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I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
It's mostly random and luck. Sometimes you end up talking to the right customer that finds you very attractive and will drop a grand or two on you in one night. If you end up getting along, sometimes he'll come back to spend more money on you at a different time. If you keep in close contact with him, he may offer to buy you things outside of the club like shopping sprees, surgeries, ect.
It really all comes down to being in the right place at the right time and having him respond positively to you.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
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Originally Posted by
NREXM
It's mostly random and luck. Sometimes you end up talking to the right customer that finds you very attractive and will drop a grand or two on you in one night. If you end up getting along, sometimes he'll come back to spend more money on you at a different time. If you keep in close contact with him, he may offer to buy you things outside of the club like shopping sprees, surgeries, ect.
It really all comes down to being in the right place at the right time and having him respond positively to you.
That's it.. plus having to weed through all the posers and players that SAY they will, but are not able to step up or meet your terms. Hate that.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
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Originally Posted by
Crow2
That's it.. plus having to weed through all the posers and players that SAY they will, but are not able to step up or meet your terms. Hate that.
Yep...weeding thru all the posers while being able to spot a pimp...they are getting trickier these days. I had one guy recently promise me that he would go buy me a dress from Marciano, his favorite designer so I could wear it to a party where we would be hanging out with all the Dallas Mavericks...
I told him I didn't know anything about basketball and to leave me alone, but that I'd go with him if HE wore the dress. hah hah. There are so many creeps nowadays! ugh!
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
I know a lot of the girls I work with are on SugarDaddies.com..
Dealing with men at work is enough for me, but I hear a lot about this website.
These girls hardly work, and i see them at the mall with older men buying them things, so they must be finding them on there...
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
Kinda like love. When your not really giving off "I'm looking for a sugar daddy" vibes, he finds you. There's this one customer who paid off my rent in one night, and now everytime he comes into town he calls me up and wants to see me. He's a pain but he pays. I don't think it'll last much longer, because I think he wants to get to the point where he doesn't feel he needs to pay.
So.... I guess he's not really sugar.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
No, it just takes a while...
Might not even take as as long as RL though.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
a lot of girls say sugardaddy4me.com is good
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
just curious do yall plan on sleeping or having any kind of sex with these guys??
I lead this guy to believe I would once, and he bought me like 300$ worth of clothes and dinner.. but I never planed on doing anything sexually.. so that was the end of it.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
Some girls have better luck outside of the clubs. I have had custys that I've met and shopped with or they give me presents or whatever.
Seriously hang out in places where men with money congregate. Cocktail waitresses in the right establishment or waitresses in high end restaurant can get taken care of. Hang out in the same bars where rich men drink. If you're not interested in them see what type of friendship develops. I was a bartender in an upscale bar in a hotel once, never met a sugar daddy but guys were bringing me gifts and over tipping me all the time.
Some men just want to treat 'ladies' as such, and it is a real boost just being in a womans company with no sex involved. Sexy women are status so you can get invited to go boating, go on vacations, lots of dinners in front of the right people, nice cars, jewelry, exclusive clubs and memberships, maybe have some of your bills taken care of etc.
Also expect several sugar daddies. Once they find they are not going to get what they want from you if that is what they are seeking they will fall by the wayside.
@babybambi just to touch on your response and for others never feel obligated to have sex with a sugar daddy. If they try and insist straight up tell them you're not that kind of girl and leave it at that.
Sugar daddy = man who likes your company and likes to splurge on you.
John or Trick = man who expects sex for splurging on you.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
You took the words right out of my mouth! Leading a guy on like that can be dangerous!
But on the other hand, if a man takes you shopping or buys you nice dinner because he wants your company and finds you attractive and interesting than you are bothe benefitting
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
ya, well I told him.. then it ended lol.. 300 dollars insnt a lot anyways
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
seekingarrangement.com is the best in my opinion. I'm a member on other sites but other sites have a lot of "pay for play" or guys that are a waste of time.
I've met more professional and well mannered men to take care of me on SA.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
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Originally Posted by
lecoeurnoir
seekingarrangement.com is the best in my opinion. I'm a member on other sites but other sites have a lot of "pay for play" or guys that are a waste of time.
I've met more professional and well mannered men to take care of me on SA.
So what do yall do?? yall just hang out and he gives you money?
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
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babybambi08
So what do yall do?? yall just hang out and he gives you money?
These type of men (money'd/high profile) just enjoy being seen with a beautiful woman on their arm. It's a trophy thing. Sometimes you'll go on vacations, sometimes you'll just go to nice dinners. Some arrangements have sexual aspects, some do not.
Just like a custie at the club a concept of what he wants...in the rawest sense. It's not that crude in real life lol.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
ya know its funny because my grandmom keeps telling me and my mom to go on establishedmen.com
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
Look for someone that likes to be told what to do so you can just tell them " You know I'd really like it if you'd bring ___ with you next time. The other girls will be so jealous cause I've got the best guy in the whole club." or you can just tell them, "I need to go shopping, and I want you to take me.".
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
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Originally Posted by
pogocat
Look for someone that likes to be told what to do so you can just tell them " You know I'd really like it if you'd bring ___ with you next time. The other girls will be so jealous cause I've got the best guy in the whole club." or you can just tell them, "I need to go shopping, and I want you to take me.".
Yes this is what I've heard. That the most lucrative arrangements come from men who are used to being bossed around by their mothers, wives and daughters. But maybe they tune most of them out? A beautiful sexy woman NOT related to him is different and makes much more obeyable commands.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
@peachplumpear not likely that sort of conditioning will go away anytime soon. :)
To add to what pogcat said: When your around your sd just drop hints of what you'd like to possess.
"Oh these shoes I saw I love so much...!"
Swing by the shoe department or whatever and drool or idolize over something you like.
Trust me I've had guys insist they purchase something for me even after I insisted that they don't even though I brought it up in the first place.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
I met mine in the club, randomly, by chance. When I'm done with this one I'll look for another, probably on SA..... it's the best site.
and no, no sex, ever.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
SA = seeking arrangements?
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
yes- seekingarrangement.com.
They have certified sugar daddies on there- meaning the owner of the site actually makes sure that they're not losers looking for sex in exchange for dinner.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
About sex...think about it. If you sleep with them then they've got what they wanted and the fantasy is gone. In their mind (if were doing our job right) were perfect...especially when they fantasize about us. They don't want to know I won't really let someone stick it up my butt or that I have a gag reflex. Having sex would let them know quick. Sorry to be so explicit, but it is a forum for strippers after all. They want to buy miss perfect stuff, not me.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
working on one now by the way. he spent 12 grand last time I saw him.
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Re: I may be stupid,,, but how is it that you girls find these SugAR dADDIES????
hell! 12 grand, Do YOU need a sugar baby lol haha..