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I don't post here that often but I found this topic intriguing, I've been toying with this idea for awhile so when I read through this I finally decided to try it and see what happens. I made a profile on sd4me.com and a couple of guys have shown interest.
Assuming this goes far enough for me to meet with them at all, let alone regularly, my biggest problem will be keeping them interested. I am a very reserved person and I often come off as unfriendly because I am so shy. What are some things you girls talked about with your SDs on those first meetings? How different is it from getting acquainted with, say, a VIP customer in the club? What should I do if he is not a very big talker?
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i already know about money slavery, i have been involved in it for two years, i was interested to know if it transpired into sugardaddyom
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I'd be interesting in knowing how much info these guys want as well! If they're paying your bills, how much of the actual bill would they see?
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I have a technical issue ...
Can your SD see your location by your email IPS or whatever ???
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21stcenturyfox
i already know about money slavery, i have been involved in it for two years, i was interested to know if it transpired into sugardaddyom
I was contacted by one(& he was hot too), but I didn't see that many like him on there. He was the only one and he was on seekingarrangements. The guy never contacted me back though, so I wonder.
I'd love to have a sexless SD too. But I found it hard to find on those sites.
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RoseLeigh
If they're paying your bills, how much of the actual bill would they see?
OMG I love you hahahaha!!!
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Obviously they would know where you lived if they were paying your bills. A SD is someone you develop a long term, ongoing thing with...not a fly by night, lets get someone different each month kinda thing...
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Aubreyyy
Obviously they would know where you lived if they were paying your bills. A SD is someone you develop a long term, ongoing thing with...not a fly by night, lets get someone different each month kinda thing...
That I figured, I was just wondering how much these guys know about your actual financial situation, etc.
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LADIES! Second installment coming tonight :)
Rose, you can choose how much you tell them. I always tell them "I work hard, but I like to play harder- and thats where you come in! My taste just overreaches my budget!" b/c I've found they much rather shower you in luxury that you couldn't afford instead of paying your rent. So, my SD knows that I am not poor by any means, but not as rich as him, lol
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Yay for installment #2!! Aubreyyy, how much time would you say you spend w/your SD a week?
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Made a free profile on SD4me. This is what has happened so far and some questions.
I recieved 12 emails since posting my profile a few days ago. My profile has one pic with no face shot. Of the people who have emailed me, most were standard non members where I could not read thier email unless I upgrade to the $20/month membership. Of the members I could contact, 4 were gold, 2 of only from my area. I contacted one by phone and he seemed normal but was looking for more of a relationship and didnt have a problem taking care of his girlfirend as he explained about his previous relationship. The other local has not responded yet. The 2 other gold guys:one wanted my phone mumber and the other is just looking to fool around, he just happens to be rich, didnt sound like he would be generous. How can you screen these guys to be real SD's? I was thinking about upgrading my membership to read the other emails but those guys didn't pay so why should I? Aren't they the SD's and shouldn't have a problem paying for membership? And what's up with so many out of towners? I live in Vegas, so there's gotta be more SD's here than let's say, little rock? So location is important too right? BTW, one email I got, the subject line said that he knew me from the gym. Should we be that worried about people we know may find what we're doing?
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For those who were discussing financial slavery... keep in mind that a lot of SD sites are ANTI-financial slavery. They hate the very idea of it so they do not allow it on their site. Watch what you say to men on these sites, and what your profile says.
That being said, my experiences with SD sites was laughable. I made it very clear in my profile that it was NO SEX. All I got were emails from guys who obviously cant read or choose to ignore the NO SEX part.
My SD? I met him at an art show. Yes, we have sex. I'm moving in with him this month.
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Aubreyyy
LADIES! Second installment coming tonight :)
Rose, you can choose how much you tell them. I always tell them "I work hard, but I like to play harder- and thats where you come in! My taste just overreaches my budget!" b/c I've found they much rather shower you in luxury that you couldn't afford instead of paying your rent. So, my SD knows that I am not poor by any means, but not as rich as him, lol
Thanks! I wasn't sure on the angle-a lot of the girl's ads I've seen are totally "I have no job, pay my bills." Seemed like a bad idea. I'd totally use the money to pay bills though :) I posted an ad-got a bunch of emails so far (no pic yet). One decent sounding one who says he's had two sugarbabys-one that stayed "friendly" the other was apparently more of a mistress set up. The other emails have either been guys who don't even mention money or anything SD-ish in their ad (seems like they just wanna hook up) or email or pervs. This is interesting.
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if no sex what exactly r the guys getting out of this?
i really dont get why any guy would be part of this?
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jaizaine
if no sex what exactly r the guys getting out of this?
i really dont get why any guy would be part of this?
You could ask the same about strip clubs...
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Jaizaine, I can't say for sure because I am not a SD or a man, but it's probably similar to why men go to strip clubs. They get attention a from beautiful woman who can make them feel special, listen to them, go out and do something fun with them, etcetera.
After reading about money slaves in this thread I looked it up and I can't imagine anyone (except the domme of course) getting satisfaction out of that. To each their own, I guess.
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^^
yes that's true about strip clubs. I gues in strip clubs alcohol and the hustle are used to lure them in. I guess Im just surprised that these men sign up to a site to be a sugar daddy so they know it's about the money before they even meet the girl.
what is a money slave?
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So went on a "date" tonight for "SD" guy. He went on and on about himself, even gave me a book he wrote with his business card. He told me how he hated how girls talk about money, and especially in the begining, and how those materialistic things will eventually come and he has no problem doing them. STRINGS ATTACHED is that he wants a relationship. I then told him I had to go and work. He offered me a ride to rhino and there I worked the rest of the night. He continued to text me of how if I played my cards right, I wouldn't do this "shit " anymore. I'm done with this game... Got an hour VIP the first 10min I entered rhino. It's a sign! SD's are a lot of work with too much head games. Keep it in the club ladies!
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He told me how he hated how girls talk about money, and especially in the begining, and how those materialistic things will eventually come and he has no problem doing them.
I would end the conversation right there and finish my steak and leave before the dessert }:D He would look so stupid !! Gives me a good mental image ...
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I made a profile on one of the sites out of curiosity, got contacted right away. Dude sent me his real name and holy shit he's a big noise around here. Now he wants my name, and we work in the same field, so he'll totally be able to look me up and stuff. A little too close for comfort. I'm getting very, very cold feet. Probably couldn't go through with this anyway...the boundaries seem so ill-defined. In the club it's x ammount of time for $x, no strings, and I like it that way.
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jaizaine
what is a money slave?
It's a BDSM related thing. Instead of being dominated sexually, they want to be dominated financially. It's a turn on as a sub to have an area of your life that is supposed to be "yours," taken over and controlled by someone else. It's more of a mind fuck than a money thing.
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Quick Question: So if a guy wants a SD role, but doesn't want to give an allowance, he just wants to pay you for the visits. (1-2 times per month) Dinners, shopping, plus payment, how much should you be asking for? This actually came up with a customer last night and we exchanged emails but I don't know how much to ask for.
Btw, I had this thread in mind while talking to him, and it definitely helped me know where to lead the conversation.
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I already joined a couple of these sites because of this thread. Thank you a million for this info!! I'm going to keep myself on this thread for more info as it comes.
My parents are helping pay for our wedding, but... a few extra people, a new car the end of this year, and/or saving for a house wouldn't hurt!!!
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I've got profiles on some of these sites.
With most guys, it really is a cat a mouse game and they will be a waste of time. They have money, but most do not want to give anything to you until after you are sleeping with them. In the meantime, they expect dates and are turned off and offended when you try to get paid for them. They have delusions of finding girlfriends, or gf's on the side. They don't plan to be a SD until the sexual relationship starts. Its a huge head game and is like finding a needle in a haystack to actually get paid before you give something up.
Most of the time its easier just to go to work!
At least the worst ones you can typically avoid because they will be gross from the get go. When you ask for a photo, they will send nudes. They will send messages like this one I just got...
I say the following with all due respect
and I hope not to offend you, because that's not my intention,
so I apologize for my explicit honesty ahead of time!
I'm just a normal, healthy, honest guy,
who happens to be VERY horny all the time!
I'm not into anything weird or overly kinky
(maybe a little kink within reason is o.k with me!)
Most of all, I want to let you know that...
I AM RECENTLY TESTED NEGATIVE FOR HIV/STDs WITH DOCUMENTATION!
because I want a lady who is willing to let me make love to her
without a condom, I want to feel your warm, wet pussy
wrapped tightly around my cock as we make love.
Then I want to fill your satisfied pussy with my semen.
Do doubt, it really is like a full time job just to sort through the nasty turds, liars, and idiots who want an actual gf. Cultivating a relationship takes TIME and LOADS of bullshitting on your part.