How much of your human interaction takes place in strip-clubs?
I saw some comments from several posters that suggested they spent a lot of time socializing in strip-clubs.
I became curious as to what percentage those here present [excluding dancers who are actually working, unless they spend a time in strip-clubs on off duty hours] spent doing their social interaction in strip-clubs?
If so do you also spend a significant amount of time socially interacting in other circumstances; like going out with friends, parties, family time and other instances?
Re: How much of your human interaction takes place in strip-clubs?
Are you talking about socializing with dancers? Waitresses? Other club staff? Patrons? Friends you went to the club with?
Re: How much of your human interaction takes place in strip-clubs?
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Bob_Loblaw
Are you talking about socializing with dancers? Waitresses? Other club staff? Patrons? Friends you went to the club with?
All socializing.
In other words how much of the socializing that you do at this point in your life takes place in a strip-club as opposed to other places?
Re: How much of your human interaction takes place in strip-clubs?
Three or four years ago I would have said that I spent most of my social time in strip clubs. I was a regular at two or three places and that was where I headed most afternoons or nights. I still go on occasion but more often it's OTC encounters for me. That being said, I don't go to sports bars or indulge in any other social hobbies to speak of so I guess you could still say that the majority of my social time is spent with hot sex workers...and I'm totally OK with that!
Re: How much of your human interaction takes place in strip-clubs?
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yoda57us
That being said, I don't go to sports bars or indulge in any other social hobbies to speak of so I guess you could still say that the majority of my social time is spent with hot sex workers...and I'm totally OK with that!
Nothing wrong with that.
In my own case, even though my doing the PP thing has me in S-Cs as much as I use to when I was bouncing earlier in my life I still spend most of my social time with family and friends outside of anything to do with the sex industry.
The double life thing though is getting to be something of a PITA.
In this regard I am in the same pot with a lot of dancers. I am not sure but I am guessing this is a problem for you? Is that correct?
Re: How much of your human interaction takes place in strip-clubs?
Problem? Honestly GR I've been doing the double life thing for so many years it's just part of me. I don't think much about it.
Of course, if you are going to spend most of your social time with strippers and escorts they had better be the discrete type. My regulars are all older and quite secure in their lives. They are not looking for anything from me that I am not willing or able to give and there is no drama. The advantage of having clandestine relationships with escorts in particular is that they are not interested in any drama either.
The key is in choosing your companionship wisely. Too many guys go for the hottest girl with no regard as to her compatibility with you and your situation. The reason I have good luck with these ladies is because I choose women to be with that I would choose in real world non P4P situations.
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I have no interest at all in socializing in a SC. I am all about the T&A.
GR, if there are SCs in your area, what is the point of PPs? Other than a B-day or bachelor party the idea of having a PP just for the sake of having a PP is kinda lost on me.
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rlams2000
GR, if there are SCs in your area, what is the point of PPs? Other than a B-day or bachelor party the idea of having a PP just for the sake of having a PP is kinda lost on me.
There are any number or things that can [I didn't say always do] differentiate PPs from strip-clubs.
Some of them might be:
1) At many PPs the people are vetted, entertainers and customers alike. All known quantities.
2) The services offered in food, drink, surroundings [there are any number of PPs being given in the mansions of the Hampton's, LA, Miami], even the sex can be very much of higher quality. Of course this means $$$. Some of these PPs are events you wouldn't show up to with less than a few thousand bucks in pocket.
Eric Stoner could give you more detail on that though, as he favors these high end affairs and goes to more of them than I do.
Re: How much of your human interaction takes place in strip-clubs?
I don't go to the SC often, and I don't go to socialize. I go maybe a few times a year, and I go to be entertained.
Heh--I went oftener before the price of gas quadrupled.
Re: How much of your human interaction takes place in strip-clubs?
When I go to clubs, I do make point of talking with the strippers if I am not monopolizing their time. Generally I am not too social in other situations except wih people I aready know. When I do socialize to them it seems effortless, but to me it's not. I don't do parties when I can avoid them, and I hang out more than socialize then. But in clubs I am somehow more outgoing.