5 months pregnant and having to continue
Ladies, I need some serious suggestions.
When I became pregnant it seemed like everything that could go wrong went wrong: my relationship with my boyfriend of three years went downhill, my car that was old but paid off quit working and I had to buy a new one (which meant car payment), gas prices jumped and I became very ill which depleted my savings.
So here I am 21 weeks along and Im going to need to dance for at the most 2 more weeks to be able to live off of my day job income.
My stomach isnt huge but I imagine anyone paying close enough attention might notice Im having a baby. So my question is; how can I creatively minimize my baby bump so I can get through this mini financial crisis?
I left my upscale club and am going to work in a lower grade club in the next few days since no one there will know my measurements like they do at my home club. Any help is greatly appreiciated.
Re: 5 months pregnant and having to continue
I've heard that there is a big market for preggers camgirls... You can stay in the comfort of your own home and make your own schedule...
Re: 5 months pregnant and having to continue
lots of girls at my bar that have just had babies and want to hide tummy bulge ( and some are just very thick) wear a black tube dress and only pull the top down to expose their breasts while on stage. This is actually quite common
I suspect not every bar would approve of this, but my bar is very liberal. These girls also do lapdances the same way. I'm tellin ya' some of these girls have serious guts, and they still bank.
Re: 5 months pregnant and having to continue
Waist cincher, for the aesthetics NOT to actually cinch your stomach
Re: 5 months pregnant and having to continue
Im not quite brave enough to consider webcamming just yet. Mainly because Im clueless as to what it entails, and which companies are reputable. Not to mention my only webcam is built into my laptop. Hmm it is a thought though.
Im going to view the new temporay club home so then I can decide if, just exposing the breasts is a possibilty for me.
Im am really digging the waist clincher idea, I may hunt one down tommorrow, if I can find a way to magically afford it.
I am actually hoping that some of these girls at the club are healthier looking than I am so I can at leas have some hope of making some money. I also put in application for a waitressing position at another club, but I dont know if they are going to hire me or not since I have no experience. I may have to just beg to work on their day shift and work at the other club too.
Thank you for those who took the time to reply, this at least gives me some options.
Re: 5 months pregnant and having to continue
See if you can get a job as a housemom or something. The house mom at my club is almost 9 months pregnant, though I think she was working there before she got pregnant.
Re: 5 months pregnant and having to continue
Both the waist cincher and house mom ideas are awesome! If u use the cincher be super careful that it isn't tight AT ALL. Congrats on the little one... Keep your head up- it will get easier.
Re: 5 months pregnant and having to continue
I've known 3 girls who danced while they were obviously pregnant. They said some customers loved it and they still made money.
Re: 5 months pregnant and having to continue
Thank you all again for your help...However, I officially "popped" a few days ago and decided against going back. I went and got a job Tuesday and another one yesterday. I hope that I can get everything on track soon because this economy right now is just draining me.
On the bright side, I found out Im having a son and Im thrilled.
BTW, there wasnt a house mom position for me at this time.