Re: How to hustle for a dancer that has danced for over a year but never had to.
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Originally Posted by
Emily
I feel that someone in the room wants a dance from me RIGHT NOW. I just have to find him.
I'll have to remind myself that next timeI'm at work and am reluctant to ask for dances.
Re: How to hustle for a dancer that has danced for over a year but never had to.
Good lord, I didn't mean to upset anyone. Everyone is so sensitive, you know, one can't read tone in posts. These things have been covered time and time again, which is the only reason I told the op to do a search.
Whomever said that hustle tips aren't like updates to the new iphone is totally right. DW had great tips, there are a few gems in HH, you just may have to search. I'm sorry that my tone is being misread. Have a good weekend everyone.
Re: How to hustle for a dancer that has danced for over a year but never had to.
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Originally Posted by
keira0304
scuse' me for wanting to get live, up to date, personalized advice instead of sorting through thousands of threads on the individual topics that I'm asking about.
I personally don't mind offering my advice/suggestion when it's asked but this is one of the reasons why I don't that often. From what I got from this quote is you don't feel like using search. You just want the information to come to you. Why should anyone be willing to help, if you aren't willing to help yourself?
Re: How to hustle for a dancer that has danced for over a year but never had to.
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Originally Posted by
Emily
I never really bothered to figure it out because a lot of times I will get rejected and then later he'll get a dance, and then I try to upsell him (you know, quality over quantity.) All I need is 1-2 good "yeses" and I'm happy.
Plus I really do try to approach every guy (okay, I'm biased towards certain appearances and maybe not EVERY guy) and I don't really spend much time talking to customers that don't give me that money vibe. I won't give the type of attention some men require to say "yes" right away.
And that's fine, because I feel that someone in the room wants a dance from me RIGHT NOW. I just have to find him.
I'll try to keep this one in mind. I always feel like I spend way too much time with each customer because I'm worried I haven't been charming enough yet.
Re: How to hustle for a dancer that has danced for over a year but never had to.
^ I did search. I looked through a ton of threads... nothing really helped me.
thus, i posted.
Re: How to hustle for a dancer that has danced for over a year but never had to.
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Originally Posted by
Jenny
I'll try to keep this one in mind. I always feel like I spend way too much time with each customer because I'm worried I haven't been charming enough yet.
I can't imagine you have any shortage of charm.
Honestly, I don't worry about it. I guess if I pop the question and I haven't given him enough charm yet, I can walk away and try again later. If it's slow and I sense potential from him I might stick it out a little more, Iand say something like, "oh, well, no rush...when you're ready!" (but then I nudge again in like 3 minutes.)
But normally I reel them in with boobs and bubbliness and try keep them in with charm (or alcohol!)
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Originally Posted by
keira0304
^ I did search. I looked through a ton of threads... nothing really helped me.
thus, i posted.
NOTHING??
Re: How to hustle for a dancer that has danced for over a year but never had to.
I have to agree. I'm very new here (only 3 posts so far), and I've been scared to post specific questions, for fear of being bitched at for not using the Search feature. A lot of times, the search results don't really fit my particular situation, but I hesitate to ask after seeing a lot of ladies get jumped on. What I have found, is that a lot of the posts that are returned when you search, are years old as well.
It is always nice to receive current replies and personalized advice in real-time. That is the "draw" of a message board system (for me at least!). I have found some excellant information in the Sticky threads as well.
Anyhow, that was my 2 cents :) I look forward to getting to know you ladies. My first night is tonight!
Re: How to hustle for a dancer that has danced for over a year but never had to.
^^
Maybe if some people replied with "Thanks - I'll try searching; but if anyone has anything they haven't posted before or are dying to repost now would be a great time" instead of "You fucking bitches! Why is everyone here such a fucking bitch? Stop telling me to search you cuntfaces! I'll do what I want!" we would have fewer problems of this nature. It works both ways ladies. You want the vets to be tolerant of newbies - maybe you can extend a little tolerance and courtesy to the people from whom you are asking for help.
Thanks Em - I am not a newbie but I seem to go through bouts where I experience a terror of customers and drag out the process to avoid hearing a rejection. I think the "someone here wants a dance from me and I just have to find them" is a good mantra for those days.
Re: How to hustle for a dancer that has danced for over a year but never had to.
Seriously, I don't think that any one is going to change the fact that the older members will get pissy if you don't use the search function. The best thing to do is to just ignore the negativity and ask whatever it is you want to ask and talk about whatever you want to talk about with whoever will talk with you about it.
The only way to make the negativity go away is to ignore it. Fighting it only fuels the fire. Concentrate your energy on whatever it is you want to concentrate on. Brush of the small hit to your ego that to the older members think that "your thread doesn't deserve to be posted" and just keep posting. :)