Normally they wouldn't like me because I'm black...
Well last night around 11pm, me and a friend decided to pay my club a visit. Well, my OLD club rather...I'm happy to say that I quit that shit hole because I just couldn't take it anymore. One of the girls who is my closest friend works some nights, and I haven't seen her since I quit, so I decided to just go and see whats up. So I go and everyone sees me, gets to asking where I've been, am I coming back, blah blah blah...so one of the girls that I worked with on dayshift was there working overtime I guess. So she mean mugs me then walks over to me and tells me that 2 guys came into the club in the day asking for me, and said that she told them that I no longer worked there. Fine...Until she said and I quote, "So since you're not working here anymore, they're coming to me now and they like me better because I give them what they want.":O
Yup...this is one of the druggies who hooks inside the club...the same girl who basically blamed me for her not getting tipped because the guys were tipping me. I didn't want to start any drama...I was just there to see my friend and have a lil chit chat with some of the other girls, have a drink, let my friend chill back, and leave. But NOOO...this bitch just has to come at me with her drama. I could've easily got back at her by saying something, but I didn't. Even all the bartenders and the owner know what she does, but because she is a top earner, they let her stay and I think its bullshit.
So anyway, I keep my cool, just ignore the bitch, and continue to talk to the girls. Obviously she wasn't having it and wanted to start some drama for whatever reason so she starts running her mouth again saying, "You must have been doing some shit with those guys because normally they wouldn't like you. You're black.":O :O :O So now she's making it out to be a race thing, which I take as disrespect, and will go off about. Yes, I will say that most of the custies I had at the club were older white guys...so fuckin what??? And yeah, a couple of them have said that they've never even thought about buying drinks or sitting with a black girl, but they were more attracted to my personality and the fact that I wasn't pushy or trashy. But when a comment about me turns racial, I will get defensive. So I told myself, hey, I don't work here anymore, I should let her have it...
But I didn't...which was extremely big of me because I've learned not to feed into the drama because its just adding fuel to the fire. I knew she wanted a fight, and as much as I wanted to beat the shit outta her, I didn't. I just looked at her, gave her that "you're-nothing-but-a-hoe" look, and kept on talking to my friend. She rolled her eyes, huffed and puffed, and walked away. Yup, a fight was exactly what she was looking for. But I was the bigger person and I feel really proud of myself for not even giving into her when it was racial. And to think, this girl is 27 with 3 kids...why try and start shit like its HS??? Its not gonna prove anything but that fact that its immature and that its nothing but jealousy.
Just thinking back on it gets me pissed all over again, but I'm happy that I didn't say anything and kept my cool, because if I didn't, I wouldn't be able to rant about this...my ass would be in the county jail right now for beating her ass. How would you handle it if someone said something racial to you???
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Racist comments don't really get to me. I would have just been like, "Whoa insecure a little?" She is definetely not worth losing your cool over and was clearly jealous of your success at the club and probably a bit racist herself. Good job for not losing it on her. I would just laugh in peoples face when they said such stupid things. What a fucking bitch.
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Way to go MissNicole! You took the high road and definately came out on top. What a skanky hoe.
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good for you for being the better person and not giving her what she wanted. :) People with such negative energy want nothing more than to spread it around to everyone else. Let her keep it. ;)
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Sveta
good for you for being the better person and not giving her what she wanted. :) People with such negative energy want nothing more than to spread it around to everyone else. Let her keep it. ;)
Yup, you took the words right out of my mouth. Good for you Miss N. x
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MissNicole21
How would you handle it if someone said something racial to you???
You handled it well! ;D Personally, I think it feels SO much better to take the high-road and be the adult. And like you said, it sure as hell beats sitting in jail, after the fact. No punch you could ever throw, feels good enough to get charged w/ assault and sit in a freezing cold jail cell, or go in front of a judge. No bitch is worth that!
I believe in choosing your words carefully, and maintaining control. Your words can pack more of a punch than an actual physical one.
It's like when that thief stole my tips. Yeah, I WANTED to punch her in the face. But what would that have accomplished? Absolutely nothing. It would have felt good, but what I proving? Oooh, mess w/ my money and I'll hit you? That's like preschool stuff IMO. Instead, I made sure everyone knew about it (and so did everyone else). The whole club talks shit about her now, and it's worked out perfectly so far. Karma is a bitch!
As far as the girl you are talking about, she will get hers too. She sounds like an unhappy person to begin with.
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Seriously, that's how people need to act.
I never understood giving into people and letting them play you like a song by bitching them out and starting a fight. That's obviously what they want. It just makes the whole thing a bigger deal than it needs to be.
Good for you!
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Thanks ladies...and just to think...alot of ppl assume that we have hot tempers and like to fight; well the people that I know think all strippers are like that. But we're not...we do HAVE sense!
Oh, and my friend did call me...yup, the bitch got fired earlier today. She got what she deserved.
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MissNicole21
Oh, and my friend did call me...yup, the bitch got fired earlier today. She got what she deserved.
Karma in action!
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^^
Was JUST about to say that! Yaaah for quick Karma!
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txchick008
^^
Was JUST about to say that! Yaaah for quick Karma!
;D I know right...
But then again, I know that she will just go to another club and do the same thing...but I look at it like this, it's always someone out there who is bigger and badder, so she's really gonna get hers if she keeps it up.
And I'm going to leave it at that.
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I just hope Miss Skanky isn't headed for your club! Good move blowing her off Miss Nicole.
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That stupidity irks me. Im glad the cracked out bitch got fired!
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MissNicole21
Thanks ladies...and just to think...alot of ppl assume that we have hot tempers and like to fight; well the people that I know think all strippers are like that. But we're not...we do HAVE sense!
Oh, and my friend did call me...yup, the bitch got fired earlier today. She got what she deserved.
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Awesome. She wanted a reaction from you, but it totally backfired!! That is always the best, acting like you don't care. Makes them look sooo stupid