topless gogo dancing at a swingers' party? anyone done this?
I'm scheduled to do one this weekend. It seems like a topless go-go dancing style gig. But what will it be like? Will guys assume they can touch me? Because I won't like that! I normally dance in a club with bouncers and have done nude parties with bouncers where I am very much in control of things, you know, no tip, no touchy. Should I be bringing my own security? I assume I can't hustle for tips. I didn't really ask the party organizer and I didn't disclose that I'm a stripper because it seemed like if they wanted to hire "strippers" they would have said so. Should I ask?
Re: topless gogo dancing at a swingers' party? anyone done this?
Hell yeah, I'd ask. About everything you mentioned! I don't know a lot about swinger parties, but I think they could get kinda wild? Good luck.
Re: topless gogo dancing at a swingers' party? anyone done this?
Ask about bringing a bouncer and about collecting tips. Chances are that you won't really have problems. Most swingers know how to take "no" for an answer, but it's better to be safe than sorry.
Re: topless gogo dancing at a swingers' party? anyone done this?
there was a tread about this a while back. http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...hlight=swinger I would ask about everything. Better for you all to be informed about each others limits and rules, makes all involved much more comfortable. I wouldn't worry about them not taking no, a large part of the lifestyle is built on taking no for an answer.
Re: topless gogo dancing at a swingers' party? anyone done this?
I've been to several swingers clubs/parties. Honestly, in my experience, swingers are some of the most well mannered respectful people out there.
most swingers parties are couples only, so its not like there are a bunch of guys roaming around trying to cop a feel. and they are mostly older/mature couples. Theres always a old dude with a hot young chick and you know she's working. :)
But, thats just been my experience.
Now, I personally would ask a lot of questions, because you never know. The people that are running it could be shady.
I used to go to a swingers club that had lots of security, cameras, and a towel boy that walked around cleaning up messes. seriously. they provided towels and sheets and you couldn't screw unless you laid something down under you.
Re: topless gogo dancing at a swingers' party? anyone done this?
I've worked a few swinger parties and like some of the other people mentioned swingers are generally very polite and well manered. I borught security to the first swingers party i worked at, but after that I stopped because it was pointless to have a big muscle man standing by me scarring people away when no one was giving me a problem in the first place. They may tip you, they may not, it really depends on the croud and feel of the party. Husteling is generally discouraged. Talk to the hot of the party. I'm sure he/she will understand and answer all your questions especially if you tell them you've never done a gig like this before. Good luck :)