Recruiting Girls Into the Biz...
Has anyone else ever convinced another girlfriend to take up dancing?
I have a very close friend who has been asking me a lot of questions about dancing in general and in Guam specificly. She's been traveling for a period of time and wants to know how she can make "a ton" of money in a short time once she gets back into the US.
She has never danced before and has done very minimal within the sex industry. I don't think she's ever really frequented a strip club. Sometimes she sounds really excited and that makes me excited but sometimes she sounds ambivilant and I don't want to feel like I'm talking dancing up to pressure her so I back off. But I'm not going to lie to her. She's hot and new or not, if she took up dancing, she'd make money.
I do feel like it took me a long time doing this job to get over hearing some of the horrible shit we have to absorb everyday. I feel like there are somethings that she would take offense to more easily than I and I don't want her to ever resent me for putting her in the position to hear it. I also can't protect her and I know from her experiences that she's crossed paths with worse.
As far as traveling goes, I would really have a serious talk about coming out here and try to prepare her with what this place can really be like (for better or worse).
I just feel really confused about the whole thing. I just wish I could be selfish adn take her with me whereever I go . :-\
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Take her to a club the first or second night and see if she even feel comfortable in the situation. A lot of girls have bad experiences on here about getting a friend to dance, but I've personally never tried it. If she likes it, take her to an audition, get a group of friends to help out and come along to cheer and if she likes it GREAT...if not, no lose on your part and you can't say you didn't try to help. If she's good with kids she can work as a nanny and make a good chunk of change (at least where I live) if she can set aside 6months to a year. Just a thought if the whole stripper thing works out. Also you could get her interested in bartending or cocktail waitressing. Both can be very lucrative depending on your area.
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haha i talked all my female friends into dancing...
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If she does get serious about it and wants to give it a shot, it'd definitely be nice of you to help her out with her audition and first shift, even just to give her the basics. If you're not cool with that, why not just introduce her to stripperweb? She'll definitely learn about stripping here and probably have an easier time figuring out if she wants to do it or not. Plus she could learn so many hustling tips and stuff and you wouldn't have to teach her.
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I have and she seems to like it. It isn't your job to protect her, she help her with what she needs. She may end up loving the job.
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i.breathe.in
haha i talked all my female friends into dancing...
Did you sell them on dancing or do you think they wanted to get into it and you just gave them the proper ecouragement to take the plunge? What do you think you said to finally seal the deal? Were any of them ambivilant or do you think they were super enthusiastic to begin with?