Eeeeww!! Who says that? No thanks!!
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Yeah I threw up a lil. The guy is late 40's, fat, and hideous btw. Luckily the sites have a block button.
what happened to the second installment??
(zabrina: yeah, vom in mouth no doubt!)
aubrey- if youre not on one of the sites
but have what may appear to be a sugar daddy thing developing with a
club customer
how can you tell if hes down for an arrangement?
should i just ask him if he is?
or how would i word that to get a good positive beneficial response from him and not offend him or anything?
Okay I've been playing on SD4me for the last couple hours. I have to say, this is far more disturbing than work. This is a collection of all the old, gross, stinky-breath customers that offer cash to go back to thier hotel. It is all of those nasty's but in virtual form. I now think less of the human race after spending time exchanging emails with several of them.
WE are thinking of tens of thousands of dollars and then ...maybe some action in gratitude... maybe.
THEY are thinking, ACTION right away and money after. <Cannot emphasize this enough. These guys are mostly hobbyists and know the game.
A tip....
SD4me seems to be the low rent sugardaddy site. The guys there are cheaper, more crass, and make less money than guys on the better pay sites.
Part two up!
Sorry ladies, I've been sick the past couple of days :(
Wrote this on the train to meet my new SD... SO glad I'm not searching anymore! He's a divorced ambulence chaser lol...fun storie for sure!
I dunno...when I first started reading the thread I thought, "hell, maybe a SD isn't a bad idea"...but the more I read and think about it, knowing how I am, the concept is kinda scaring and creeping me out. That's just me though, I'm not insulting anyone...just not for me.
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Its a little intense when you first start to think about it for sure...I remember being so creeped out by it when I first thought about doing it.
The more time went on, I realized it's much better than dancing. I see someone once a week TOPS and make 3-5k a month? GOLDEN!
Just read the 2nd installment. I'm sorry, but it sounds like waaayyy too much work at the computer and setting up "dates". I rather just spend all that time at the gym, reading HH and other industry related help and just going to work at the club where you're gauranteed to make some kind of money.
For those of you that live in cities where weekends are you money making nights, then I can see where you can invest the rest of your time on these sites.
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Its certainly not meant for everyone...
I've also found that there really is an age limit on it. I don't know if it works the same way for anyone over say, 27? Being young is part of the allure I guess.
^Its been edited into the first post.
Ladies....just wanted to give you a quick success story. I've been through a couple of SDs- SD #1 just bought me a bunch of presents, SD #2 paid my rent.
I met SD #3 the other day and I am so frekaing excited. He's paying all my bills, gave me a BMW 3 series coupe, and I have an allowance of 5k a month. To see him once a week, in Philly, for dinner and drinks, and to flaunt around his ex wife a bit.
WHOOOO!
Girl, you have been so lucky. My SD experiences were horrible. LOL.
Not sure, anytime I get paid for BDSM stuff, it's just the kinky beat me kind of stuff. I've never practiced financial slavery with anyone.
I signed up with seeking an arrangement and posted a pretty well thought out profile. I lied about my age as I figured this would be a factor. I made sure to put it between 21 and 25. Good range I think. Anyways...
I have a LOT of emails daily. Typically 15 to 20. Out of those 15 and 20 emails. 2 are worth responding to. Just two. Most are filled with LONG winded bullshit talk. I delete those. Then there are the ones that are just right off the bat filled with sexual crap. Delete again. The ONLY two in the week I've had this profile that seems to hold any promise.
One is a huge lawyer in Vegas. Right off the bat he wanted my email so he could send me his info. I have a bs email for that site so I said sure go ahead. He sent links to his ads, his website and yes I googled him. He works for the NBA. There you go. But he's pushy. Too pushy. Very "lets talk" and after working as long as I've worked in strip clubs I notice red flags pretty easily.
Then the other in his opening email said "Lets do lunch, I'll go ahead and pay you for your time just to come to lunch so you know I'm not playing head games 250 ".
I'm a curious person though that knows there is always a catch so I have to wonder..why 250? Why not 300 or 200? Makes me think he sees a lot of escorts since that is the going rate around here.
Humph. I dunno. I'm doing this more out of curiosity than want or need. I rather go to work and get the money and leave the shit in the club. This gives me something to do I guess.
Zabrina is hilarious and her depiction seems about right on
I wouldn't cut the guys who get to right to the point... They've prob just been lookin for a while and know that a lot of the girls that aren't serious are just bullshitting and don't like to talk on the phone. Getting someone on the phone up front is a good way to weed out the tire kickers, and he probably knows that.
Also- why wouldn't you take $250 for lunch? I think he sounds like a good candidate! You know he's willing to pay that way...that he's not a bullshitter!
I never said I was unwilling to take any money off of anyones hands lol.
I just find it odd that it's a number he came up with.
Is this guy name Michael? I met someone who sounded like that on Match.com last year. I explained my date in a thread a while ago. He didn't pay me but I wasn't looking for a SD then, I wanted a boyfriend. He was a lush and I walked out in the middle of dinner after the second date. PM me if this is him.
Well, I've already got a freaking stalker who emailed me while I was putting up my ad (when it basically said nothing but name, age, etc) and now hasn't stopped since. Keeps emailing to ask if I'm 'serious', etc. Lovely.