Its the end of the night...
He says maybe later!!! Lets say its your first time approaching this man while youre making your last rounds after stage. Its about 30 mins - hr before close and he is just taking up space. Usually I tell him that I will be buzy later, Im about to leave but lately this ahasnt worked for me. My club gets very buzy in the last few hours and I want tto take advantage of this. Any suggestions?
Re: Its the end of the night...
Yeah, move on to the next guy. If someone is saying "maybe later" 30 min. before you close I'd imagine they're trying to be nice about saying no.
Re: Its the end of the night...
This happend to me last night!! It's so annoying... Finally though after reading and reading SW, I realized it's a no... BUT some really do mean later, If your not busy go back, It might not be a complete waste.
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Sometimes they don't realize how late it is. On the chance where that is the case, I always say, "well were closing in about 20 min. (if its the last hour or so) so it's now or never!"
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"Maybe later? Oh, hun, we're closing in about half an hour!" tousle his hair. "It's now or never, sugar. Seize the night!"
Eh, why press it? He's too much of a wuss to say "no, you're not my type." I mean, they really think they'll hurt our feelings!
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I think you gotta pull the now or never... My personal style would be to say it in a flirtatious way too.
But I wouldn't just walk away... not with only a half hour left. It's worth the extra few seconds it takes to make a close... but that's it.. i wouldn't waste more than a few seconds...
If he tried to draw out the close I'd say "sweetie... when I said it's now or never I meant it and since your taking your time deciding I'd take that as a yes, let's go have some fun already!" And lead him off into the distance ;D
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Get aggressive: Are you kidding?? We're closing so soon! Come on, let's go. *big grin*
or: You don't have a choice since we're closing soon and I said so, kay?
Better to try to force than just walking away, also aggressive seems to work well on indescive, sitting-there-for-hours-type.
Re: Its the end of the night...
Tell him it's his last chance b/c the club closes in 15 minutes. That's what I always did, seemed to work quite a bit. Tell him to end the night right!