For dancers who work at clubs with champagne rooms, when someone offers you a drink do you ever say "Sure lets get a bottle and go to the champagne room"?
Does it ever work. I am thinking of trying this next time I go into work.
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For dancers who work at clubs with champagne rooms, when someone offers you a drink do you ever say "Sure lets get a bottle and go to the champagne room"?
Does it ever work. I am thinking of trying this next time I go into work.
in my experience its not often that you could turn a drink into a CR, at least not without some middle steps. usually when a guy offers me a drink he falls into 2 categories-a. he just wants to waste my time and talk my ear off for the price of a rum and coke, or b. he has serious potential for a spender and is just going through the steps he thinks are necessary. to decipher between the types i say " ooh, we can drink later, i'd really rather get naked now, lets go play ..." type A will tell you "i don't play" or smthg along these lines. B will say either "ok" or "that sounds good but i just got here". if he says the latter you have a choice to leave and come back or have the drink with him and hope for the best. if he does agree to the dance (which happens 50% of the time) nows your chance to upselll him to the CR. say " ooh , i have a great idea -lets go somewhere more private where we can both drink and be naughty".
Id just accept the drink and try to upsell while drinking it w/ him. It only takes like a min or 2 to finish the drink and chit chat. Youll seem more polite and it may be easier to upsell.
It'd be pretty easy for a guy to get turned off, if you dismissed and replaced his offer w/o any rapport building. If you kinda flirt during the first drink then he has more of a reason to have your next drink be a bottle in VIP.
Most of my rooms and dances involve a guy first buying a drink for me, *but I dont work in wanna dance bar*. Men do this to be polite and feel it out , and then someone pops the question about rooms dances prices. Our drinks are like $12 so it shows an interest when a guy pays that for a tiny glass of champagne for a dancer.
If you work in a fast paced enviornment i could see how that approach may be more feasible. Its def. a fast hustle.
Yea it really depends on the club. In Vegas, I would have *probably* turned down the drink if he doesnt wan't a dance. In my tiny local club, I would definitely accept the drink and chat for a few minutes before asking for a dance.
It's worked for me a handful of times thoroughout my stripping career. Very few and far between though, like that one guy that had a ton of money and would give in to my every request.
I haven't tried this yet (I danced for 7 years, took a two year hiatus and am starting back tomorrow) but you ladies gave me an idea.
When the guy says" wanna drink" tell him "I'd love one but first lets build up a thirst and then we can drink after". That way you still accepted his offer and if he does gets a dance, afterward while you order drinks together you can transition to the CR / VIP. Tell him "I had so much fun 'playing' (insert appropriate word here) with you, lets go in the back where we can drink and have some fun & private alone time"
Honestly, I would be hesitant to use that as a hustle. I think most guys are psychologically attached to the tradition of picking up a lady by first buying her a drink. It makes them feel more like it's a courtship and less like a business transaction (which, we know it is!) And although I would love nothing more than to skip straight to the dances (or the CR!), I feel it's important to sip the drink for a song or two, build rapport, and THEN pitch the VIP!
But, let me know if this works for you! And good luck going back to work!
yep! It doesn't usually get me rooms, but it does very often make me money. ;) It's less of a CR hustle, and more of a line to separate out the time wasters and establish the understanding that you are here for money (not just to drink and sit around and "chill").
When I use this line, usually one of three things happens. Sometimes the guy looks horrified, like a deer trapped in headlights, and stammers out some lame "I don't do that stuff" excuse. He never had any intention of spending and just wanted to yak my ear off for hours for the price of a drink. NEXT!
Or (most often) the guy doesn't want to part with the $$ for champagne, but now I've made him feel like he needs to at least buy a dance or two. Once you've got him in the couch dance area, you can sometimes get him to loosen up and upgrade to CR, but if not you can usually at least get 2-3 dances out of him.
Occasionally a guy will love the confidence and forwardness and will just be like "ok, let's go". But usually if I get a room with this line, it's after I've warmed him up with a dance or two first, and then used the "should we keep going here, or are you ready for the private room now?" line.
Well I went back to dancing last night and here is how it worked. The wait staff was very slow, (most guys just went straight to the bar), so by the time he would ask me for a drink I had already chatted with him and did my whole spiel (5 minutes minimum - slow last night). I used this technique on a few people and it worked great. I got the men in the VIP room for those dances but was not able to fully upgrade to the CR.
Your right though, it may not have worked if the waitstaff instantly came up to us before I had time to build a rapport. By using this line, and a few other ideas (OK a lot of ideas!) that I learned on HH I did triple the VIP than any other girl (the club counts them). Now if anyone has any suggestions from turning that initial drink / dance combo into a CR please let me know.
Oh, I wanna add. I use a line similar to guys who want a drink first. I usually say, "ok honey but lets get our drinks AFTER the dances, cause I know you'll be thirsty after our hot dances."
Usually they say yes, get the dances..then we drink, and then we go get more dances.
What about if he's one of those guys that offers you a drink when the waitress comes up? I get a lot of those at my club, any ideas on how to capitalize on that?
^^ Just accept it then cuz the waitress will turn to you and ask what you want. The clubs frown upon your rejection of a drink.
I make a joke about buying a magnum of Cristal or 3. People say yes to preposterous stuff all the time that I say...one day I'm getting that magnum of Cristal. I do notice that they laugh at how over the top I am and usually those guys ask about "realistic" bottles of champagne later. the $350 bottle looks great next to the $4500 one.
I'd imagine a man is offering u a drink in the first ten minutes or so of chatting and may want to test the waters so to speak. You may do better with, "Well, I'll get A drink but I really need to save room for champagne" I need to save for the champagne we're going to have later" wink/wink. If he's a reg customer then drag his ass to the cr as soon as he walks in.