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I'm really sorry that happened to you even though I don't understand how it happened. How did he get it in there with your panties on?
I would have called the police. Seriously, thats not something you just get kicked out for...I hope everything turns out okay on your test. Hugs.
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I would have had the management hold him on citizen's arrest. He raped you. I would have had him arrested.
Why didn't management call the police?
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^^^Exactly! That's rape!
I'm sorry this happened to you.
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um babe you were raped. why the hell were the police not called? you need to call the police and talk to your club owner.
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I don't think she has to explain herself. She was raped and she came here for support. I've had a guy TRY to do this to me when I worked nude but he didn't succeed. Anyway take care. You must be traumatized.
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How did he stick his penis in you with your bottoms on? I'm confused..
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Maybe she was giving a nude dance.
I am so sorry hun :hug:
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My boyfriend manages to do it all the time (to me, not random people!!), its really not that hard to just move a thong over...
that said you really need to call the police sweetie.
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^ Yeah. It only takes a second to pull panties aside. One swift move.
I cant believe they kicked him out. They should have called the cops and held him until the police arrived. I'm sure that the OP was to upset and not thinking clearly enough to ask that they call...but they should have done it automatically.
I would go to the hospital, get a rape kit done, file a report with the police, send the hospital bill to the club. Shit, then I'd take a nice long vacation and send that bill to the club as well. ( But that's fantasy land) Seriously though, take a vacation. Take a break. I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's not fair.
Did yuo get any information from this guy? His first name, where he lived, what he does for a living? ANything? I would go as far as hire a private detective to try to find him. He deserves to be punished for what he has done.
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Definitely call the police. Your club managers are completely vile for not doing it last night.
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if you decide to go back to dancing here is a suggestion for bottoms you should have made for you: find denim with stretch in it like the kind that is in stretchy skinny jeans have this material made Into a low bikini bottom: the sides of the bottoms can come together with sexy chain links or strong sequin buckles but the crotch and bum will be impossible for any customer to get his fingers into since these bottoms will fit you just like your own blue jeans; I wear these and have made the best $$$ of my career even though my butt is covered. I will post a link to my myspace in a minute
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ViolaStrings
I would have had the management hold him on citizen's arrest. He raped you. I would have had him arrested.
Why didn't management call the police?
"citizens arrest" lol its more like "i dunno officer........ he must have tripped and smashed his face off the bar.... a couple of times.... trying to run after what he did. we just used the zip ties and duct tape to make sure he couldn't run after."
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Something just doesn't sound right.
Were you drunk? It is just impossible to slip it in unless you had no underwear on and like the minute i felt anything touch me there it is "damage control" in which i move in a hurry. No swift movement like that can get past me unless i was somehow intoxicated. I doubt even intoxicated.
I am sorry if it did happen and you were messed up and im sorry if it wasn't expained correctly but there is just no way I can get the story you said in my mind to make sense.
Ok, so a lot of people automatically hush hush, "i am sorry, let's not ask questions because it sounds like it was a horrible situation." and thats cool and all. It also doesn't sound completely valid and i guess my sympathy factors get turned off if the story is fake. Maybe its not fake, could you possibly explain in depth a little more? I mean, you already put it on the internet for everyone to see, I don't think a little more explanation would hurt?
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I'm curious too, were you squatting down over him or something? It takes a little fumbling sometimes to get it in, unless I'm like super wet or something - maybe I'm just built strange though.
And this isn't meant to be callous - but maybe it'll help me avoid the same thing happening to me.
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I would give a potential rape victim the benefit of the doubt. If a guy has a big enough penis and enough force it can move underwear. Hell, I've been penetrated through pants before, granted they were stretchy pants, but if a guy's junk is strong enough and used forcefully I don't doubt for a second it could bypass some measly thong.
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True. I guess I was wondering mostly about positioning and such. Anyway, it's a horrible crime to even imagine.
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im so sorry :( everything will be alright take time to relax- u need it!
i always wear two or three thongs and i buy them extra small so they are tight on me becuz i am so scared of this!
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Oh Jeez, I'm so sorry:hug: If you haven't gone to the hospital already please do.
Does your club have cameras? I want to kick your management in the face for not calling the cops.
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your management has acting VERY disrespectly and inapproprately in this situation its disgusting. why on earth didnt they call the police its fucking RAPE!!! im so sorry this has happened to you babe :( u NEED TO PRESS CHARGES against this creep or he will do it again to someone else. PLEASE go to the police and report it.
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I understand why...but it is certainly not right. I hope you've contacted the authorities and a counselor as well.
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I'm very sorry that happened. You can still go in a file a police report while it's still fresh in your memory and bring it back up incase this asshole comes back into the club or somehow you get his name. Because it was only a second, there isn't a great chance you caught an STD, although get tested anyway. There should be a free clinic or cheap clinics around where you live
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im really disappointed with the posts that are scrutinising her about how it could have happened. FUCK. dancers are in a vulnerable position. i work at a nude club and even if she doesn't how is a little g-string supposed to protect a dancer?
anyway its besides the fucking point how it happened.
you were raped babe and im really sorry this sick fuck violated you in this way.
i agree u should call the police yourself about this and have them investigate. dont even bother with the club. the police can get the surveilance videos from them.
him getting kicked out is PATHETIC. that is not justice or a deterrent. he will possibily go try it again. it might not even be his first time. raping cunt!
i am so angry to read this.
Take care babe. This was in NO WAY YOUR FAULT.
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^^
true, yeh that could easily happen.
not to mention that digital penetration is also rape. so if that happens/has happened to anyone that is also rape.
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okay soooooooo the ironic thing about this is this is one of the very few days i chose to be SOBER at work, so all those remarks about me being intoxicated are NOT needed......i had my bottoms on and OBVIOSLY it isnt impossible to get rapped with them on CUZ IT HAPPENED TO ME! but thank you for that ignorant comment, like one of u ladies said, it takes only a second to move those to the side & the reason management didnt call the cops was because i walked up to the doorman sobbing and the only thing i told him was "that guy whipped out his dick" and RIGHT away he ran after him, both he & the manager had a talk with me in the back after it happened and i told them the whole story and the manager was just like "oh damn, i didnt know he put it in blablabla" so obviously its my fault for not tellin the floorman right away but i was just in shock