You only need ONE question to know if your wasting your time!
Hey Ladies...
I use this ALL the time and it works like a charm... It helps to weed out the spenders and the ones who just want to waste your time. Its a way to basically ask them upfront if they want a dance without asking. I wish it didn't take me 5 years to figure it out. Ok so you approach a table, say...
"Hi there!" ( all cute like )
ask him his name..... then say...
"Nice to meet you John, would you like some company?"
Now men ALWAYS think company means a dance, SOME think it means for you to sit with them. The following are the ONLY responses I ever recieve and what they mean...
" Why sure! Pull up a chair" :)
- this guy is a good possibility, however he may just be a waste of time. Sit and chat get a drink out of him then after about two songs ask suggest that you both go and finish your drinks in the vip together. If he doesn't buy you a drink ask him for a dance right away he is most likely a waste of time, the sooner you ask the sooner you are on your way to a potential customer.
"No thanks, I don't want a dance" /:O
- this guys obviously thought by "company" you meant dance... so you say, "oh! I wasn't suggesting you get a dance now, I would like to sit and have a drink, chat and get to know you a bit before we have some fun, but if you're not ready then I can always come back later... it was nice meeting you 'John'". - make sure you GO BACK!
"SURE!" :D
John jumpes out of his chair and walks over to the vip.... believe it or not but this happens a lot. Tis is obviously the desired response but look at how much time that saved instead of chatting with him first.
well, ladies, there you have it, my hustle secret. try it out and let me know how it works!
xo
Re: You only need ONE question to know if your wasting your time!
Great advice. I always use either that line or, "do you mind if I join you?". It's pretty easy to tell from there if a guy is going to spend or not.
Re: You only need ONE question to know if your wasting your time!
I don't think asking is the right way to go, you want to assume the sale and by asking you allow him time to say no.
this was just recently discussed here, and there are many good opinions in there: http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...d.php?t=106774