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Re: Creepy Dude...<<RANT>>
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Originally Posted by
WiseGuy_TX
...here we go again.
what do you mean by that?
Im sorry it turned out like that angel, I saw that thread where he was talking about wanting to do that lol the world is full of creeepz!
Re: Creepy Dude...<<RANT>>
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Originally Posted by
bexxx
what do you mean by that?
Im sorry it turned out like that angel, I saw that thread where he was talking about wanting to do that lol the world is full of creeepz!
...the mods will understand.
Re: Creepy Dude...<<RANT>>
Sorry this happened, but I'm glad you were able to figure out he's an ass before your had to meet him.
Better safe than sorry. Take care.
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I know to take care. Thank you Verfolgung.
Wiseguy, what do you mean by here we go again!?! Im looking out for the rest of these girls, does that mean anything? Sure I brought up something, but you can't tell me I'm not doing any good by telling these girls. They have the right to know. Maybe not you Wiseguy because he probably doesnt go that way. But umm... safety is what matters, who knows what else this guy is into.
^^
The mods, sure they will know, but do these girls know what he did. Im serious, i got all the conversations saved. I ain't lying, why would i feel the need to. So, yeah, whatever...
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Oh okay, i was unaware, and probably should have done my homework. But I was creeped out at the moment i posted this.
I am looking out for the rest of the girls, in case the guy would do something more then what he said. In case he was dangerous. I dont want anybody to get hurt, or i dont know. Hurt by the dude.
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I need to know how to post on here can sumone help?
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^^^ Um I think you just did it. :P j/k
(Sorry to threadjack *~Angel~*)
Re: Creepy Dude...<<RANT>>
What do you mean...? You just kind of did....lol
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Re: Creepy Dude...<<RANT>>
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Originally Posted by
*~Angel~*
What do you mean...? You just kind of did....lol
Beat you to the draw! Heh. ;D
Re: Creepy Dude...<<RANT>>
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Originally Posted by
yummi_812
no i mean my own thread
Yummi at the top of each forum section is a button on the top left NEW THREAD. Click on that to start a new topic.
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Well, i noticed that after you said it.
Yummi, you go to the area you want to post something in, near the top of the page on the left side there will be a lil button that says something lik post topic, or post new, or post thread... That would be what you click to post something that you want, or need an answer to
^^
You BEAT me again
Re: Creepy Dude...<<RANT>>
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Originally Posted by
*~Angel~*
...
^^
You BEAT me again ...
It's okay, you can always find solice in the fact that you're prettier than me. ;)
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Well, yeah, I definetelly find solice in that.
Ahhhhhh, baskes in it...
^^
Back to topic. I'm not gonna get in trouble for this right. All I did was try to warn girls about the definete creep potential on the guy.
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No way. I should hope not.
BTW - Here is a link to the thread you referenced...
"Stockings" (maybe it should be "Stalkings")
http://forum.stripperweb.com/showthread.php?t=130288
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Okay good, cuz the way wiseguy made it seem lik i was at fault or something... I was lik oh god...
But anyway girls, make sure you watch out for him. It looks like mainly he was jus on this site just to post that message and didnt really participate elsewhere.... jus be careful.
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Nobody should ever meet a custie on the internet... It's stupid and WILL lead to trouble. Period.
Nobody should need a warning... Everyone should be smart enough to just not do it.
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True, but this was all ITC, with bouncers and stuff. Then he kept trying to get it OTC, im like no thats not gonna happen.
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No CR's or shit either, i wanted it to be out in the open. Safer, but still....its a warning, and yes that is the link to the thread
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Whoa, Angelicat I have to respectfully disagree on this one.
Personally, I think I would be a lot like you on this and not try to meet up with people I've met online. Over the years I've had dancers who were in my local area invite me to stop by to visit them, but I've never taken them up on those offers. However, if others do meet up and are careful about it, than I wouldn't go so far as to universally call them "stupid".
I mean, in reality how do we really know about anyone online, customer or dancer. Yet how many SW Fests have there been in several cities over the years where both dancers and customers meet up.
I've seen several threads of ladies on here looking to meet up with people and even asking for roomates and such. Whenever I see those threads I always try to caution them with a word of warning to be careful.
In *~Angel's~* particular case, it was set up to meet in ITC. From what I understand this happens from time to time. Members take trips to other cities and send out a PM to someone they know who works out there and then drop in to say "hello". If it's a customer, then perhaps they get a dance. Yeah, some of those meet ups result in drama (I can think of a few over the years) but there are others that also led to hook ups (not that I'm advocating that either). However, this particular case was ITC and in somewhat of a controlled setting. *~Angel~* was far more careful than those who plan to meet OTC, and IMHO does not deserve to be labeled as "stupid".
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I dont meet customers OTC, unless i know them (hence my good friends), and i def would have to trust them, and be in a crowded public place. I dont know that dude, I would never have met him OTC.
I was just warning other girls, because there was plenty of girls interested on that thread. So, I was just trying to get the word out. So, it wasn't only me....lol
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I think there is a difference in meeting up with a new poster vs some of the other posters.
As an aside, fetish people tend to be weird IMO. Not surprised it happened, but it is rather unfortunate it happened.
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That sucks. Sorry you got a freak. He obviously isnt a true foot/leg fetishist since they are typically submissive. And a goldmine! I've spent hours in the CR with a custie who just likes to rub my feet and legs. Massage,sipping Crystal,making money withOUT taking off my clothes or playing ninja stripper...best days EVER!!
I'd be fine with meeting a custie off the internet ITC. Not OTC for obvious reasons. But ITC where you are protected...I dont see any difference then "meeting" any other stranger thats already in the club. It isnt like we often know any custies we spend time with unless its a reg.
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Misunderstanding on my part- I thought she meant she had met this dude online and was seeing him OTC...
Either way, I don't think it's ever smart to meet a customer online. And, I will stand by my opinion that it is always stupid to do such. All it takes is one crazy person to end a life or destroy one... We all know too well that often such victims are found online.
Even ITC... Knowing you in any other context (such as online) is dangerous. MANY computer hackers can pinpoint exactly where you are based on ur IP number and internet connection. THAT is scary.
The reason I have such a strong opinion about this, has to do with my own ignorance when I started dancing. One Valentines Day I got a phone call from someone who lived in a house I lived in 4 years prior. They said that they received flowers with my name, the number they called me on, and their home address. I went to pick up the flowers, which had a note from my regular on them wishing me a Happy V day. When asked how the fuck he got my address, he said that he found it using my phone number, and hoped I didn't mind. (Used to give out my # for scheduling purposes, now I ask for theirs and call from a blocked number) Needless to say I never talked to him again and realized I needed to be more careful!