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Law of attraction. For sure. :yes:
Whenever I am about to hit the floor, I announce in my head "I am a money magnet." Then I walk around with that thought in my mind. Like austinatalie, I think I am worth it and I know that somehow, some way, the money will come. It always does.
I also pray to God before my shift, asking him to guide me to the big spenders. I pray for my intuition to kick in and recognize the guys with money. And yes, it works. I'll see some dude and I'll get this feeling that says "Hit him up". And usually I'll make a good chunk off him.
The other night a regular was coming in to see me. Usually he spends $100 a visit, but I sent him a "mental" message to "bring $200 today". And guess what happened? Yep.
Then I was happy about that and thought, wow, I'm attracting the Benjamins today!! And then I made $500 more dollars. I was on fire. So I made $700 that shift. (Thank God!) And when you're on fire, others sense it, and then they are attracted to your positivity and then want to add to it.
Go in with a positive "I'm going to bank, I always do" attitude and the money will flow in. And focus on having fun too!
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^^I'm so working on this. I didn't make much today, but I didn't get a lot of no's either, so that's something. At least I was hitting up the right only one dance getters. :) it's so easy for me to get negative. Working on it...
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i have been SO negative lately. acting like i'm entitled to money, barely talking to the guys (i only talk for a minute anyway, but lately i've been cutting right to the hi, wanna dance? bc its what so many girls at my club do). last night i decided to be nice(yeah, i know lol) , and i did more dances than ive done in a long time. i was the top girl for lap dances on the floor (i didnt count vip dances).
my bf (he's the manager) told me he hasnt seen me work that hard in a long time. lately i've just been in this funk and i decided to NOT be in it anymore, and i got dances when a lot of other girls were doing not so great.
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StarryEyes
I also pray to God before my shift, asking him to guide me to the big spenders. I pray for my intuition to kick in and recognize the guys with money. And yes, it works. I'll see some dude and I'll get this feeling that says "Hit him up". And usually I'll make a good chunk off him.
:yes: I do this too. I usually don't tell anyone that though, b/c I don't feel like arguing with people who can't wrap their minds around the idea that it's possible to be a stripper and be spiritual. :P But I totally agree.
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i have been SO negative lately. acting like i'm entitled to money, barely talking to the guys (i only talk for a minute anyway, but lately i've been cutting right to the hi, wanna dance? bc its what so many girls at my club do). last night i decided to be nice(yeah, i know lol) , and i did more dances than ive done in a long time. i was the top girl for lap dances on the floor (i didnt count vip dances).
my bf (he's the manager) told me he hasnt seen me work that hard in a long time. lately i've just been in this funk and i decided to NOT be in it anymore, and i got dances when a lot of other girls were doing not so great.
I could have written this post except for the part about getting OUT of the funk. I really just need to pull it together and decide to be positive, but I am SO stressed right now, and it's fucking me up at work, which is then making me more stressed. Such a vicious cycle.
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I could have written this post except for the part about getting OUT of the funk. I really just need to pull it together and decide to be positive, but I am SO stressed right now, and it's fucking me up at work, which is then making me more stressed. Such a vicious cycle.
i have been SO mean at work lately and it's been showing in my money. last night i just snapped out of it or something. i just was super sweet. i totally had turned into a "wanna dance?" girl and i still did that, i just gave them say, 1 more minute of talking beforehand. i've been getting so irritated and rolling my eyes at guys and giving them attitudes.. and i just DIDNT last night. i dont know what happened but it was good lol.
i told myself it doesnt matter how much money i make. i could walk out of work with $200 a night and be ok to pay my bills so why the hell do i stress so much?
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Also, a lot of days when I've made really good money have been days when I go in like "ugh, I don't feel like being here..." Sometimes it seems like the days I go in pumped up to make money (EXPECTING to make money) I end up having a shitty night.
I also experience this. I think it's because I go in feeling bummed, and as soon as I start making money (or get a really nice customer) it's a pleasant surprise that makes me actively happy. Then, the customers can see than I'm genuinely happy, and are more willing to get dances, and I'm more willing to hustle.
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Also, I find it very rude to approach people before they have a drink in their hand so I usually don't approach people right when they walk in, I've gotten some bad results using that tactic.
QFT
Also re: being on a roll...
Hell yes. Any night I get a few yesses or a VIP earlier on, I'm in a good mood, and I get almost hyper-happy, and become in-demand. It's a good feeling.
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about going to them before they have a drink.. i do it! it depends on the guy. sometimes i'll grab them as soon as they walk in and tell them they dont need to waste time looking for a seat bc he would just have to get right back up to go dance with me anyway, or if it's crowded i tell him the only seats available are in the lap dance area.
sometimes they want to wait, but other times its a smart move. especially if theyve never been there before -- it can go both ways, maybe they want to check it out, but maybe you can offer to "break them in" like i do and they'll take you up. even if not, you introduced yourself already and you can go back by later.
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The Secret. Oprah, yall (JK)
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Projection has a lot to do with it.. also expectation. Some girls at my club will go up to customers and ask for a ten minute dance (the minimum). I walk up to customers and try and get at least an hour or half an hour. I never even tell them about ten minute options unless I go through the rest and its ten minutes or nothing.
Expect the maximum, and eventually you get it.
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So I wanted to update this thread for everyone- I found out the next weekend that the guy who I had thought had never been to club before HAS been to the club before, and has been known to just drop insane amounts of cash for no reason. So it pretty much was one of those "right place, right time" scenarios. LOL.
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Ok im not a lady but I hope this helps....
1) from the sounds of it she may have gotten lucky..
2) Attitude.. if you have a good attitude that will take you far..
3) You never know that couple may have been friends with said dancer.
4) (This one is comming from my manager side) How are you helping to promote the club. Do you talk about it when your in other clubs? Do you tell people to come on out and see you, everyone should be a prospective customer.
5) how well are you selling your image? do you greet people who just walk in or do you let them walk past you while your at the bar looking board? (I tell my ladys that -they need to greet every customer who walkes in the door)
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yet another useless post from a non dancer. My post wasn't asking for "hustling 101" (which I might add has been covered in this section a million times better than you could). Where do I even begin? Are you a manger of a strip club or a regular bar?
1) I am completely sure they were not her customers. This isn't an isolated incidence though-we all know dancers that money just seems to flow to effortlessly and this girl is one of them. I have seen it many times.
2) It is not my responsibility to promote the fucking club. They pay a promotions team for that. What do you mean-do I talk about it in other clubs? Like when I'm out on my own time, at a bar? Are you kidding me? do you really think I go around saying "I'm a stripper!!! Come see me at xxx club!!" Give me a break!!
Maybe I should clarify this for the LADIES aka DANCERS that might actually be able to shed some advice.
We all know girls that have that "certain something" and money really flows to. How do you adjust your attitude so you are one of those girls?
I was sort of hoping to generate some discussion, because the statement "she just seems to attract money" really stuck with me since that conversation.
Perhaps his quote wasn't useless. He really nailed it down. I think this is a good example that sometimes a guy can pinoint the answer. Don't be so quick to dismiss the information because of the messenger.