I'm having trouble talking the guys into getting dances...... I've been dancing for 9 years in DC. There's no lap or table dances there. It's stage dancing only in DC, so I moved to Tampa 2 years ago and tried dancing twice at a club down here and just felt like a fish out of water. It wasn't the dancing part I was uncomfortable with. It was approaching and talking the guys into getting the dances I was having problems with. I'm use to guys coming up to me and wanting me to spend time with them, not me approaching them. Can anyone give me some sugestions on approaching them? I read thru hustle hunt thread and there were some good ideas in there as far as the guys coming up with "excuses' why they're not wanting a dance....... and what some good responses are back to them would be. :-\

