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private dances???
have you ever done private dances?? I am a waitress but I have a customer that keeps asking me to do private dances.. he says an hour for a couple hundred buck- which everyone knows that means two.. I looked at hime crazy and he said ya that Im worth more than that.. I know he has money.. but Im also scared.. I mean you can never be to carefull.. I thought about doing private dances on the side- I wouldnt want my friends or family to know.. but I think the average song is 3 mins right?? so 60/3=20 20*20=400.. so I would say at least 350?? or is that too much and what are some things that could keep me safe?? I know that I am going to let him know only dance, no sex.. which he knows I have told him before.. and I guess I should give a friend the address where I am going to be (at his office) and tell her I will call her at a certain time and If I dont call.. send a search party??
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Re: private dances???
Err.. this sounds seriously dodgy.
Going to do dances for a guy you don't know well and by yourself to boot is a recipe for disaster. (Some of this is covered in the Private Parties section in the dancers part of the board).
The least you want to do is take a male friend along as security. He doesn't have to be in the room you do your dances in, but he does need to be in earshot.
And if this guy balks at you bringing a guy along as security, you know it's a bit dodgy.
Phil.
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ya I would probably bring a male friend with me.. I just was wondering on the price.. I honestly dont think 200 is worth it.. maybe 400..
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Re: private dances???
for an hour? I know over here (australia) its around $400 for an hour for private shows/parties, and you would have to say that your security is $100 for the hour, so he'll owe you $500 for the hour.
Personally its too risky for me.
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Re: private dances???
Hi BabyBambi,
Have you looked at the Private Party Dancing section in the dancer part of the board? You can probably get some good advice there. I'll give you such advice as I can, but remember I'm not a dancer. (I do know something of the private party scene because I've taken a dancer along to a number of them).
Firstly, don't go without security - it's just too risky for you. What you pay your security guy will depend on the relationship with you. Personally, I won't take payment because the dancer has been a friend OTC for quite a few years now. Other dancers do pay their security. It could just be petrol money, it could be an agreed amount.
Secondly, make sure you can trust who you take along. You definitely don't want a security guy perving on you or getting in anyone's face because they're over protective. Neither do you want them talking about what you've done.
Make sure you set the rules clearly beforehand. If he's asking for private dances at his house, he may be after more than he can get at a SC. Make sure he's clear about what you're offering in terms of both nudity and contact. And make sure that the nudity and contact you give are within your comfort zone - you don't want to get up next morning and think "I shouldn't have done that".
What you can charge depends on what you do. Nude will command more than topless and toy shows more than nude. If you can get paid upfront for each hour, that's good. If that's what's done in the SC you work at, then there's the perfect reason for asking upfront before your shows.
Finally, can I ask you to think carefully about this. Firstly, there is an element of risk in this. You are an inexperienced girl (with inexperienced security) going into a situation you might find it difficult to control. Secondly, try and think through what you'll feel like after you've done the show. Will you be comfortable with yourself, or will you wish you hadn't done it?
Phil.
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Re: private dances???
I used to do bachelor parties before I started dancing for a really good company in Houston. There was a lot of money there but I wanted it everyday, so I went to dancing. Anyhow, We had 2 body guards that worked for the company and took us to every party we were booked for. They also, had a license to carry concealed weapons for if anything got out of hand, but they didn't show the weapons. Everything went great every party we went to. Because the guys were just looking to have a great time and nothing else. So, I say work for a company that already has those things available and can prepare you better for the parties. Good look with whatever you do.8)