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does your club allow the fetish guys their time too?
My club is pissing me off. i have 2 customers who are into ball crushing, and my club wont allow it. i do it anyway and then get into trouble. we dont have private vip rooms, just a large vip dance area and if you want a champagne room they put up partition screens.
i could make regular good money off of them but i get yelled at and the guys get pissed off and dont come back. the managers and owners say were not allowed to touch the crotch area, even though plenty of girls do just not with their feet or knees. grinding is overlooked on this rule.
so does your club allow customers with fetish interests to spend their money there and be serviced? my club is so ass backwards its not even funny. they are always saying we need to bring in new customers but then deny these guys who generally spend more away.
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Can't you just find a dark corner and use you're knee and just be discrete? I don't really know anything about ball crushing but as long as you're not making a big scene of it and assuming you have a fairly big club, the managers aren't going to be watching you every second. How would they know if you don't talk about it or draw attention to yourself?
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its a little hard to not draw attention to yourself when you are kicking a man and stomping on his crotch as hard as you can while telling him "you like that dont you bitch"
these guys dont want discrete they want it to hurt.
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if your club is cramping your style, change clubs? If they're getting what they want from you, your custies will follow you to the new place!
you have REGULAR guys who want to be hurt in the balls..as in multiple each night? woww..
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no id say once a week, i have 2 guys that enjoy that, but theres always the random hurt me and smack me in the face guys i get too. i just draw them in they think since i have tattoos im a domme or something.
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I don't know what the legals are on that as I could see a club get raided and you thrown in jail for prositution over these guys not having thier pants on and you having thier balls in yr hands. I don't know ?? It propably is not for what it is rather then what it looks like type of problem.
Anyhow I suggest seeing other customers as a domme outside if that's yr desire at a publix playground if you choice not to see them in private. i generally deal with men that want me to do my job as a stripper (dances, watching me strip)in the stripclub and anything fetish related outside as I don't want to have to explain those things to any1 outside the scene.
However as we have private room I have heard stories of guys getting the champagne bottles shoved up thier ass for 2-3 grand float around here, girls stomping on guys balls with thier heels after having them in the ice buckets..and so on, but I wouldn't name any names or say it was anything more then a rumor I heard. lol
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no no no their pants are on! im not touching their junk with my hands or bare feet.
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while i understand where you're coming from, i also see another way to look at it. a strip club isn't a fetish club, you know? what if the guy's fetish was really fat girls? well, theyre not going to hire a 300 pound woman just to make that one or 2 guys happy.
while your customers may be spending, as you said, it's not easy to be discrete in that situation. that might scare away others from the club in general, or deter them from buying dances.
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I agree with Britt. Also, just because a guy wants something doesn't mean you should break the club rules to do it. I would suggest maybe seeing them outside of the club with your own security or going to another club that allows it one night a week or something and having the guys meet you there.
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yeah im not going otc for customers. not happening.
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I've only ever worked in places with closed-door VIP and dance rooms where fetish stuff can go on without an audience. Are there no clubs where your at with closed-door dances?
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no where i live all the vip rooms are group vips, or they are doorless.
im not sure i would be comfortable working in a vip room with a door.
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We have VIP rooms with curtains. Certainly there is someone who can hear close by. And all is taped. We would be able to ball crush if we want.
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I know you dont want to do OTC but you really could charge a lot for what you are doing!! If you are not comfortable going to their home or having them in your home (which I wouldnt be comfortable with either lol) you could always have them meet you at a Motel 6 or Holiday Inn or something. I would think you would be able to charge like 500 bucks or so for something like this right? You could just pay a guy friend 50 bucks to make sure he stays in line, although I think guys who are into ball crushing tend to be submissive anyway....
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Oddly, I was just talking to the bouncers last night about boundaries and consequences, and the scenario of ball-crushing (where he is clothed, btw) came up. I said if I were asked, I'd have to say no not because of club policy, but because I think I could be liable for any injuries that exceeded what he had in mind. After all, if he's into this, maybe he was just beat up so that the next slightest impact could cause rupture of the testicle, which requires surgery.
Presumably, clubs forbid it not because of prostitution (is a knee to the balls "a sexual act" on the books in some jurisdictions, regardless of whether it's sexual to a bottom?), but because of liability with injury? Consent to the contact may not be available as a defense. I'm also guessing that as an independent contractor, I would have the risk of a suit against me.
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See if you can get them to come in way early in your shift when you are likely to have the room to yourselves ? I'm sure you've already thought of that though.
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Originally Posted by
i.breathe.in
i just draw them in they think since i have tattoos im a domme or something.
I hear ya. I've had many bitch slaps and bites requested. I will sure as hell deliver a good smack, but biting a random dude is a little on the germy side. I must look like a vampire or something on stage though cause I get about 2 bite requests to every bitch slap. Red hair...pale skin...penchant for black outfits...it kinda fits.
Personally, I agree with VegasPrincess, get a hotel room and make a killing off this shit! A friend of mine got paid $1000 to force a guy into a corset...something I dearly wish I could have seen.
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I have a foot fetish customer, and I got in trouble for having my shoes off in the VIP room! This guy was paying me $500 an hour to rub my feet and talk! Meanwhile, I work in a no contact club and girls in rooms next to me are grinding and putting their tits in the guy's face. Fucking eh.
I used to have a customer that loved to be kicked in the balls. Definitely got in trouble for that. No one gets it.
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I've only worked in two clubs that looked the other way when I had someone who was into stomping or beating. One club actually promoted the hell out "fetishes" although it was just a strip club but a LOT if not all extras went on there. I made a ton of money in that club off of men with fetishes.
The club I just left isn't a contact club :cough unless you are in the vip room cough: They had a customer that came in once a month and would ask random girls to come upstairs and wrestle one another! Mind you this is a gown/pasty/full back bottoms club! A club where on the floor if you get caught with as much as putting your hand on their shoulder you are in deep shit. When I say wrestle I mean beat the shit out of one another. I was called up their once. Once he explained what he wanted to see, I was like ehh...no way dude. I mean I was looking at one of the meaniest gnarliest chicks in there and I knew she wanted to rip me limb from limb. He paid for an hour of my time and sent me away. Weird.
I have no idea why I just told that story. Anyways, as far as stomping goes I'm assuming it's a liability issue. No matter how trained the guy seems in getting this punishment something could go wrong. And then in that case, the ER would be called in and blah blahblah. I think they are just looking out for their own asses. The only thing I could suggest is possibly working at a dungeon one night a week and letting these guys know where to find you at there.
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Well a rule is a rule and I don't see why fetish guys should get exemption.
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Yeah... some clubs are less receptive to fetish requests than others. I got bitched out for spanking a guy (with his pants on) once. Club management can be closed minded but I think they are also afraid of law suits that could result from any possible injuries.
My advice: do some part time work in a dungeon in your area if you enjoy doing fetish stuff.
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actually i dont enjoy it that much but its good money. im not good at being domme. people just assume i am like i said. im actually quite submissive in my own sex life.
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^^^ I see.
In that case I wouldn't recommend placing your job at risk by catering to the fetish dudes... it's probably not worth it in the long run.
Really your only options are to be more discreet at the club or set up appointments in another venue (i.e. dungeon or elsewhere OTC).
Trying to explain to the management or bouncers will probably be a losing battle so save your breath and get sneaky! LOL.
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deffinatly a losing battle, its just hard to see easy money walking out the door. gah.
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Yep.... it's a shame. I've been there :-[.