Originally Posted by
swaly
Ahh! So I put up my obsessively tailored ad, and got an ENORMOUS response within the first few hours. I'm working on taking nice pics and sending out replies with info. Hopefully at least one or two will be for real and not just spamming CL for dirty pics. Thankfully I live in RI where sex services are legal (so far) so I don't need to worry too much about wording everything perfectly.
I'm so worried, though...it's different from dancing in a club because they don't get to see you ahead of time and pick you out of their own volition. And we'll probably do it in the full light of day...no sexy smoke machine and flashy lights! What if I show up and they're completely not into me? I know I'm just freaking out because it's scary, but I'm wondering how you private party people deal with insecurity before a blind meeting?
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