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A new strategy
I've been working in a pretty high contact club for two years and its always bothered me...But in being there so long, I'm pretty good at laying down the law (or so I thought). Then last night I was doing a double dance with this girl whom - I thought- I knew. He was a bit handsy and since he was her custie, she quickly laid down the rules...actually saying that he couldn't touch me the way he did her (Ew).
He's purchased a lot of chips. We're going through dance after dance until finally the other girl says she has to go home. They say their goodbyes and after she leaves, he says he'd like to spend the rest of his chips on me. Already I know theres going to be a problem, but I'm confident I can control him...He has a lot of money, so its worth the extra effort, too, I guessed.
First dance hes starting to mess with my thong, I tell him to stop on two different occasions and he does. Second song starts and he goes for it again...
"I told you to knock it off!"
"I can't help it," he smirks...and I repsond with, "Yes, you can" and proceed to give him the air dance treatment. Then out of the blue, he just reaches into my thong and grabs my pussy! I slap him in the face and step back...but before I can say anything I just burst into tears.
To my surprise, hes horrified...He gives me all the rest of his chips, apologizes over and over until I have time enough to put my clothes on and bolt.
The rest of the night I was totally fucked. I hate how sensitive I can be at work sometimes. I end up going home. But, once I had a chance to calm down, I got to thinking, "Whoa...I need to do that more often! I did one and a half dances for the price of twelve!" LOL
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Re: A new strategy
i don't know why men think they can grab anywhere, especially the private, it's like hey asshole in a topless club, I do not show that nor do I want it touched or grabbed. Well at least you got his money, just remind yourself he's the pathetic loser who has to pay to touch the kitty on an everyday basis
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I end dances immediately if they try to grab my pussy. I usually give them a warning and if they don't respond then it's pay up and walk away time. You're really lucky that he gave you the rest of his money for his indecency. Most of the guys that I stop end up throwing money on the ground disrespectfully haha.
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men usualyy freak if a girl cries because they dont know what to do. most men are outwardly emotional and when time calls for them to be emotional to a stripper especially, they freak out. but good job standing your ground. dont worry about the crying, girls do that all day at work for no reason.
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Re: A new strategy
I'm sorry that happened to you. That dude violated your boundaries--basically, he sexually assaulted you--so it's normal to be upset and cry!
I had a similar reaction when a guy whipped his penis out during a lapdance when my back was turned and tried to force it into my groin. I sat in the DR just kind of shaking until my manager said I had to get back out on the floor (?!?!?!). But yeah, the rest of the night was ruined. the next day, too. It really sucked.
I hope you feel better soon. Spend that dude's money on something nice for yourself!
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i personaly wont dance for american customers because they can be so disgusting and handsy, ive never had problems with other cutomers like i do with them. I decided this a few months ago after i was dncing for an american customer and he was fat and horrible, he didnt want to spend £120 ($185) on vip so just had norml £20 dance then asked if he could suck my nipples, then he wanted to touch, my club only allows airdancing he kept trying and then he got within an inch of touching in between my legs i jumped back and the doorman was straight in there and threw him out and he ws claiming he wasnt going to touch! He was the last straw.
absolutaly vile if he had touched me i wouldnt be happy with a few dance chips, id be clling the police! yuk!!!
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It looks as if they think you secretly want to be touched, but are denying it because that's the rule. I think a lot of guys think that strippers are like what porn stars look like (if they do their job well)- cock hungry all the time.
So when you freaked out and cried, he finally - to his horror - realized that you actually meant it when you told him not to touch you.