Nasty Girls vs. Clean Girls rant
OK, this has been a topic before but the only reason I'm bringing it up is because there's an annoying girl at one of my clubs who just whines constantly about nasty girls on the dayshift. I'm ready to tell the annoying bitch to whine to a manager about it because I really don't give a rat's ass about what some nasty girl does with her customers as long as she's not hurting my ability to make money.
I've had my rants about nasty girls but I have my say once and move on instead of going on and on about it every night. One of the reasons I find her annoying is because she seems to have it in for the girls on dayshift. If she'd just pull her head out of her ass, she'd see there are just as many nasty girls on nightshift as there are on days and some are much worse than others.
When I checked out that club for the very first time, I refused to work there because I saw too much shit going on at night. Everywhere I looked customers were sucking nipples, playing ob/gyn both on the floor and in VIP. Since authorities came down hard on the club, a lot of things have cleaned up but there will always be dirty things going on by some girls. For instance, for the longest time, there was some blonde that would flash her pussy for a dollar left and right every single time she was on stage. I don't know if she was finally fired or what but it went on for years. If she'll flash her pussy for a dollar (its a topless club), you figure there's not much she wouldn't do for $5.00. One weekend I was enjoying the fact that I was getting multiple dances from a large group until a nasty girl (yes, on the nightshift) began giving hand jobs to every guy in the group that would allow it. This turned me off enough to leave the group because I wasn't about to go that far. I've even seem some girls go as far as french kissing every customer that allowed it!:O Anyone that swaps spit with a variety of strangers like that has no room to bad mouth anyone else. A friend of mine worked at the same club one night last year and vowed to never return because she saw way too much dick sucking going on. I've never seen that (but then, I don't look for it) but I have seen plenty of hand jobs being performed. Besides, when I saw a girl allowing a customer to fondle her by sticking his hand down the front of her thong while she danced for him, I was disgusted but I kept quiet about it and I'm so glad I did. I later learned from a store employee that the girl has a terribly sad life. She became an orphan at the age of 3, was adopted but became an orphan again because her parents died. She has no relatives here in the states and is married to an asshole that refuses to let her be alone with her kids, frequently threatens to take them away from her and often tells her "Make x amount of money or don't come home!" That poor girl actually feels that she has to make money by any means necessary and she may not even want to go that far.
I prefer to spend more time worrying about myself than about what some other girl is doing. So I'm not gonna sit there and watch my co-workers when I'm trying to make my own money. A girl would have to be flat out rude to me before I'll say something. And when I say rude, I mean like the girl that jumped in the group and began giving hand jobs during lapdances or girls who steal regulars by getting nasty with them or grabbing my customer's dick and/or flashing her pussy to him. I was recently informed by a customer about a nightshift girl who gets her lds and VIPs by sticking her hand down the pants of customers. How do you feel about nasty girls? Are you able to ignore them and do your own thing or do you allow their behavior to get to you?
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i try to not let it get to me. the club i am at now doenst have extras on the floor but i know it does in the vip. once in a while i get annoyed when a customer informs me he doesnt want vip with me because he is looking for a high contact nude dance with touching everywhere 2 ways. I get bothered when guys get very grabby too. I can very easily dissociate myself from the situation when it is one way contact, but as soon as i get the guys touching me i get bothered. when all other girls allow it i have to work harder in my dances so the customer is not bothered by the fact that he has to keep to himself. I seem to make money without doing extras so i try not to sweat it to much.
although there is one older blowjob bitch in our club who gets to me. A. she tries to steal my customers sometimes B. she showed up on a day when she wasnt working with her boyfreind, and flirted with a group of customers who were spending money and tried to make them leave the club to go back to her house and party and C. I left my drink at a table with my friend when i went on stage and she sat down iwth him. When i came back i looked at my drink and noticed someone had spat in it. It must have been her. Fortunately i saw it before i drank so i didnt get all of her herpes. ech.
Other than that im ok for hte most part. I wish a club without extras existed but it doenst. Other reason it bothers me is if the club gets raided i dont want to in any way be legally connected to prostitution...
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I don't really view them as competition. Any guy that is really and truly there just to get off as quickly and cheaply as possible is probably not going to be interested in me. So, good for her for taking them off of my hands, cause it's really not worth whatever measly $1 or $2 or $5 he tips in the back, when he's just going to immediately try to grope me or remove my top. There's really no amount of money that will make me okay with them touching me. And when they try, it just puts me in a bad mood and hurts my money the rest of the night.
The only time I get really frustrated is when there's a new guy in the club who's a little clueless as to how strip clubs work, and some dirty bitch takes him in the back and does who-knows-what with him. Then he's got the idea that you should just expect that from everyone--then he comes back to the club some other time, and likes me, and buys a dance...and then I have to explain that not all the girls do that, and none of them SHOULD be doing it, and sorry if he spent however much $$$ expecting a hand job, but he's not getting one from me. However, this doesn't happen often at all. So I'm usually good. The only time I make a big deal out of nasty bitches is I find out a girl I already don't like is doing gross shit with the guys. Then I make a big deal out of it...but only cause it's her. :D:D
:moped: (<---Sorry, I just think the moped smiley's cute )
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It's even worse when the owners condon the dirty actions for 'business' reasons.
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IMHO it isn't reasonable that 'clean' dancers can actually ignore 'dirty' dancers in the same club, because ...
- 'dirty' dancers increase the bust risk for themselves, but also for 'clean' dancers (i.e. cops often choose to simply sweep up all dancers working at the time) and for customers
- the presence of 'dirty' dancers tends to drive away 'clean' customers (due to rising bust risk amd/or personal discomfort factor) and attract more 'dirty' customers via word of mouth
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Originally Posted by
Melonie
IMHO it isn't reasonable that 'clean' dancers can actually ignore 'dirty' dancers in the same club, because ...
- 'dirty' dancers increase the bust risk for themselves, but also for 'clean' dancers (i.e. cops often choose to simply sweep up all dancers working at the time) and for customers
- the presence of 'dirty' dancers tends to drive away 'clean' customers (due to rising bust risk amd/or personal discomfort factor) and attract more 'dirty' customers via word of mouth
Exactly. And believe it or not - because I've heard and seen men say it. In my club and on this forum, that the risk of disease is low. Bull fucking shit.
Because, if that dirty dancer is in the back sexing up some guy for the price of a LD - did she clear the deck ( so to speak ) from all the others that have been there before? And, just because there's no genital penetration ( at times ) these guys think they are safe. Not so.
Call me paranoid but nu-unh. Information is power and I am well informed.
Busted and a sexually transmitted illness or disease? No thanks. I will pass.
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At my last club we were told that ANYTHING less than full sex was ok. This is in a state where even going nude was touch and go!
Needless to say I wasnt there long.
Re: Nasty Girls vs. Clean Girls rant
At my last club we were told that ANYTHING less than full sex was ok. This is in a state where even going nude was touch and go!
Needless to say I wasnt there long.
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Originally Posted by
Melonie
IMHO it isn't reasonable that 'clean' dancers can actually ignore 'dirty' dancers in the same club, because ...
- 'dirty' dancers increase the bust risk for themselves, but also for 'clean' dancers (i.e. cops often choose to simply sweep up all dancers working at the time) and for customers
- the presence of 'dirty' dancers tends to drive away 'clean' customers (due to rising bust risk amd/or personal discomfort factor) and attract more 'dirty' customers via word of mouth
Exactly. It sounds good to say "only pay attention to your money", but your money is tied up in what the club represents and who the club brings in. If the club mostly brings in extras dancers and customers who want them, it affects your money (and increases your risk of getting picked up during a bust).
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I was totally guilty of being that annoying girl when I first started at my current club. I'd only worked at one place before, that was totally hands-off strict and really clean. Also I'd only been dancing for about 6 months. The first time I saw actual sex acts going on, I have to admit it was a total culture shock for me. I had been to strip clubs many, many times as a customer too even before I started dancing, and NEVER saw ANYTHING like what goes on in my club.
I use to rant and rave about it mostly because it was more of a shock-and-awe thing for me, then when I realized that it might be effecting my money, I really got annoyed. Time went on though, I discovered SW, got some good mentoring from a few decent girl in the biz, and now I have totally overcome it. Now I'M the one teaching the new girls the ropes!!
I DO have to agree with Melonie and Otoki on their comments ^ Even though I have learned to handle being a clean dancer at my club and still make decent $$$, I know for a fact that I would make more if conditions changed. I've also noticed that once the snow-birds leave and I am back to trying to hustke the locals, my $$$ goes down significantly. The snow birds (men 50+ years old, that have money and class and don't want extras) are so plentiful during season that I never have to even get near a local. I stick with one guy all night and never get touched, never get propositioned and make bank.
Now that they have flown north for the summer, my money has dropped significantly. Back to having to deal with nasty, extras-seeking locals all night. I still do o.k., but it's twice the effort and half the cash.
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Originally Posted by
CherryBomb954
I was totally guilty of being that annoying girl when I first started at my current club. I'd only worked at one place before, that was totally hands-off strict and really clean. Also I'd only been dancing for about 6 months. The first time I saw actual sex acts going on, I have to admit it was a total culture shock for me. I had been to strip clubs many, many times as a customer too even before I started dancing, and NEVER saw ANYTHING like what goes on in my club.
I use to rant and rave about it mostly because it was more of a shock-and-awe thing for me, then when I realized that it might be effecting my money, I really got annoyed. Time went on though, I discovered SW, got some good mentoring from a few decent girl in the biz, and now I have totally overcome it. Now I'M the one teaching the new girls the ropes!!
I DO have to agree with Melonie and Otoki on their comments ^ Even though I have learned to handle being a clean dancer at my club and still make decent $$$, I know for a fact that I would make more if conditions changed. I've also noticed that once the snow-birds leave and I am back to trying to hustke the locals, my $$$ goes down significantly. The snow birds (men 50+ years old, that have money and class and don't want extras) are so plentiful during season that I never have to even get near a local. I stick with one guy all night and never get touched, never get propositioned and make bank.
Now that they have flown north for the summer, my money has dropped significantly. Back to having to deal with nasty, extras-seeking locals all night. I still do o.k., but it's twice the effort and half the cash.
Funny. For me, the locals tend to be less hassle because they know the rules:P