im annoyed at spending so much on looks also..i may not be one of the hot girls but since ive been at this club (almost 1.5 yrs) i have changed heaps for the better...and im not making as much as i was back then..
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im annoyed at spending so much on looks also..i may not be one of the hot girls but since ive been at this club (almost 1.5 yrs) i have changed heaps for the better...and im not making as much as i was back then..
I see a blue ribbon in a spot that one shouldn't be. This is a dancer poll not customer pole
haha i wish!
i dont earn like i should if i was one of the hot ones :p
then again im sort of lazy..haha
our top earner used to be a man...it's quite intimidating to be next to her and her pile of money on stage.. she has a boob and butt job but totally looks like a barbie.... I'm thinking that she knows exactly what men want?
hmm i have to say yes as the an almost always top earner i also think im best looking lol
The top earners at a lot of the clubs I've worked at have often been far from hot looking. In one case skill had nothing to do with a girl's earnings. However, there is reason to believe she did extras. There's a girl at my current club who is a top earner and far from good looking. She wears the same thing every day and no make up.
I've heard this before and apparently there's some truth to it. Some guys are intimidated by hot looking girls. They feel more at ease with a homely girl. A guy once asked me to bring him the hottest looking blonde for him and his friend. When I brought her over, they completely ignored her. When she left, I asked what the hell that was all about and the guy pointed out an ugly little blonde on stage and said his friend liked her. I looked at the girl and said to him "That bitch is ugly." He whispered to me, "I think she's ugly too. But she's the only one that's willing to meet us at our hotel for $200."
A bouncer/mgr. once said that hot looking girls earn less money because guys take one look at them and automatically feel that she's more expensive.
I'm about a 7 or an 8, depending on the club I'm working in. I've noticed I'm more likely to be top earner or near it if I'm a 7 on the club's curve.
The top earners I used to watch and learn from when I first started stripping were all near or over 30 (in one case, rumor had it the chick was over 50), and either somewhat overweight or otherwise showing their age.
Top earners at my club are all super hustlers. A couple are very pretty or have rockin' bodies, but the rest are older, out of shape, etc- but just very persuasive. Oddly enough several of the straight up hottest girls at the club make the LEAST money. They don't hustle, they don't smile, they wont talk to custies, and they're always complaining about being broke.
I don't have the best body/looks in the club, though perhaps some men would disagree. I'm 5'3, 115, very fit with thick muscular legs but slender hips and a flat tummy. My boobs are fake, but not obviously so- c-cup and natural looking. Hair is long and dirty blond, but face is only an 8 or so. I make more money than the aforementioned hot girls, and less than the super hustlers. Guys always seem to assume that I make more than any other girl simply because I have a nice little body, a decent stage show, cute outfits and a friendly personality- but it simply isn't the case! Sometimes I feel like looking money works against me in fact, guys don't want to spend money on a "professional" because she's all about work. The girl next door however with the busted outfit and minimal makeup- well she might just be more approachable. I dunno, my two cents.
One thing all the top earners at my club have- KILLER INSTINCT. They don't take breaks, they approach every guy, they don't give up at the first no, they always upsell, and they NEVER quit. I try to do likewise, but it requires a mental strength and money drive that I simply don't have....yet.
^^ LOL, Bella, you're too cute. Most of us lower-tier girls in that club place you up with 1 - the hottest chicks in the place, and 2 - a second tier top earner, which in that club is not bad at all.
Many of the top hustlers in there are also the same ones we watched and learned from a couple of years ago. They have way more experience years logged in with that KILLER INSTINCT than you. It makes a certain amount of sense that they'd make more than you or me or the angry "broke" girl who refuses to ever talk to anyone o even smile at them. :D
^^ Awww, thanks lizzy! *blush*
Yeah, I don't let it get me down when I see s***a, g**a, or f****ie, making more money than me cause heck- I know that they're clean hustlers and they've got tons of experience!! It's amazing how long the noob phase lasts in this job, I learn something new every week, even though I feel like I've been doing this forEVAR.
Funny, last night a certain tall, dark haired, big-boobied co-worker of ours was complaining (once again) of being broke... going on about how all the "ugly girls" were making money. I asked her if she would rather be pretty and broke or "ugly" and making money- she chose money.
Of course what I *wanted* to ask her is if she'd rather HUSTLE and make money or just sit on her ass feeling entitled and broke. C'est la vie!
^^ BAHAHA, you just made me laugh so hard I disturbed the cat on my lap. I can so picture that conversation. <sarcasm>Cause, y'know, that club is full of dogs. </sarcasm> Next time, tell her "pretty is as pretty does."
no..some of our top earners are not so beautiful but whores. some just have good personalities.... i'm considered one of the top in looks at my club, but im definitely not a top earner.. lol =X
There's a girl at my club that always does well (she's a little older), but she has an average (maybe slightly thicker) body and horrible implants, not very good-looking, just sooooooo intense and crazy onstage. Some guys tell me they don't like how aggressive she is, but most guys are blown away by her stage presence and "tricks." It seems like she goes onstage and then guys are lining up to be with her afterwards, because she looks like she'd give an awesome lapdance, too.
Top earners are 30+ all glamourous, big fake boobs and serious hustle skills. They don't do stage at all they just bank bank bank.
God i think this is true too! I dont think im horrible looking yet I still get guys trying to get extras from me for the price of a lap dance. Then they swear up and down they only want it because I'm "pretty"
I always tell them "If I was pretty you wouldn't pull that shit on me dont fucking lie to me"
I've also had situations where a guy dances with another girl who in my opinion is less attractive then they dance with me and ask me to go out with them or meet them OTC...and they didnt do this to the LAST girl! It makes me feel sooo hideous! Apparently to them I look easier. Makes me wonder if I'm not very self aware.
I recently changed my hairstyle and I feel I look like a hot mess now and wonder how anyone wants to dance with someone so scary looking, but I'm making MORE now. I feel insecure with my new style but hey if its making me money I'm not gonna change it
The top earners in my experience aren't the stereotypical early 20's, fake boobs, toned body type. They don't have an age range, either. They seem to expect to make money. They know what guys have money and will spend 20 or so minutes at the most chatting them up, then they just get down to business and convince their customers/parties that it's time to go to VIP and they each charge 500+ an hour to be there. (I usually see them working in pairs)
So, I don't see a connection between top earners and looks. Every stripper I've met has far outshone your average saturday mall crowd anyway. We all look hot!
Because they think they have a chance with the "average girl next door",
actually do find the fugly attractive: (to each his own),
are using her as a source of comedy: "lets get a dance from the ugly one")
and/or think: (she is so fugly must be desperate for money lets see if she will do __________________ fillintheblank extra.
Why? I am sorry but alot of my man friends say the fake look is so tacky!!! stop with all the tanning , fake hair and nails! It truly is a waste of money!!! Try to go for a week without the tanning and see what happens! You will feel much more confident if you know you made more money and naturally. It is not about what you do or dont do, but SIMPLICITY is key. If you look too high maintenance, you are a turn off to most men.
Work less on your appearance and more on your hustle!
Yeah the top earners at the club I worked at were definately attractive, but not the most attractive. I want to go to whatever club likes skinny girls violastrings! But I don't have the boobs, lol so that may be an issue. But personally I am really outgoing but I get nervous so I turn on like my "one of the guys persona" accidentally and then I'm like crap that may be fun but its not selling me dances! LOL.
Then guys are either like creeped out by me bc they think I look too young/thin etc. or they are all about not much middle ground.
Top earners are usually a little more like conventional looking, I mean they have better universal appeal. They also aren't so goofy like me, but I can't help it when I get nervous I just get like that. I'm such a bad hustler! If I could overcome my self-confidence issues I'd be a million times better, but its not always so easy!
All the top earners in my club were good looking, but they weren't all the hottest. All between a 7 and 10, but not all the 10's were top earners. Most of the top had also been there at a minimum 1 year, most for 5 or more. They knew the game very well and played it hard.
^^^^ Absolutely! A hot wall flower will get no where, an above average chick with a good attitude and some hustling skills will make money over others hands down!
It varies at my club. One girl is definitely the most gorgeous girl there-- but in an ethnic, not Barbie way (most of the hot girls at my club are not white).
The other girl is not pretty by any means. But she knows how to hustle and is shameless in her money making ways. I've noticed a lot if guys aren't interested in the hotter girl lately; she has gotten a very arrogant attitude and she doesn't work the floor as much because she prefers to hang out in her *private* dressing room. The other girl is constantly on the floor, approaching every customer.
I've noticed a lot of the prettier girls don't even not have the hustle, they are just lazier. It's like they expect the men to come flocking to them, while the less attractive girls are trying every guy in the room and working them. And I've heard guys say that they assume the prettier girls are going to give less extras because presumably they don't have to.
This is something maybe one of you will know about, and def something I (and maybe a few others) need to know about haha! There was this girl I worked with and we were friendly - like we'd share dresses and stuff. Now she only worked one day a week bc she had one customer that paid her bills. She was pretty, not stunning, but attractive. I asked what she did to get that customer one night when we were chatting at the bar before work. She said that she NEVER approached anyone. She let them approach her and that was how. Is that true, can that work, or did she just get extremely lucky? Should you exude a certain vibe while not approaching anyone that makes them come to you? I was so shocked by her answer I didn't even think of these questions at the time!
Though I must admit my two best customers found me, I didn't find them. Unfortunately they didn't last as long as hers though ::), oh well I guess be thankful for what you do get! That's a bit discouraging though, bc its like you don't really have much control, if the case is the guys that are gonna make your week/month (or year if you're lucky) find you as oppose to vice versa.