own life so that if/when you are cut off, you can survive. Don't be dependant on anyone for anything.
This is great, Aubreyyy! I'm REALLY looking forward to future installments! You're awesome.
So here's something I'm curious about. I live in a household with my partners, a triad marriage. I assume for the purposes of profile, they are "roommates"... but I'm really curious how that falls into the equation... what is to be mentioned, what's a no-no?
Am also curious what kind of site you mean. :-)
i had a sugar daddy i never met
that was nice
id like more like that
How do you screen 'em before the first meeting ?? That it is not a fake pretend-to-be rich guy ...
How do you ask for money ?? Upfront before you meet ?? I wouldn't be very comfterbly with that :-[
How do you like this hustle/story ?? It is somewhat true ... For me it is a good thing. So I don't have to lie so much. Not that there is anything wrong about it. I'm just not very good at lying. But maybe I learn }:D
I need a mentor !! An adult gentleman to take care of me. Financially and as an advicer/coach/counselor because I'm so silly and childish.
I'm in uni but my work as a waitress is killing me :'( I need a guy to help me paying my bills and otherwise taking care of me. Inviting me out to dinner and once in a while buying me stuff :)
PS A couple of years ago I had a kinda sugardaddy. I didn't milk him that much. I didn't know how. At the time. I still don't know. I know nothing >:(
^^^ All questions will be answered as soon as I head into work and get a minute :)
I'm going to stay tuned in, for sure. I'm in the midst of negotiating with a potential SD and I have serious questions.
How do you lay down the law with "no sex" rules if you're married? My husband has no problem with me milking any custy for as much as he's worth but I don't want to leave a shed of an impression that sex will ever happen.
Your questions answered!
I use sugardaddyforme.com and seekingarrangement.com. There are other websites to use as well depending on where in the world you live.
As far as living with people, I live with my boyfriend (err, now ex). As far as my SDs have been concerned, they are roommates.
Asking for money? After trading pics and the usual convo starting garbage, I say "Tell me what you're looking for, as far as your expectations and budget. I just want to make sure ours are compatible :wink:". They normally appreciate this b/c they don't want to waste time on a girl that wants 10k a month when they're only offering free dinners. If they freak out over this...move on. They aren't serious about paying you. If they ask you what you're thinking- DONT LOWBALL! Say "Oh, I was thinking maybe 3-5 a month? Of course, this is completely nego. to the perfect situation". Stress that you like to get the money talk out of the way before you meet, so the face time is all about having fun, not doing business. Also call it a "necessary evil", like it isn't your driving force (even when it totally is)
As far as laying down no sex rules- be strict about it. You may have a really hard time finding someone, but there are guys out there that just want to pay for arm candy. I have one guy who pays me $700 a night to go out with him when he takes clients out and I pretend I'm his hot young girlfriend. He's a jeweler. I've been paid in diamonds before. Its great! :)
Its like a damn full time job though...screening all these weirdos lol
^^^ and people say we don't work for our money! Hah! ::)
I really want to start looking for a new sugar daddy but am afraid that the boyfriend will really not be down with it! *sigh* This thread really makes me want to make a profile on sd4me.com.
^^^
If he's down with you stripping, and you aren't planning on sleeping with the SD, just use the game I did
"Babyyyyyyyyy, there is a guy in the club that wants to take me out to dinner. He's planning paying me x amount... C'mon, lets both profit from this guy" :) (then I said "This way I'm mooching off you less!" but that may not apply in your situation)
How were you able to convince him to do it for no sex in the first place? The SDs I've come across all complain that they don't want a girl who is just using them for their money but that actually has a physical and emotional attraction to them...I know right, then why the hell would they want to be sugar daddies?
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Sometimes they just want companionship. Or like you so much they decide to play by your rules.
Shes right- all have an expiration date. Thats why you gotta get as much as your can before things go south! lol
Free dinners is considered a sugar daddy? oh my god!
Anyway about the no sex again, how do you convince them its a good idea? I find a lot of times saying no sex turns them away because they think "oh she's just using me for my money and doesnt actually like me." Again well duh you moron, why are you a sugar daddy if you're not looking to use and be used. Anyway how do you brainwash them into thinking that you're into them but for some reason cant do anything sexual with them?