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Politics in SC's
Ok, so my club has this special on friday and saturday nights called Dollar Dances. They doa review of the girls introduce them and whatnot. we take our clothes off and go around to each customer and dance on then during a 20sec song clip. We give a 20sec VIP dance for a dollar. I got done with one dance, held out my garter on the top of my thigh, the guy slipped the dollar in and at the same time touched me very inappropriatly. I went over to a bouncer and said he did it, the bouncer told the owner, but because the guy was a friend of another bouncer, they didnt do a damn thing. I told the other girls about this and they said ya its heppened to them by the SAME guy. Yet they still let him in and let him slide.
And there are people breaking rules all the time, but because they "come in here all the time" they are ok, dont worry about it. I didnt hold my garter out anywhere NEAR my V, and he touched it. I almost knocked the guy across his smirking face, but someone told me hitting a customer opens yourself up for lawsuit.
Does anyone have that whole politics game in their club too? I think this is total BS. If they come in there all the time they should know the rules and abide by them. Especially with something as inappropriate as this, and when a lot of other girls have had problems with this guy too.
Help?
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Re: Politics in SC's
No, but if I were you I would be finding a different club!
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Re: Politics in SC's
This has happened to me at an old club. They tried the dollar dance thing for a couple weeks, and eventually knocked it off, but that's beside the point. lol
We had a nasty mo-fo just like the one you're describing, but he was a friend of the *owner* himself. There was nothing any of us girls could do, unfortunately, since they just kept letting him in. He would always reach for some seriously inappropriate places (and often actually get in his sick little grope *shudder*), or kiss our necks when our backs were turned, or nip at shoulders while grabbing asses, etc.
I did 3 things. First, I refused to participate in the dollar dances. I always mysteriously had to use the restroom RIGHT when they announced it, and had to "deal with feminine needs" while in there. Usually, the mere mention of a tampon or other such things was enough to keep the floorwalkers who would herd us out onto the floor at bay.
Second, When they caught on, I just straight up stayed away from the guy. Pointedly ignored him, skipped him wherever he was sitting.
Third, and I DON'T recommend this one, it caused WAY too much drama - when the guy had the fucking NERVE to smirk at me and ask me why I never came by for his dollars anymore, didn't I like him anymore? I got straight up nasty to him. Told him exactly what I thought of his little games and his gropes, called him some creative things to his smirking little face, and told him if he ever touched one of my friends again, I'd show him what I great weapon a 7-inch stiletto heel made. He laughed at me, and told the owner.
I got called into the office, chewed out, and he threatened to fire me. I got snappy right back, and told the owner that if he didn't do something about the blatant sexual harassment going on in his club, that the next time I walked through the doors - whether as an employee or just a "concerned citizen" who happened to work there, it would be with the police, and I *WOULD* be filing charges - all three against the club, the owner himself, and the asshole doing it.
The club quit doing dollar dances soon after, and the guy - though he still came in occasionally - never bought a full priced dance, and either decided that my threat was serious, or maybe his owner-friend talked to him. He stopped coming in about a week before I quit. He was always a complete ass to me after that, as were some of the girls he'd befriended. He would say disparaging things about me to other customers while I was walking the floor or on stage, loudly enough for me to hear, etc. He even went so far as to tell a customer who had just gotten out of a dance from me that he should really go get checked, because I had HIV and another "unidentified" STD. It really got old fast.
The club wasn't worth my staying there, but if you really like the club - it may just be worth it to steer clear of the dollar dances all together, or just avoid that customer in particular. Or hey, if you're as fed up as I was ... go for the drama. lol
Good luck honey! Sorry for prattling!
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Re: Politics in SC's
Avoid the guy.
If he grabs another dancer inappropriately go with her, and anyone else who has been groped by Papi, to the manager, the owner, etc and give them the full story. Tell them that they are encouraging this behaviour by letting it happen and creating a hostile work environment. If this doesn't work, either go to the commissioner with the facts about the club and the owner's "good ol' boy" system. Or just switch clubs.
~K
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Re: Politics in SC's
Like the above gal said, avoid the guy. I was giving a dance for this guy once and he grabs my hips and basically uses me as a portable masturbater, and then tells me he won't tip me extra cuz he was friends with bouncer A, we'll call him.
The ironic thing? I was sleeping with bouncer A. He gave him a SEVERE talking to. Which was especially effective since bouncer A was nearly 300 lbs of all muscle. Needless to say, next time I saw the bouncer, he handed me $100 cash and said it was due to ne because of what happened. I gave him quite a bit of it since he was so concerned about me, and nothing like that ever happened again.
However, if I hadn't been personally friends with the contact, I would have 'accidentally' spilled a drink on the guy, slapped his hand, stepped on his foot with my heel (especially if he had soft shoes or sandals), or 'accidentally' hit him. However, I do prefer Mynxx's solution. Much more effective, and prevents it for everyone.
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Re: Politics in SC's
you accidentally on purpose kick such guys in the face, or slap them.