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if you didn't like it, you wouldn't be here
so i had a shitty week last week. i worked 4 days and made a total of 250.00
probably my worst week in months, and it sure as hell didn't come at a good time.
anyway, because i'm desperate, today i sit with a guy who gives me bad vibes (but also money potential vibes).
within a couple songs he asks for dances. he got dances from a girl before me and says i'm better blah blah... things seem to be going well...
then during the 3rd song he starts complaining about the level of contact. he "heard so much about tampa" (he's from out of town) and he doesn't "get" why he can't touch me "where he wants".
i explain the rules to him again and make some jokes to try and change the subject. i (of course) don't mention that he's at one of the cleanest clubs in tampa. it's not air dances, there's contact, but it's minimal and it's mostly one-way (customers can't touch breasts or crotch). there's also no grinding. i "brush against" here and there, but that's it as far as crotch contact goes.
anyway, on the 4th song he starts trying to get handsy. i tell him to knock it off and keep dancing. i really would have bailed at this point normally, but like i said, desperate.
so on the 5th song what does he do? just reaches up and grabs my right breast. sort of pinches it, as if he had lobster hands. then of course, he is thoroughly amused with himself. you know, like he thinks it's the funniest thing in the universe.
i say something to him about it and he says
"if you didn't like that sort of thing you wouldn't be here"
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what
the
flying
fuck
?
so i say "is that REALLY what you think?"
and he says "yeah. if we all just sat here and behaved ourselves you wouldn't get any excitement out of it" then he goes on to tell me to stop "acting offended".
WHAT
THE
MOTHER
FUCKING
HOLY
FUCK
?
>_<
shdiufyhiuayhruiwy4832742 sigh
yeah. that's right dude. i get my jollies being manhandled by fat old men. THAT is why i'm a stripper.
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Re: if you didn't like it, you wouldn't be here
*hiss*
OH HELL NO. I can't believe he actually said it. I hope you slapped him or kicked him or something... after all, that happens in strip clubs, and if he didn't like it he wouldn't be there.
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Re: if you didn't like it, you wouldn't be here
did he pay you?
sucks about the dollhouse, i was thinking about working there in the near future.
is it really that hopeless?
tampa is shit right now.
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Re: if you didn't like it, you wouldn't be here
why do they think we "like that sort of thing" I will never know.
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Re: if you didn't like it, you wouldn't be here
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Originally Posted by
katie941
did he pay you?
sucks about the dollhouse, i was thinking about working there in the near future.
is it really that hopeless?
tampa is shit right now.
yeah he paid me. i would have written a different story otherwise, lol.
i've had less horrible incidents at the dollhouse than anywhere else i've worked, by far. that's why i'm still there (going on 2 years).
that being said, it's still in tampa.
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Originally Posted by
Yekhefah
*hiss*
OH HELL NO. I can't believe he actually said it. I hope you slapped him or kicked him or something... after all, that happens in strip clubs, and if he didn't like it he wouldn't be there.
i didn't slap him or anything. i talk a big game, but sometimes i pussy out and just get my money and go. :/
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that is horrible. Im sorry to hear about that. I hate those kinda men but I know when it is shit for money sometimes you take chances with the types of customers you go after that normally you might ignore. Ive done it I know...
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Re: if you didn't like it, you wouldn't be here
"if you had any chance in hell of ever seeing a pussy for free, you wouldn't be here either."
:P
Sorry you had to deal with that. *hug*
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Re: if you didn't like it, you wouldn't be here
And then you have the typical ones who say "You dont REALLYYYYY enjoy this. You just do it for the money"
::)
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Guys go to jail in strip clubs for solicitation of prostitution too. They must enjoy it though because why else would they do it?
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What an ass. I don't get this whole "all strippers love being abused and molested" mentality that some guys have going on.
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Originally Posted by
noelle
What an ass. I don't get this whole "all strippers love being abused and molested" mentality that some guys have going on.
but if we didn't we wouldn't be strippers.
come on now.
the logic is FLAWLESS.
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Re: if you didn't like it, you wouldn't be here
you should of collected your money got dressed and kicked him in the balls. when he asked why say "well i thought thats why you come here, to get blue balls"
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Originally Posted by
noelle
What an ass. I don't get this whole "all strippers love being abused and molested" mentality that some guys have going on.
This how these idiots in their mind justify their own bad behaviour so they don't feel guilty or bad for mistreating a woman.It's either she must like it or she's used to it and expects it.
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i think it's called blaming the victim.
i mean, girls who wear short skirts and get raped want it too, right?
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Originally Posted by
noelle
"all strippers love being abused and molested" mentality that some guys have going on.
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Originally Posted by
rusdancer
This how these idiots in their mind justify their own bad behaviour so they don't feel guilty or bad for mistreating a woman.It's either she must like it or she's used to it and expects it.
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Originally Posted by
she sells sanctuary
i think it's called blaming the victim.
i mean, girls who wear short skirts and get raped want it too, right?
It's unfortunetly all too true that people are so sick. These men are putting their responsibility to act decent on to other people and blame shifting. They can't wrap their mind around the fact that people with vaginas and estrogen in their bloodstream are people too. If a woman is not in a burka (and maybe even that wouldn't matter) they think that she simply a toy.
And even non molester men can't wrap their minds around the fact that we are there for money and no other purpose.
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What a disgusting pig :(
Here's to a much better week :cheers:
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God, that shit happens to me WAY too much. I totally feel for you.
On my last shift I was walking to the stage and this dude reached out and tried to grab my box, and thankfully I saw it in time and dodged him and said "NO.", but then he actually SHOVED me and told me that I would never get anywhere dancing if I didn't "lose my bad attitude" and "learn to do my job".
Its funny how men change so much when they walk into the club. I wish it were the good ol' days where we got more respect.
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Originally Posted by
i.breathe.in
you should of collected your money got dressed and kicked him in the balls. when he asked why say "well i thought thats why you come here, to get blue balls"
HAHAHA, NICE.
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He's right. I'm actually really horny, and it's the only attention I ever get. I pray everytime I give a lap dance, that somebody fingers me. I need to get off.
HAHAHAHAAH!!
What a douche? By that logic, he must enjoy getting his ass kicked by large bouncers and stilletos jabbed into his crotch.
This story makes me really mad. That's a rapists mentality, right there.
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Part of me just wants to see a guy try to finger a girl who's 'cut the string'.;D
Can you imagine it?
Seriously though. I don't even want them touching me. You bought the dance from me, fucktard -- you didn't buy me.
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This kind of shit pisses me off. What's wrong with these guys!!?? I was doing a dance for a guy and told him, like, 4 times that he couldn't touch me there, watch your hands, etc. I finally got to the point where I put my forearm across his throat, applied pressure, and told him if he touched me again, I'd choke him. It just makes me angry.
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Originally Posted by
VegasPrincess
This story makes me really mad. That's a rapists mentality, right there.
Thank You! He is a rapist.He's a predator and clubs that don't monitor the customers nurture an environment for rapists. That's why they come.