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If you do, take your own car and meet up with him. Basic safety rules etc etc.
I am usually 100% staunch against dating people I meet at work but there was one exception, so I will tell you about that. He was 21 (I was 23) and there with his friends and brother. They gave me over $40 on stage, and he paid me $50 to give his brother one dance (dances at this club were normally $10). It was only 15 minutes til the end of the night, and he was so beautiful and nice. Smile knocked me over.
I didnt give him my number but I felt like I'd made a mistake. So I hunted him down on myspace. He was easy to find (unusual name) and we ended up dating for nearly a year. Come to find out that night when we met he was watching me all night and was too shy to say hi.
Bah. Anyway. Thats my story. I would consider him to be the ultimate love of my life. But thats definitely the exception, not the rule.
Awww.. Go for it girl! If you really feel as strongly as you seem to, maybe there's something there..
Just make sure that since he knows you're a stripper, he doesn't treat you like a "stripper". Ya know what I mean.. :-)
Good luck and keep us updated! :-)
go out with him, but hang out with him for awhile before you sleep with him, if you choose to do so. he might just be one of those guys who wants to get a stripper in the sack so he can brag about it, or he might be an actually decent dude.
proceed with caution
Good luck, be careful, you never know how these things will turn out.
Trust no one. At least, that's my policy. I keep my feelings well-guarded and avoid dating people I meet at work, but you know sh#$ happens and it has, for the most part, been a positive experience. So, I say go for it. Not every guy that comes to a stripclub is a loser, but do know that most of them are... :eek:
Well I know a few girls that has had successful relationships with someone they met at work. Just like the other girls have said be really careful but going out for coffee or a drink at a nice bar or lounge cant hurt. You well pick up on his vibe after talking for a while. Also talking on the phone is sometimes a good indicator.
Goodluck