Can't a man be very attractive and also very kind and supportive?
...or did I just luck out and is my head in the clouds?
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Can't a man be very attractive and also very kind and supportive?
...or did I just luck out and is my head in the clouds?
Maybe it's just the less attractive men who ask?
TheSexKitten:
Lets hope!
straight people are funny
*flees!*
^^^^HA! Don't think for a moment this doesn't go on in gay relationships. Get a chick who's hotter and you got a handful of diva drama! Get a chick who spends more energy on bringing home the bacon (assuming you're the diva) and she's motivated to keep you impressed!
Blast!
Please form the engagement line at my PM inbox, and wind it around the top bar navigation links, as needed.
If you say so.... *goes to line up*
ha lestat
Eh. I'm screwed then, lol... bc I wouldn't marry someone who I find less attractive.
None of my husbands has been less attractive than me. My ex had a very hot body and had a very well defined face. My current man has all sorts of women hitting on him, for instance...but he only has his eyes, mind, and emotions on me.
I do understand this to some extent and believe part of it. I do think women do often seek out less attractive men because of feeling he won't stray. However, I don't think this means beautiful women marry ugly men. I've dated some ugly men and they were the biggest jerks ever.
My lady's sister is living proof of this survey. When she was younger she was a club girl, could sleep with anyone she wanted, never had a relationship last more than 3-6 months (Usually when the guy caught on he was being used), and knew whenever she walked into a room she would be one of the women all the stray eyes would check out. Then she decided she was done with that and moved on. She ended up marrying a guy with a stick so far up his ass he sneezes splinters. She picked him and everyone knows it. He even changed religions for her. His strong points are a very well paying job, taking care of their kid at all times, and keeping her happy. About once a month she likes to head out with some of her old friends for a night out and he lets her have her way. I'd even go so far as to say if she wanted to have an affair he would be ok with it as long as she came back to him.
And I also know I am 7+ years with a woman I have no business being with on many levels including looks. She picked me and I'm not leaving unless I get thrown out.
^^That sounds like a terrible relationship. How worthless would you have to feel about yourself to allow your partner to cheat on you without repercussions? Any relationship that makes you feel worthless by comparison is one I don't want to be in. A partner is supposed to bring out the best in you, not have you worried on a daily basis she's going to leave you.
That's true and I suspect this happens when women date/marry men much below them. When I did online I had many men I'm sure would have done anything I wanted but their looks were so below mine (I'm talking butt ugly)that it wouldn't have been worth it for either of us. Who wants to be with a doormat?
the title of this thread alone makes my vagina dry
What I will never get are why the ugliest men are often the nastiest. We can all understand why handsome men are jerks because they can get anyone. However ugly men being jerks makes no sense. I've dated a few ugly men because people told me to give them a chance yet often did bad things. That's why when I saw an ugly man on dating site immediate delete. I might consider one if I know he'll treat me like gold, such as buying me things but otherwise? nope.
Perhaps but you'd think they would then be nicer instead of nasty.
Women...pretty. Men...ugly. Simple.