Re: How do Black Women at your club attract White customers?
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Originally Posted by
Cassandra39
I would say yes, for a lot of them it is unrealistic and improbable in their head. A 40 yr old married white man married to his skinny blonde white wife for 20 yrs would probably find it a major turn on to get a dance from a total opposite. He can't pretend he's fucking a black woman at home, it is so far from what he has that it is probably something he's wondered about at some time or another.
If he's not in a lifestyle where he has a lot of contact with black women, they are a fantasy. It's a novelty for him.
Same with a man married to a skinny blonde going to the strip club getting dances from the thick brunette with huge boobs, it's not what he gets at home so it turns him on, he's experimenting with something he's only fantasized about in his head.
Does this clarify the FANTASY aspect of this for you?
Stereotype much? Since all white women are skinny and blonde... ::)
Anyways, at most of the clubs I've worked at it seems like the black girls don't have a problem getting dances from white guys, and in fact, I've observed that a lot of older white guys do like black girls and get dances from them pretty frequently. I think it is really important first of all not to psych yourself out about it.
Re: How do Black Women at your club attract White customers?
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Originally Posted by
Starfire
Stereotype much? Since all white women are skinny and blonde... ::)
Anyways, at most of the clubs I've worked at it seems like the black girls don't have a problem getting dances from white guys, and in fact, I've observed that a lot of older white guys do like black girls and get dances from them pretty frequently. I think it is really important first of all not to psych yourself out about it.
No, what I'm saying is that from what I've observed with this "high class" white man who is older and successful, they usually have the little white woman at home, because the norm for those successful white men is that stereotypical skinny white woman, which is far from the black woman they get dances from in the club. Of course this isn't for all of them, but I was trying to make a point. I was trying to emphasize my point of why many of them view the black woman as a "fantasy."
And I'm white by the way an far from skinny...
Re: How do Black Women at your club attract White customers?
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Cassandra39
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No, what I'm saying is that from what I've observed with this "high class" white man who is older and successful, they usually have the little white woman at home, because the norm for those successful white men is that stereotypical skinny white woman, which is far from the black woman they get dances from in the club. Of course this isn't for all of them, but I was trying to make a point. I was trying to emphasize my point of why many of them view the black woman as a "fantasy."
And I'm white by the way an far from skinny...
Ok I see what you're saying. :)
Re: How do Black Women at your club attract White customers?
I'm a relatively new dancer, i've danced at one club for over a year predominantly white customers although i am black and let me tell you something. the black customers that come into white clubs come to see white girls. Middle aged white men have this fantasy about black women, i don't know what it is, but they love me. I should also mention that i am one of those black girls that constantly gets picked on for being too white. (which i resent by the way, speaking proper english should not be reserved for white people). And your correct, when people meet me they say i look like a barbie. White men like something different but familiar when it comes to black women. so they don't like ghetto, but i'm very very dark skinned and they love that i'm in school and blah blah blah. basically they like black girls who are white girls. and when i'm working i'm putting on a show, i'm not a black girl trying to be white, except when i'm working. And they love it. And not gonna lie, being the only black girl working a shift is how you make money. when another black girl comes on, especially if she's lighter skinned, it sucks for my wallet.
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Your not wrong. I was relatively thin when i first started dancing 5'1" 117lbs, now i'm 138, but the reaction hasn't changed. middle aged white men love black girls. idk why, probably because when they were growing up they wanted to date one but it was frowned upon. nowadays its fine, but for them it was something they wanted and couldn't have. and in the strip club they can have it. i know my customer, i don't mess around with black guys i don't mess around with young white guys. middle aged white men will give me their entire bank account if i want it lol
Re: How do Black Women at your club attract White customers?
What clubs in charlotte did you work at? i'm thinking of possibly living there for a month or two
Re: How do Black Women at your club attract White customers?
The black ladies I've seen attract the most older white men and bigger spenders were petite, beautiful hair, make up done, very classy and feminine, warm personalities and smiles. They would usually work on day shift and have loyal regulars who adored them.
Re: How do Black Women at your club attract White customers?
I have always attracted white middle aged men seeing as black or Asian men rarely come to the club, and when they do they aren't respectful at all to women of their colour; so I completely avoid the latter. I think that I attract white men because I'm the only black girl who works at the club regularly, also I have natural 32H breasts, an ass to match and I also just talk about food!
Re: How do Black Women at your club attract White customers?
99% of the dark skinned girls at my main club end up doing one night and never coming back. My club is small, almost all older white guys and it seems like maybe they're uncomfortable with the general atmosphere. If they saw how much money the 1% of black girls who DO stay make, we would have a lot more black girls. They have the hustle down, friendly pleasant attitude, funny, nice bodies and nice hair/makeup/outfits. The ideal strippers.
Re: How do Black Women at your club attract White customers?
slim & hyperfeminine bubbly Black women always do well