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What is the worst life story you have ever heard from a stripper
One of the worst things i heard was one night I'm in the dressing room and the house mom was having a convo w someone then she shouted out to the whole room of about 30 girls
"be honest if you was ever raped raise your hand"
everyone raised their hands
then girls started crying and telling their stories
some was raped by a parent it was really fucking nuts its like every story was worst then the last
what the worst life story you ever heard from a dancer?
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I kinda feel like this is an awful thread to start. Almost like it's exploiting those that are in rough spots :(
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naw im not trying to do that at all
I'm just curious to hear the stories I have my own story but I want to hear others
Its easy to talk about the great things you hear...but what about the bad?
whats wrong with that?
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I used to work regularly with a dancer who lived with her three kids in a motel... barely broke even, so she couldn't save to actually rent a place.
I ran into her recently by chance and she seemed to be in a lot better health. I was glad to see nothing awful had happened to her; I'd worried about her in the interim.
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sexyjasmine
naw im not trying to do that at all
I'm just curious to hear the stories I have my own story but I want to hear others
Its easy to talk about the great things you hear...but what about the bad?
whats wrong with that?
Not really trying to say it's "bad" because we mock those that say retarded shit or do really disgusting things at work.
I just view those that live in a disturbing abusive lifestyle as something not to mock or make light of. I have no idea if that's your intention. I guess I just see it as something personal
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This is the saddest story I've ever heard. What's sad is I saw the downhill and I am still upset. I generally don't become close with dancers I work with. I like a distance. Anyways I became close to one dancer. Even my then boyfriend liked her. He even had a drink with her boyfriend at my then house.
When I first met her, she was waitressing at the club. This club was near O'Hare called the Cherry Club. She had gotten divorced and was working to support her kids. Well, she then met her boyfriend nicknamed "Spider". Spider was a tattoo artist and she got tats from him. No biggie. Then she started dating him and he got her into marijuana. Because she wanted more money she started dancing. She was very pretty and banked. Blonde with a nice figure.
I don't know how the progression came about, but she got into heroin. She asked me if I wanted to take a ride with her. I said ok, and we went into a creepy area. I later found out it was one of the notorious housing projects. I didn't think much of this at the time since I am drug stupid. She started coming into work obviously stoned and with track marks so she was fired.
She worked other clubs, until they found out she was a heroin addict. So, with limited choices, she became a streetwalker down the street from the first club. It was horrifying to see someone I like become a mess. She was dirty and disgusting looking. She wore long sleeves and got arrested several times. About a year or two later she called me at my new residence (I moved before she became a streetwalker) begging for money and a place to live. I didn't have money but told her I'd check into it.
Last I heard she died of AIDS. I've tried finding her online to no success so I wonder if this is true. I really miss her.
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I was raped by my father, molested by my sister as my brother told her what to do, molested by my mother's fiancee... all before I was 15. Hell, two of those happened before I was 7.
The worst sex story life I ever heard of was from a book called A Piece of Cake... but she was a hooker, not a stripper.
She became a lawyer.
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Kellydancer
This is the saddest story I've ever heard. What's sad is I saw the downhill and I am still upset. I generally don't become close with dancers I work with. I like a distance. Anyways I became close to one dancer. Even my then boyfriend liked her. He even had a drink with her boyfriend at my then house.
When I first met her, she was waitressing at the club. This club was near O'Hare called the Cherry Club. She had gotten divorced and was working to support her kids. Well, she then met her boyfriend nicknamed "Spider". Spider was a tattoo artist and she got tats from him. No biggie. Then she started dating him and he got her into marijuana. Because she wanted more money she started dancing. She was very pretty and banked. Blonde with a nice figure.
I don't know how the progression came about, but she got into heroin. She asked me if I wanted to take a ride with her. I said ok, and we went into a creepy area. I later found out it was one of the notorious housing projects. I didn't think much of this at the time since I am drug stupid. She started coming into work obviously stoned and with track marks so she was fired.
She worked other clubs, until they found out she was a heroin addict. So, with limited choices, she became a streetwalker down the street from the first club. It was horrifying to see someone I like become a mess. She was dirty and disgusting looking. She wore long sleeves and got arrested several times. About a year or two later she called me at my new residence (I moved before she became a streetwalker) begging for money and a place to live. I didn't have money but told her I'd check into it.
Last I heard she died of AIDS. I've tried finding her online to no success so I wonder if this is true. I really miss her.
that made me want to cry. :(
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Lysondra
I was raped by my father, molested by my sister as my brother told her what to do, molested by my mother's fiancee... all before I was 15. Hell, two of those happened before I was 7.
:'( babe! I dont even know what to say, sorry.
I havent heard anything too awful. But there are always plenty of stories about ass hole boyfriends in the DR.
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ok I'll share something personal
when I was 15 i was kidnapped kept for 3 days no food or water or bathroom use while I was on my period and raped there was plenty of evidence and the guy never went to jail because basiclally the fbi agent that was on my case moved to a different division and the person that was suppose to pick it up didnt
The fbi got involved because I was taken across state lines if it just wouldve been left w the reg police maybe something wouldve been done if i ever get into full details of my story u would be shocked
so at this point I didnt trust men anymore so I had to move back in w my mom my grandfather lived one floor up from me I always said i wanted to visit my grandparents when i went back to my moms house and tell them what they meant to me
but with all the mental damage i had i would walk around thinking every guy wanted to fuck me so when my grandfather seen me he would say hey and i would look at him nasty act like i didnt see him or walk away then a cpl months later he died
I will never get the opportunity to tell him what he meant to me and that really fucking sucks ill get kidnapped and raped all over again if it would give me the opportunity to tell him what he meant to me
then 1 years after this i finally started trusting men again I decided to get into modeling so one day im at this casting party i order a pepsi and the next thing i know i woke up in a hotel room to a man raping me this really fucking sucked and made me try to kill myself 3 times
then as i was about to kill myself i prayed to god to please just let me be happy for 1 full day from am to pm the next day i met this guy and "fell in love" he made me happy every day am to pm for a str8 3 months thought he was perfect
then one day we go to the movies and as were coming out i see the first guy that raped me walking out i had to make a decision to jump on top of him and stab his brains out or colapse and scream and cry thats what I did
then i told my boyfriend why i was crying as i gathered myself he cried to said he loved me and would never do anything to hurt me and was so sorry that happend to me
i told him i couldnt be alone that night i was a miserable wreck I didnt feel safe asked him if i could spend the night with him he said he would love to but not tonight because he had so much work to do and he wouldnt spend time w me anyway
the next night i found out the reason why i could spend the night is because he was cheating on me w my "best friend"
and this isnt that half of my life but i had to put this out there to let ppl know im not trying to make light of shit i dont think its cool to have a fucked up life it fucking sucks but there is nothing wrong with sharing things and getting things out thats all
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This thread is so upsetting. It's making me really angry how many women have been abused.
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^^^
Damn girl I'm sorry to hear that happened to you, but I'm glad that you're strong and getting through it.
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VegasPrincess
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Damn girl I'm sorry to hear that happened to you, but I'm glad that you're strong and getting through it.
Thanks but I'm fine now I forgive everyone for what theyve done to me i realize that noone wakes up and says "hey im gonna go rape someone today" 9 times out of 10 something happened to them to make them feel this way and do what they did so i just pray for them and put ti in gods hand and stay happy
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Wow, I can't imagine going through what Lys and Jasmine have dealt with. Those things are so incredibly horrible. Wow. My heart goes out to you guys. I am so furious at your attackers, and I'm very angry at Jasmine's ex-bf. Damn, you finally find someone to be there for you and he lets you down. Ugh.
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Wow sexyjasmine--u r so strong, and ur attitude is so right about those things, I am glad u made this post, cuz there r ppl who dont share thier stories but hearing about them an knowing they r not alone means so much.
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Holy shit.
Something similar happened with me and a molester in that he never even got any jail time. I would really like to have more faith in the CJ system but when I guy(50+) ADMITS on camera at the station that he molested 4th graders and nothing happens...well...I don't know what to say.
Despite all this I'm a CJ major....maybe I'll change something someday.
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omg, this is a horrible thread, but if you find something therapeutic about it, jasmine, i guess it's worthwhile. But wow.
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The worst I have ever seen is a meth addict from Reno, Nevada with a Felon Card & no regret over how she lived her life. She got fired from my club... A complete sociopath. Long story short, a rotten person.
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sexyjasmine
...the house mom was having a convo w someone then she shouted out to the whole room of about 30 girls
"be honest if you was ever raped raise your hand"
Am I the only one who finds that very weird? "Who's been raped, raise your hands"? At work? Seriously? Even if I had been raped and was in the room, I'd still just look at her like :O.
I mean, if any part of the resulting conversation was helpful to any of the dancers who had been raped, then I'm glad for them. I just think that's very strange of the housemom.
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^ Yeah this entire thread is ... just .. eh
I give up.
We've all got our stories, I just see a lot of wrong with it entirely.
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wow getting it out made me feel alot better but coming back and reading people comments about why i shouldnt have done this and how horrible it is makes me feel like shit :(
if i knew this was going to happen i wouldve never wrote anything I guess i know for the next time huh?
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^^^
Its okay. Life ain't all roses and candy and pretty pictures. I think you posted something real and there is nothing wrong with that.
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Sveta
Am I the only one who finds that very weird? "Who's been raped, raise your hands"? At work? Seriously? Even if I had been raped and was in the room, I'd still just look at her like :O.
I mean, if any part of the resulting conversation was helpful to any of the dancers who had been raped, then I'm glad for them. I just think that's very strange of the housemom.
at one club i worked, a girl asked the room 'who's been beaten by their man?' and then the stories just came. most of the girls had been beaten by a boyfriend or husband-- some left, and some stayed a while, and some had it happen with multiple guys. there was a lot of variance in the specifics.
stripperville is a surreal place. questions like that aren't necessarily out of place depending on the club. it was random, but for whatever reason everyone wanted to vent about it that night, at that time. so i can see that same deal happening with the rape question from the housemom.
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sexyjasmine
wow getting it out made me feel alot better but coming back and reading people comments about why i shouldnt have done this and how horrible it is makes me feel like shit :(
if i knew this was going to happen i wouldve never wrote anything I guess i know for the next time huh?
Im glad writing about it made u feel better. Don't worry I dont think those comments were directed at you but the thread in general.
I think u were brave for posting something like that.
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miabella
at one club i worked, a girl asked the room 'who's been beaten by their man?' and then the stories just came. most of the girls had been beaten by a boyfriend or husband-- some left, and some stayed a while, and some had it happen with multiple guys. there was a lot of variance in the specifics.
stripperville is a surreal place. questions like that aren't necessarily out of place depending on the club. it was random, but for whatever reason everyone wanted to vent about it that night, at that time. so i can see that same deal happening with the rape question from the housemom.
OK, that does make sense. I see what you mean. :)