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Dude, go into a club "to pick a fight"? As an in "an assault and battery" type of a fight? Why would you risk getting your ass kicked or hauled off to jail on felony charges? Over a dancer?
How old are you?
Now see, this is one of those fork-in-the-road moments, a question whose reaction by me will tell a lot about how I'm going to react if I do indeed go back to the KoD. Instead of keeping cool, I'm going to answer the way I want to answer -- by sticking up for myself. So I'm going to reply thusly: How old am I? Old enough to start standing up for myself, that's for goddamn sure. What of it?
Dude, I'm not stupid enough to go all Bruce Lee on him and his fellow bouncers. But I'm not going to have that roly-poly motherfuck lord over me and wait for me to do what he even perceives as something he could toss me for. I did nothing wrong then and I have nothing I should apologize for.
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His age don't have anything to do wit it. He was dissed, yo.
Exactly. Thank you for seeing it my way.
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You're getting too caught up in your ATF but we've all been there. It's hard to keep emotions in check at a SC. Spend enough time with the same dancer and it feels like you're dating. There's lots of talking, spending money, laughs, she's hanging all over you, makes you feel special, all that crap. The next thing you know she's with another customer or blows you off and you're like WTF! That's when you know it's time to step back.
Next time, if she doesn't ditch the other guy in 10 minutes, move on to other dancers. You'll either get her attention or she'll care less and you'll have a good time anyway.
Good advice; I'll take it. I don't really mind if my ATF makes money, just don't lie to me. Or maybe she just got caught up in a bunch of guys who wanted to take her to the VIP. I don't know; maybe I'm blaming her for more than I should. Or maybe I should be blaming her more than I am. I don't know.
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Hazard of the hobby, and unavoidable. A lot of girls will put their regular's on hold because they think they'll wait on them. Best thing you can do (short of arranging things off the premises) is pre arrange your playtime for her less busy hours.
Hadn't thought of this before. Maybe I'll try this, but I like going late.
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But they didn't do anything wrong either. Shit happens.
No, no, no. They did do something wrong: They threw me out because she thought I said something to her and the bouncer wanted to prove that he was a man by kicking out a lone wolf like me instead of the obnoxious groups of people around me being dickheads. This club should be apologizing to me.
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When you say she would get back to you, were you paying up til them? Did she leave so she could earn some money?
Paying who up till then? And yeah, she left because she could earn some money and she said she promised she'd get back to him as soon as she left her stage set.
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You should stay away for a week or two and then just go back and act like nothing ever happened. Picking fights would not be a good idea.
If they won't let you back in then just go find another club.
Well, it's been a couple weeks, but I think I'll either go back next week, or Memorial Day Weekend. Maybe this waitress and bouncer will be gone by then. If not, and they want to be assholes, it'll be difficult to leave my ATF. But at that point what can you do?
Thanks to you, to all of you, for chiming in.