"You don't act like a stripper. Are you a cop"
Yeah, I actually got this line from a guy the other night. We were sitting around talking and he said I was far too "well spoken" and smart to be working "in such a filthy enviornment". What the fuck???? So because I am well read and articulate I'm a fucking narco? he then informed me that he couldn't get dances from me because I'm too "intellectual". And just what is a stripper supposed to act like? From what I read on here, we have a LOT of potential narcos and undercovers, because some of the women on here are the most articulate writers I have seen. So should I act like a fucking ditz? It goes against every fiber of my being. Anyone else ever have a similar encounter?
Re: "You don't act like a stripper. Are you a cop"
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Originally Posted by
tempest666
It goes against every fiber of my being.
I presume you said something like this to him?:P
I think if you go a bit intellectual on them, it might break their perception of what a stripper is, and they can't handle that; or they simply don't want to see you for anything other than your sexuality.
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I have come across this. I try for the whole bubbly blond thing , but I end up in a arguement about politics or the economy or.......
Some men find it fasicnating that you can be cute , funny , sexy and smart..... but some guys are dicks who feel threatened by you.
When you come across one of those assholes , I try to make a deal with them. ''If I can hold my own in a conversation about whatever with you for 5 minutes , then you have to buy some dances'' type of thing.
A lot of guys think when I say that its ''cute''. Look at the poor stripper who thinks she's smart type of additude , and then they buy a dance for me for being ''cute'' and ''trying''.
Fact is , most men think of us as a peice of meat , rather then a person. So when the see the person side of us , they don't like it. They have a hard time acting out there fantasies with a women who could be there wife or biz partner. They would rather just see as at tits and ass.
IT sucks that its like that , but it is for a lot of men.
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I have been told I'm too smart... and while guys seem to love talking to me, this doesn't translate into getting dances. I try to act ditzy, but I can't pull it off to well... it does help me get dances when I do, though.
That's one of the parts of dancing I hate - I have to pretend to be dumb to do well. It's not fair and it sucks, but such is life.
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"yes i am a cop and you are under arrest for being a DUMB ASS"
teeheehee
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missmays1983
"yes i am a cop and you are under arrest for being a dumb ass"
teeheehee
lmao ;)
Re: "You don't act like a stripper. Are you a cop"
you're in tampa. i don't know how smart flies elsewhere. here, it crashes with a thud. older girls can get away with it, sometimes. younger, shorter, cute girls can't. just don't.
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Originally Posted by
missmays1983
"yes i am a cop and you are under arrest for being a DUMB ASS"
teeheehee
:D HAAAA!!!
I try not to talk too much. I try to let them do the talking. I just act interested and horny (unless they aren't spending).
Re: "You don't act like a stripper. Are you a cop"
When I worked at the Sundowner in Niagara Falls Canada, I used to get alot of these comments, mainly because the clientile were usually lower end blue collar workers without any or much education. It could just be the club or town your in, I later found out that Niagara Falls, Ontario, is primarily a blue collar town, there are no big spenders or regular business clientile.
Changing clubs sometimes helps to put things into perspective. Hope that helps.
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"you don't act like a man, are you a pig?"
Re: "You don't act like a stripper. Are you a cop"
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Ruby Ruckus
"you don't act like a man, are you a pig?"
ROFL! good one