omg, this is making my head hurt! Princessparis...you are spending too much time thinking about this. There must be something you'd rather be doing than convincing us old ladies how to change our ways!
Have any of you ladies ever been on a geek forum? They even have an acronym that's become kinda famous that's much like our "Do a search!"
RTMF. Google it if you've never seen it. It's got a Wiki entry for a reason.

