private party guest etiquette?
I've been dancing in a club for about 6 months. One of the things I noticed most about starting to dance was how annoying little things customers do are. Some of those things I did myself before I started dancing:-\. This weekend I am attending my very first PP, and not as a dancer but as a guest. Do you ladies have any tips on how to make this a great PP for the dancer? Any do's or don'ts?
Re: private party guest etiquette?
DO:
tip her well
act polite
obey the rules
have fun!
encourage others to tip, and to be respectful of her boundaries if you see anyone getting out of line
DON'T:
try to take any of the spotlight away from her (example, brag about being a stripper too, try to take up mens attention, etc)
be overly grabby (we've all dealt with the female customers that think it's okay because they're women too)
it's pretty simple and i'm sure you'll know what's appropriate.
Re: private party guest etiquette?
^^^
good advice
Also, don't bark orders at the strippers! I was doing a girl-girl show the other night and some of the dudes kept on being like, "OK, now suck her tits! Make out with her!" I was like, shut up, dude, relax and enjoy the show, and let me do my job.
But yeah, I'm sure that since you're a stripper you know better than to do anything really obnoxious.
Re: private party guest etiquette?
^^ UGH I hate when people do that. Actually, I've never had a girl at a party do it. Only guys. They always try to tell you who to give a lapdance to next ... and next ... and next. Uh excuse me but I'm here to dance how I want to and on whom! You can sit your bossy ass down or I will get out a belt and give you a spanking! lol.
Anyways, back to etiquette. If there's going to be other ladies at the party who aren't dancers like you, I would gently remind them to be nice to your dancer. Girls at parties can sometimes get catty or take the "Eww noo don't dance on me! Gross!" thing too far.
Laugh at her jokes or whatever funny little things she does ... every PP dancer has a few tricks and most of them are designed to get laughs out of the crowd.