Re: dominatix mentor needed
Hmm...I'm not sure this belongs here.
Anyways, the best advice I can give is not to think its about being outright mean or bitchy, but to act more as though you know you're better than him.
It helps to have a pretentious disposition. You need to know how to look down on somebody.
Try going to a dungeon and talking to doms.
Re: dominatix mentor needed
I'm also planning to advertise more than before that I'm willing to dominate, too. Some time ago I got to spank a customer and I've to say I really liked it. I've been talking to a man who wants me to be his domina and discussing what he would like and so on. I believe that one can just do it and learn from customers. Maybe try getting an experienced slave/sub to teach you? S/he would teach you what to do and get affordable "treatment" at the same time (at least I'm going to offer some discounts to those who help me develop my skills, especially when I'm just starting out... I would think it's like when they have hairdressing students at the hairdresser's, they learn while giving cheaper services than the pros).
Re: dominatix mentor needed
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Originally Posted by
Wintre
Anyways, the best advice I can give is not to think its about being outright mean or bitchy, but to act more as though you know you're better than him.
It helps to have a pretentious disposition. You need to know how to look down on somebody.
Wow, there was me thinkin this was a fault, just in life in general. Didnt think it could get you somewhere?
*Enlightened*
Re: dominatix mentor needed
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Originally Posted by
Jezzebelle
Wow, there was me thinkin this was a fault, just in life in general. Didnt think it could get you somewhere?
*Enlightened*
I guess I tend to see it more from a psychological perspective. Although there's physical pain involved, a huge part of it is the humiliation, etc. That's whats so fun about this sort of thing, its intention is to break social constructs.