I finally got up the courage to participate in an amateur night thanks to all of the advice I have gotten from you guys! I knew that most places have rigged amateur nights and so was surprised to learn when I got there that instead of a competition, all that was involved was a 2 song stage set and you get to keep all of the tips you make. I didn't think I was going to make any money as the club was pretty empty and no one seemed to be tipping well. But I figured I needed the learning experience anyway.
Oddly enough, I ended up making over $70. just from one set on stage. I had to turn down lap dances (twice!), had people asking when I was going up (before I had my turn), and one guy wanted to go to a private room, but because I was an amateur gave me $20 to sit with him till his cab came!
I am going back on Saturday to meet with the manager and get on the schedule! Again, thank you for having all of this information available for us girls who just need that extra little bit of a push!
