Is it really necessary to cling to the custie for song after song?
Maybe I've been a tad bitchy lately, but does anyone else find it annoying when a chick gets in the lap of a custie and just clings around his neck for song after song after song. Guys around here sometimes need a little (lot) of encouragement to spend, but damn. Get off his neck. It's not Santa.
Can you tell it's been a slow few weeks?
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do u mean during the dance? like thats how they dance? or after the dance?
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I sat with a custy for about an hour or more on Friday, lounging all over him, and he ended up spending $940 on me.
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^^That is not the way it works in most clubs. If these girls were making that kind of money for their time, no one would complain! I know around these here parts it takes no more than a couple o' Jaeger bombs and maybe some cheese fries to get some chicks to sit and smoke with you all night.
This is the absolute, number one bane of my stripper existence. Over extras girls, over bad custies, over shitty management. Girls who give away for free what I am trying to sell (time) fuck with my money more than any other factor.
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Oooo!!! There was one in my club tonight that wouldn't take the hint from the guys to leave. When the table didn't have enough chairs for her... SHE SAT ON THE FLOOR!! between the guys legs.
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Dottie Rebel
^^That is not the way it works in most clubs. If these girls were making that kind of money for their time, no one would complain! I know around these here parts it takes no more than a couple o' Jaeger bombs and maybe some cheese fries to get some chicks to sit and smoke with you all night.
This is the absolute, number one bane of my stripper existence. Over extras girls, over bad custies, over shitty management. Girls who give away for free what I am trying to sell (time) fuck with my money more than any other factor.
I agree. The girls that sit with the guys allll night long are the worst. Far worse than the extra girls, because guys know and expect you to sit there as long as they want for little or no money. They are getting the attention they want w/o spending a dime. This goes hand in hand with all the girls that cant take the hint that the guy has no interest in them. Some girls have the "the longer I sit here the more $ I get," problem.
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jaizaine
do u mean during the dance? like thats how they dance? or after the dance?
Nope, generally without doing ANY dances. Just parking and laying all over the guy. Generally for nothing. Or one dance, eventually.
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^^^
Oh, no, of course I was doing dances for him and his friend. I would also go and come back. I just meant that sometimes some extra time spent pays off - so maybe what I said was irrelevant.
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i love these girls that hang on guys all night and dont do a goddamn thing, seriousy.
i wish there were more. while they sit on their asses for free im making the money in the rest of the club. the more girls in the dressing room, or sitting with guys that dont spend, the more for us girls that work!
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Gabrielle MB
Oooo!!! There was one in my club tonight that wouldn't take the hint from the guys to leave. When the table didn't have enough chairs for her... SHE SAT ON THE FLOOR!! between the guys legs.
Please tell me you're joking? :O
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Gabrielle MB
Oooo!!! There was one in my club tonight that wouldn't take the hint from the guys to leave. When the table didn't have enough chairs for her... SHE SAT ON THE FLOOR!! between the guys legs.
Wow- I don't even like to sit on guys' laps!!!
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true i work at a bigger club so it doesnt really effect me.
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Gabrielle MB
Oooo!!! There was one in my club tonight that wouldn't take the hint from the guys to leave. When the table didn't have enough chairs for her... SHE SAT ON THE FLOOR!! between the guys legs.
HAHAHA that's the funniest thing i've heard all day.
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I don't want to thread jack (but since I already mentioned it) I can't help myself to share the whole story. It sounds unbelievable.
I have a routine when I first get to work. I order a drink and sit by myself and 'survey' the crowd/club. Last night as I was doing this, this guy and his friend crash my table. Turns out they were trying to get away from the above dancer. She followed them to my table. These guys were young and from Miami throwing money around like nothing and talking about drugs, drugs, drugs. I let them 'entertain' me for a bit, since they were refusing to get dances. I got several drinks and lots of tips, some even $20s. Nice start to my night. They kept talking about 'Come to my hotel, blah blah'. One was telling the other that he was going to leave him without a ride. Above mentioned dancer was practically begging him to let her drive him there. She would bounce back and forth between them hanging on them, holding thier hand, sitting on them, etc. They were physically bringing other girls over to the table and making it rain on stage. I never saw them give her anything, although I wasn't really watching, I had other things to do. They never outright told her to move on. They were cold shouldering her by not tipping her and flooding the table with other dancers. (note* after they came to me, I sat with them until my stage rotation, then moved on to normal hustling, rowdy young guys are not my thing). Later on on the night is when I saw her sitting on the floor in front of one of them. My freaking jaw dropped. It was really, really trashy. The bouncer kept having a problem with one guy wearing his hat backwards. When he came over he bouncer told her to get up. At the end of the night the bouncer told me that one of the guys puked a puddle in her lap. They had to carry the guy out. The guys went to the bar next store (owned by same people) and started a fight over there. When our bouncers went over there and broke it up, one guy went to his car and got a gun, held it to the bouncers head and told him he needs to make him leave. The bouncer told him he better go ahead and shoot him or leave (!?!). Guy left (again, !?!). They got his plate number off the security camera, called the cops and filed a report.
End thread jack, sorry. I Had to share this night. Maybe I should go post on night at the office.
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I don't want to indulge in your thread jack... but it is a great story!
The guys that wanted to take you OTC, and the guys that the cray girl was gonna go with, had a GUN???? :O Wow... that is so scary. Imagine if they had taken her...
damn, you never know.
Never cling to custies; they may have guns! ;)
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I hang around for about a song... two the most. If they dont go with me after 2 songs, I leave. I just say something like, "Ok well it was nice meeting ya! If you wanna dance later, let me know!" >smile, wink< and then I am off.
Im not usually bitchy but I wont stand for someone screwing with my money or time.
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A lot of girls immediately sit on a guys lap. I've NEVER done that...always sit down next to him or stand and talk for a while... I find being a little aloof and making him work to get ME to be his dancer works pretty well... Also, I wear more "modest" or "normal" looking dresses than the other girls (still very sexy) and i think it makes me seem less "stripper like" to the guys.. And there's more incentive for him to pay me to take it off...
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RoseLeigh
Maybe I've been a tad bitchy lately, but does anyone else find it annoying when a chick gets in the lap of a custie and just clings around his neck for song after song after song. Guys around here sometimes need a little (lot) of encouragement to spend, but damn. Get off his neck. It's not Santa.
Can you tell it's been a slow few weeks?
i don't care what the fuck they do (within rules/reason) so long as the customer is enjoying and is PAYING THEM.
but when the customer isn't spending any money and the girl is "hanging out" with him, it drives me crazy.
at our club we have a "9 song rule" that was just "enacted". you're not supposed to sit with a customer for more than 9 songs if he's not spending any money on you.
when i was told this i said "NIIIINE SONGS?????? that's like 30 minutes!"
dude. fuck that. i give it 15 minutes MAX and that's only if it's really slow and i have nothing better to do. usually i'm a 2-3 songs kinda girl. if you haven't tipped me at all or gotten a dance within that time, i'm not staying.
and yes, this rule was started because girls would actually sit with customers for HOURS without making ANY money. then they'd cry later abput how he didn't give them anything for their time.
>_<
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Irelynx
...except that when you work in a small club, with few dancers, it becomes a big problem. While they sit & hang off the guy all night, the rest of us have to make our rounds much faster because guys don't want to hang around long when there's 5 girls and one is hanging off a customer, one is hanging off a boy toy, one is glued to their phone & the DR, and the fourth bounces between working and chatting (for long periods)...leaving the last girl to work the floor non-stop because no one else is doing it. And when you have that few girls, and most of them are in the back when customers walk in, customers are likely to walk right back out because they only see one girl on the floor.
Quoted for truth. I'm about to finish a contract where this is the most amount of girls I have worked with at this strip club - 8! Usually there is only one "fly in" girl not three like there is at the moment (until I go home tomorrow).
Even with that amount of girls, last night there was a period where all of us were booked out in the lap dance room. Yes each and every girl who worked that night... so for a short period (around 20 mins) there was NO GIRLS.
Anyway, I have to agree with the sentiment of this thread. In a bigger club, I welcome the lazy girls.. the girls that want to hang around people for good amounts of time for (seemingly) free as that only helps me. At the same time, if this happens with a lot of the girls and it starts to "get known" that patrons can expect the strippers to hang out with them for good periods of time without having to spend anything more than a drink or two.. yeah... I want to kick you stupid girl.
Besides, most people know whether they will spend on a lap dance on you or not within 5 minutes. Plus it is good to have them "miss you" too.. spend a little time with them.. give them a taste as such.. then go away. Have them miss you! :) It can work wonders.
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I honestly think this creates a big problem with customers leaving really pissed off. I can NOT count the number I've times I've heard men say, "This girl sat here, and she wouldn't leave so I felt obligated to her, but really I did not want her."
This infuriates me, because I know that it is a tactic that several dancers use if they have no other way of closing a sale. Personally, I think it's pathetic for a girl to sit there for 15, 30,...60 minutes and then feel a certain entitlement to dances! If you can't close a sale within 15 minutes max, move on. I think, MOSt of the time, you waste more money sitting and waiting for him to decide when you can be out making money.