Couple wants me to hang out for $$?
So I recently decided to give out customers my e-mail that I made specifically for dancing. I met a couple a few weeks ago that said they would love for me to spend time with them and mostly the guy was saying to basically be like a friend and have fun with his gf. I told them the rules where there is no touching private parts and kissing and they said okay. They seem like decent people, he even gave me his business card and whatnot.
Anyways, my question is...this isn't really a 'private party' so I'm not sure what they are asking out of me. They said they never done this before so it's not like they can compare it to anyone else. I told them it would be $200/hr but since I never done anything like this I would be afraid of boring them or run out of things to say or do. I told them there is a chance I might be unwilling to because I'll feel uncomfortable.
I know some of you might say "if not your comfortable, don't do it." It's not that kind of uncomfortable, its like when I first started dancing, I was uncomfortable because I never done it, but now I absolutely love it!
So has anyone done anything like this? Where its not in the club but its not really a party either. What do you do?
Re: Couple wants me to hang out for $$?
They want you for a 3-way.
Re: Couple wants me to hang out for $$?
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Originally Posted by
echomadison
They want you for a 3-way.
Either go and stick to your rules.. or don't. They do want you for a three way.. duh?
Re: Couple wants me to hang out for $$?
Try contacting them before you set up the date and everything, and ask them what they would be interested in doing. Remind them of your rules, and then ask what they had in mind as far as activities go. Seems foolproof to me!
That way, if they sound legit, then you can remind them of the activities they chose when you show up to play with them. And if their ideas seem too raunchy, you can turn them down beforehand.
Re: Couple wants me to hang out for $$?
There is always a price to pay for something. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is. They certainly don't want you there to pour tea for them and chat.
Re: Couple wants me to hang out for $$?
as long as you feel safe...
1. get your money up front
2. lay down the law
Re: Couple wants me to hang out for $$?
I am an exotic dancer and it just so happens that my best friend and her boyfriend wanted this same exact thing... I hooked them up with one of my co workers.... They were respectful of her rules (and yes sure they would have LOVED a 3 way, but accepted that that was not an option)..... Just clarify price, money up front and location/meet spot, ideas of what they want for routine( like naked striptease, lapdances, playing etc) and then see if it clicks, it might be worth the money.. And for the record, my co worker was from out of town and they paid her $450 for an hour of her time and loved it and said it was TOTALLY worth it.