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Is it okay for me to touch you?
Last night, I had a guy ask me if he was allowed to touch me, and he actually waited for a response. I told him the areas which he could not touch, then said it was okay for the rest of the areas and thanked him for being so polite. I also informed him that most other customers don't ask, but expect this level of contact and I appreciated him.
His response was, "I don't think it's right to put your hands on another person without their permission. I can't understand why anyone else thinks otherwise."
For some reason, it made me want to cry.
Just wanted to share that.
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awww, that IS sweet, most people don't think of other people's feelings when they are trying to please themselves in whatever way. For him to actually ask you, and then say that, proves that there are still some people that are considerate of others.
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Makes me want to bite him!
Just kidding.
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awesome. :) Funny enough, when I get guys like that, I end up actually encouraging them to go ahead and have more contact. Prob b/c I feel safe with nice respectful guys.
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What a guy. I really wish there were more respectful people like that in SCs.
I think the reason most grabby custies will launch at you without a second thought is because they don't think of us as real people. As soon as they pay money we become like a doll to them. Same for the custies who think if they pay you x amount for y time they have bought US for that time, and not just a dance.
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Sveta
awesome. :) Funny enough, when I get guys like that, I end up actually encouraging them to go ahead and have more contact. Prob b/c I feel safe with nice respectful guys.
I do too..it's so refreshing to get a guy to ask and seriously wait for a response. You can just both enjoy the dance..no licking, grabbing, forcing octopus hands all over you!
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What a pussy.
Kidding. I've had guys say stuff like that and it makes me so sad because it does catch me off-guard. Like, wow, a human with a soul. Where the hell did you come from?
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How sad when general human boundries being respected becomes a reason for us to be baffled and endeared.
That being said, the nice ones always get more touchy touchy and the evil ones get a sock in their mouth with their hands shoved behind their head.
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I have a lot of guys like that. They'll ask if they can or cannot. Or say, "I don't know the rules, and don't want to break them, let me know what I can/can't do".
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I havent had a respectful guy in a LOOONNGGG time!! (well except for the friend of my friend..a dancer..who go a cpl dances from me the other night...he was a good boy!!)
BUt asking and actually listening?? Awesome! You want to drag him around the club afterwards yelling "THIS is what a customer should be like..everyone learn from him!!!"
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Sveta
awesome. :) Funny enough, when I get guys like that, I end up actually encouraging them to go ahead and have more contact. Prob b/c I feel safe with nice respectful guys.
I know that feeling.
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CKXXX
BUt asking and actually listening?? Awesome! You want to drag him around the club afterwards yelling "THIS is what a customer should be like..everyone learn from him!!!"
Yeah, exactly! I (half jokingly) told him to come back every time I'm working because I would definitely like to be around more of his good energy. He had told me earlier that he's only been with his wife and that he just fantasizes about being with other women but never would go all the way. I totally swooned. lol
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I don't mind if anyone touches me. But thanks for asking.
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^^^ HAHAHHAHAH alright... normally non-industry guys (esp. n00bs) in Stripping General aren't tolerated, but that was FUNNY (combined w/ the avatar/siggy) so I'll let it slide...
Alexxa, I hope he comes back, and thank you for sharing. Guys like that are priceless.
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I think we will get along just fine Colette.....
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Bread your avatar reminds me of Mr. Bill.
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Yeah I wish all guys were like that. I had a real bad experience just Saturday past with a man just randomly shoving his fingers you-know-where and then having the audacity to lecture me for ending the dance and screamining at him. "You should have respect for me whore, without me you'd be paid nothing you c***. If I want something from you, you should be grateful to give it because I paid to have rights to you slut".
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^^^OMG, just reading that makes me want to kill someone!!!
But back on topic, I also adore the sweet respectful types. Luckily I get more of them than the dirty pervs.
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He is SO nice, I just can't believe it. I would let him touch a lot more!
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Sveta
awesome. :) Funny enough, when I get guys like that, I end up actually encouraging them to go ahead and have more contact. Prob b/c I feel safe with nice respectful guys.
Me too. Guys that dont grab get boobies in their face. Jerks get a pair of binoculars since IM on the other side of the dance area :)
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It is nice when u get a respectful customer.
I wish strip club customers would realise that if they sit there with their hands by their side they will get a much hotter dance. Mr grabby gets a shit air dance and I cut it short too coz I cant be bothered dealing with the shit.
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Back when Bread used to frequent the establishments much more, he was always very respectable.
Only when he had many drinks would he ask what the rules were.
Otherwise, he would just let the girl do her thing.
Usually they would take it too far. The ladies love Bread.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v1...ErikaBread.jpg