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I am sexy?
I know I'm plus sized, but honestly, am I sexy enough to be a dancer?
I really want too, but my family says I'm to fat. However my Dancer friend, she said I'd do really well and I'm unsure... so I figure, you guys have no reason to sugar coat anything or to be ridiculously mean... I'm just interested in honesty
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You'll be fine! Just find the club that will take girls with your build. I've seen dancer's MUCH heavier than you - so don't even worry about it. You'll need to tone up before you can work in a top tier club, but you may decide that you like the little local joints better... plenty of dancers do.
Good luck!
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Honestly, you're a little chubby. But you have a cute face and lots of potential!
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hell no, i'd pay to see that!
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theres all different types of men with different tastes... if your confident enough in yourself to get up on stage dance feel sexy and take your clothes off then do the damn thing dont listen to what any of your family has to say its your body if your confident in your own body you will give off a confident vibe to customers...Im a thick girl too and where im from and im sure its all other places too there are men that like super skinny model types, athletic types and thick types... different men have different fantasies you may not be attractive to one man but to the next you might be what makes him tick...its all about how you carry yourself... there is something sexy about every woman whatever it is find it and make it work... from your pictures your thick and you have a gorgeous face... i believe every one has issues with there own bodies and things they might want to change but its all about working what you got untill you can work on the things you can and choose to change....
;) your beautiful be confident and work it ;)
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You're definitely pretty enough to be a dancer, and nowhere near fat. There will be clubs that won't take you because you're not skinny, but that doesn't mean you won't make bank in another club.
I wouldn't wear that halter top if I were you, though. Find an outfit that shows your cleavage and emphasizes your curves. Like a boned corset bustier type thing.
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I think you look gorgeous with your longish,dark hair, beautiful,fair skin,expressive eyes,and full lips. While some clubs prefer their dancers skinny, there are some clubs that realize not all men like the same size woman and they realize that sexy comes in a lot of different sizes.
For your peace of mind,I'd go into a club with a date or a friend to check out the competition so to speak. Depending on what club you visit,you may audition with complete confidence. Do some research,make some calls,etc,and find a club where you will feel comfortable. Warmest Wishes and Good Luck In Your New Adventure,Harlow
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I think you are beautiful and those eyes! OMG!!! }:D
You would do very good in New Mexico. After dancing for a few months your body will really tone up, dancing is quite a workout. I say go for it!
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Im your size and I do fine at work :-)
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Dont get discouraged at being rejected by some clubs...there are clubs out there that only want the skinny blonde fake boobs barbie type. But there WILL be a club for you. Look for smaller dive type clubs...which I always am more comfortable at and do well at anyway!
I'm your size and I do well...I also model and do movies and have a fairly developed fan base around the world! You'll be fine!
Heres me if you want to see..from a shoot I just did on Sunday so its me NOW.
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Pretty eyes, sexy lips, cute face, nice rack and ass from what I can see. Change the outfit to something more flattering to your body type and you'll be printing money. Sexiness is mostly attitude
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In my opinion, what makes strip clubs magical to most men is the fact that their are all types of women, all of them wanting to party with them. I know women of your size (and a few even a little heavier) that do fine at work. You might want to consider starting out during the day shift, since night shift is usually more intense and competitive when it comes to body type. Don't worry, once you gain confidence and hustle skill, you will be an excellent stripper!
And I second the fact that you have an adorable, gorgeous face.
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I don't think you should go straight to dive clubs or day shift. Just be aware of the fact that you may get rejected and try to get in at the best club in town. Not all of the nice clubs want only skinny girls.
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i think you're very pretty and will do great! if there's any parts of your body you feel insecure about, you can find outfits that cover those parts, for example dresses that are really low cut or corsets that cover the stomach but expose your boobs.
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It really depends on the region you are dancing in. In some areas the men like curvy girls in other regions the men prefer skinny girls. In other areas you have clubs that cater to either taste or both at the same time.
Just be sure to check out the club you plan on auditioning at, to be sure that you will feel comfortable there.
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No problems that I can see! Some of my favorite lap dances were given me by a dancer with a figure just like yours. And you have a LOVELY face. Have fun. You'll lose weight if you get a job dancing, so get out there and get started!
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I think you are fine just the way you are and you have an awesome face. Just wear only clothes that look good on you and have a personality that shines- because you are working next to skinny bitchs. PLUS within 3 weeks, you'd be in much better shape from swinging on poles!
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I think you are incredibly hot and the best way to melt a few extra pounds is dancing.
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You look fine but I would change outfit. Maybe for long sexy dress which wold emphasize cleavage. I would stay away from little shorts
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Oh my god you are gorgeous! Hmmm... I'd kinda like to see that picture that supposedly "violated" photobucket's terms, lol.
But I think you can do great, you have a beautiful face, and I think your figure is hot! How tall are you?If you're short-medium height, make sure you get some taller shoes. And emphasize your boobies. Tone up a little, which pole dancing will definitely help with.
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Jiggle is beautiful!!!!! lol I would for sure get a dance from you! Seriously. You are gorgeous. Don't change :D
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You have a very cute face and from your pic look like a woman I would want at my table. I know some guys are only into hard bodies but I like a woman with soft womanly curves. You will do well with many but not all customers. You have to hone your radar skills to separate the wheat from the chaff in terms of your target audience.
Good luck,
FBR
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I know I haven't replied to anything, but I'm really thankful to everyone that has answered.
I have am a really big corset collector... I have a billion... but I'd figure those might be hard to dance in... maybe if I wear it low enough.
My only huge concern is I have super chubby arms... they're really the only thing I worry about because for being 'curvy' my stomach is strangly flat and roll-less.
The club my friend is training me for advertises as a nude club but you can wear corsets and I saw bikini's on when I checked it out. Which I look okay in a bikini... I think anyways.
I really like my thighs and my legs- they remind me of pin up legs.
but if I don't get in there I think I'll look into something clothed...
(I can't believe photobucket took that picture down... it was NOT innapropriate... it was my avatar thing un edited.)
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You will do fine! Keep smiling and stay positive and energetic.
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First things first, you have to KNOW you are sexy.
Which you are.
But, you will find out that 95% of this job is confidence and the right attitude. Drill it in your head that you are sexy and then you will ooze sexiness.
I would recommend like others said, finding outfits that compliment your body type. A LOT of stripper clothes are geared toward women with huge breasts who are 6 feet tall. Find a sexy dress that you feel confident in, do not try to fit a stripper streotype..
good luck! :)